Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

[Ozymandeas]

Kids always come first . Only a terrible parent would think they don’t Also this Apple headed heifer is a rich attention whore that nobody should take advice from. Kids don’t choose to be here.

Nah brodie. The parents come first. If you have a shytty marriage, or a marriage devoid of love, that's gonna impact the kids. The parents have to be on one accord.

The Bible says Man-Woman-Children, not Children-Man-Woman.

 

[Belize King]

@Gloxina
We never let the babies sleep in our bed. My Wife was like, “hell no, the bed is our only time together without the little ones.”

I get it.

So much is lost when your children are in your face for 18 hours a day needing constant attention. You can lose yourself and your relationship when you are in the trenches. That’s why I always make sure to “check-in” with my Wife. I tell her to go on vacations or staycations without us. She needs to find herself, get some friends and find a hobby outside of us.

I know our children will always be good, they will always have our love and support. They will never want for anything.

Still my priority is to lead through God and pour into my union first so we can give our children the best of us.

 

[skylove4]

Nah brodie. The parents come first. If you have a shytty marriage, or a marriage devoid of love, that's gonna impact the kids. The parents have to be on one accord.

The Bible says Man-Woman-Children, not Children-Man-Woman.

Give me a scenario in which the parent comes first before the children. Not vague terrible explanations that have been given in this thread.Give me a real life scenario where this applies.

 

[Ozymandeas]

Give me a scenario in which the parent comes first before the children. Not vague terrible explanations that have been given in this thread.Give me a real life scenario where this applies.

Nah Im good. I been on the Coli for 12 years. Everytime someone asks this question, they respond with some absolute bullshyt when a scenario is given. You don't want to change your mind. Just know the majority of people on here don't agree with you breh.

 

[Ozymandeas]

This is not a response to you breh because i know you not trying to change your mind but, if you and your spouse did certain things together or you knew she/he liked certain things and you'd do those things for them consistently when yall were childless but, after having kids, all your focus went to the kids and you spend 0% on your time of those romantic gestures, you're putting yourself on a bad foot.

 

[skylove4]

Nah Im good. I been on the Coli for 12 years. Everytime someone asks this question, they respond with some absolute bullshyt when a scenario is given. You don't want to change your mind. Just know the majority of people on here don't agree with you breh.

No, I literally just want one good example since yall so strongly believe this. And please don’t say any silly shyt like getting your plate first

 

[Hersh]

marriage first scenario:

wife to husband : "how are you?"

husband: response (doesn't matter)... then asks . "and how are you?"

wife: response . (again doesn't matter)..
.. "but let me tell u bout these kids... "

kids first:

wife or husband ( doesn't matter) as partner getting home from work or wherever..

" let me tell u bout these kids"

.. ..


please tell me y'all see the difference.. it's that simple.

 

[Ukbrotha]

Saying kids 2nd seems to trigger people into thinking the kids are being abandoned or not cared for. Its literally the opposite. A strong healthy marriage will show well on the kids. I've been married along time and kids put such a strain on a marriage it's not easy keeping a healthy relationship with your spouse. Its so important to work on your relationship as husband and wife first and keep that solid as that will make your fatherhood stronger. It will also sustain the relationship once the kids turn adults and leave home.

 

[3rdWorld]

Gold digger babble

 

[shopthatwrecks]

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she share that man

 

[Xyrax]

Put your face mask on before assisting others

It really should be common sense and maybe it would be if people thought it through. The knee jerk reaction is to always protect your kids over everything because that’s your biological job, but it’s always in your kids best interests that the heads of their household are in a healthy place.

Exactly. It takes a second to think, but its the right approach. Keep your marriage and relationship strong. And as a UNIT you both prioritize your seeds well being.

Let that union falter and fracture and tell me how your kids fare... Be out there sounding like those single parents swearing that "Akshually single parent households are good for kids too!"

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

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she share that man

Would you stop

 

[Rasille]

Spouse comes first.

 

[timeless]

This is not a response to you breh because i know you not trying to change your mind but, if you and your spouse did certain things together or you knew she/he liked certain things and you'd do those things for them consistently when yall were childless but, after having kids, all your focus went to the kids and you spend 0% on your time of those romantic gestures, you're putting yourself on a bad foot.

Y'all can still be romantic, but you will have limitations. Older folks understood this. They used to tell us, "have fun now". But, parents of today are ready to tap out if the aren't having fun.

 

[WaveMolecules]

No, I literally just want one good example since yall so strongly believe this. And please don’t say any silly shyt like getting your plate first

its simple but when i get home, i hug and kiss my wife first, then my kids.