Why aren't men like Steph Curry

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I can't say this shyt without sounding like I'm bitter or projecting but if girls chose better guys then all guys would aspire to be better. They have the p*ssy, its up to them to choose who gets to hit. Any women who projects her mistakes onto men shouldnt be taken seriously, period.

And yet not a single woman wants to address this known fact.

How do you want all of the power and yet none of the responsibility? You want ownership of your own bodies and minds, and yet don't want to own none of the choices you make?
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
I don't consider Steph black. :beli:
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It's much easier to be a Ayesha than to be a Steph

Being a Ayesha - Just being a loyal female who encourages their man, carries themselves with dignity and is a positive presence in their SO's life

Being a Steph - Being a tall wealthy male

Women have no issue holding men to unrealistic expectations but get pissy when men hold them to very achievable standards
 

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As far as marriage being sacred, it is to a lot of people. But Savannah made the decision to accept Lebron holding the marriage off. She's cool with it so we have no right to shun Lebron for not being quick enough for some women that's not even the mans wife.

So if the woman is cool with it, that's all there is to it. But a man who hasn't officially married his mate, but still takes care of all the responsibilities a mate should doesn't deserve to be criticized if both parties have accepted the situation. Which is why I responded to this thread, a man holding off marriage is no where near the morally wrong situation of say like a man not taking care of his kids. Completely different situations.
 

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Lemme ask you this, why have a child? Isn't it more of a risk?


OP didn't bring it up, someone else did. Second of all, divorce can be devastating to finances, but being financially responsible for a child even moreso. :jbhmm:

Raising a child while being In a committed relationship (non marriage) > having a child and being divorced
Because after all the bullshyt financial stuff is done, now the kid has to live with one parent.

60% divorce rate:francis:

70% intiated by one gender :francis:

No fault divorce :francis:
= Marriage is riskier
 

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It's much easier to be a Ayesha than to be a Steph

Being a Ayesha - Just being a loyal female who encourages their man, carries themselves with dignity and is a positive presence in their SO's life

Being a Steph - Being a tall wealthy male

Women have no issue holding men to unrealistic expectations but get pissy when men hold them to very achievable standards

/lifethread
 

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Raising a child while being In a committed relationship (non marriage) > having a child and being divorced
Because after all the bullshyt financial stuff is done, now the kid has to live with one parent.

60% divorce rate:francis:

70% intiated by one gender :francis:

No fault divorce :francis:
= Marriage is riskier
So what if you're in a committed relationship, y'all break up, and the mother petitions for child support and custody? Now the child is living with one parent, and the other non custodial parent has visitation and child support eating their check. You see how dumb that sounds?

What's y'all hesitation towards marriage? Y'all tryna save and hide y'all imaginary finances? :mjpls:
 

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So what if you're in a committed relationship, y'all break up, and the mother petitions for child support and custody? Now the child is living with one parent, and the other non custodial parent has visitation and child support eating their check. You see how dumb that sounds?

What's y'all hesitation towards marriage? Y'all tryna save and hide y'all imaginary finances? :mjpls:

A divorce is that + alimony in some states.

So yes, it is riskier.
 

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A divorce is that + alimony in some states.

So yes, it is riskier.
Yea the simple fact is that a failed marriage is gonna fukk a dudes finances up, cause it has been a biased system for years. So its understandable if a dude is not so quick to rush, especially if they not the type who believes love beats all and think there are real possibilities that the marriage could end for whatever reason.

But that just goes back to what I mentioned earlier, if a woman is ok with all this and willing to wait, that's the end of it. If you don't feel you should be waiting that long, leave.
 
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