Ayesha Curry Says Relationship With Steph 'Always' Comes Before Kids

Piff Perkins

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Topics like this really highlight who comes from a normal family and who doesn't. Your spouse comes before all. This is a principle that is found in most religions and every secular study on family health/success.

The only people this sounds weird to are a certain demographic that values marriage less than any other race in America, has kids out of wedlock more often, and spends a lot of time pumping that poison throughout social media. There has to be a united front against the chaos and disorder that very large, very loud percentages of our community peddle. It is killing minds and destroying children.
 

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I don’t understand that example can you give another example or scenario?
You are asking for examples as if they are tasks and that isn’t always the case. Couples can have a certain way they like to deal with issues or communicate and so she could prioritize upholding that method as prioritizing the relationship. Better yet she is saying she is prioritizing the core values of the relationship,
 
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Kids first. I will never understand how a grown man would want his wife to put him ahead of his kids.
When the relationship needs come first the kids will benefit massively from that. Both parents are happier because they feel their needs are being met and they aren’t being forgot about. The responsibility of kids can be hella stressful at times(if you are a real parent this is understood) so having having a spouse that prioritizes making sure you are GOOD first keeps the engine running smoothly and the kids see how a healthy relationship functions.
 

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You are asking for examples as if they are tasks and that isn’t always the case. Couples can have a certain way they like to deal with issues or communicate and so she could prioritize upholding that method as prioritizing a the relationship. Better yet she is saying she is prioritizing to core values or the relationship,
So You can’t come up with three make believes scenarios :sas2:

Anybody want to help him since he’s struggling.
 

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I gave you two what difference does a third make?
You have given me zero scenarios where somebody can say they are putting their marriage over their children. Make up a story if you have to because everything else you posted is vague.
 

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Selfishness.

I don't even know why people like this insist on having children. Must be a social status sort of thing, because I cant understand bringing new life into this world and not dedicating your blood, sweat, and tears to them. I mean, at least until their grown. Lol back in the day mom and dad used to be happy as hell when their kids finally grew up and left the nest because NOW the work was done. Now it was time to walk around butt ass naked and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Folks want to do all this shyt NOW while the kids are still little. Backwards.
 

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You have given me zero scenarios where somebody can say they are putting their marriage over their children. Make up a story if you have to because everything else you posted is vague.
The disconnect is that you are seeking examples to something she didn’t say:

"I think for us, our relationship always comes first," the 35-year-old said. "Then we're parents."

The relationship is the foundation of how you parent. She’s not discussing tending to the basic needs of a child.
 

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Kids always come first . Only a terrible parent would think they don’t :camby: Also this Apple headed heifer is a rich attention whore that nobody should take advice from. Kids don’t choose to be here.
Ofc she knows this. But what she is saying is that she aint gonna neglect her marriage and devote all to the kids. A lot of marriage fail bc of this.

people forget how the kids came to be and lose the marriage in process. Husband or wife start cheating and everybody loses :yeshrug:
 

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Ofc she knows this. But what she is saying is that she aint gonna neglect her marriage and devote all to the kids. A lot of marriage fail bc of this.
That’s common sense but that’s not what she said at all. She said her marriage comes first then the kid and nobody can give even one scenario with this will be applicable, let alone the 3 I asked for :laff::laff:
 
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