The main point of my thread was if you want a quality woman, be a quality man yourself.
One has nothing to do with the other, and any adult who has lived any sort of life around people know this. Quality people get used by non-quality people all the time.
What the hell does BW refusing to take accountability for their decisions and priorities when it comes to dating have to do this?
Explain to me why black women shouldn't take accountability for the quality of men they lay down and procreate with? If not them, who?
Not all black women are whores.
Who in the fukk said they were?
Not all black women are choosing bad guys over the good ones
No one said this either.
Just because your arm didn't get cut off doesn't invalidate someone pointing out that it's broken.
So if you want a good woman, be a good man. That's all.
The world doesn't work this way, and any actual adult knows this.
Saying crap like well when women stop sleeping with these no good men, the black community will become better is downright pathetic.
Because it tells women that with power comes responsibility, yeah, how pathetic telling women to sleep with men that can actually afford to raise kids, actually want to commit, etc, will fix their issues with having children with broke nikkas that only want to cut and run. fukk me for using logic, right?
Ya'll wanna complain about the black community being a matriarch but when it comes down to leading in that aspect, you guys want to cower in the corner.
I can't lead your fat ass anywhere if you don't want to go. I can sit here and tell you come with me to the gym all day but if you wanna sit in line at Cinnabon, I can't force you to do anything. You're asking for a return to patriarchy and you don't even know it.
Also BW refusing to take accountability is a downright lie. There are a plethora of groups catered to black women of all ages whose sole purpose is to make black women respectable including the church, of course not all are going to follow suit.
The church doesn't make women respectable, it makes post-prime women feel better for wasting their prime on fukkboys and lying to them to get money out of them by feeding them hope.
"One day there's gonna be a man that will see your glory and will overlook that you chose to have babies with nikkas that couldn't keep a job at Wal-Mart in your prime"
Hell even Michelle Obama came out and said to us black women to leave bad guys alone and ya'll were like "she better speak the truth"
And yall were silent. So even if Michelle Obama sees its an issue with black women fukking fukkboys, and yall will still sit up on this forum and deny that it exists.
Amazing.
Farrakhan had a message to black men and how some of ya'll ruin some black women and it fell on deaf ears.
Farrakhan also believes a lot of dumb shyt. Some people are going to write him off and not even hear that message because of the messenger. Not all people delivering the good word are created equal, even though I whole-heartedly agree it needs to be less fukkboys and nikkas running around trying to smash everything that moves and focus more on smashing any business opportunity we can.
Point is, black men have ZERO issue telling you its aint shyt nikkas EVERYWHERE, and how to avoid getting caught up.
Then when yall get caught up, its everyone elses fault but yall...somehow.
