UPDATE: she was absent today, gonna have to wait till tomorrow 🤦🏾. 2nd UPDATE: Tomorrow I'll have to make a new thread as this one is too incoherent

[LadyJ2]

If she has kids roll up to her with a box of capri suns and tell her you ready to STEP UP.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

You all make dating way harder than it has to…stop overthinking this shyt

 

[Lurkio]

i'm around her age and no dude has ever asked me for "social connect". i was at a concert one time and some young college age girl did though. hint hint

just ask her if she wants to get something to eat, or since you in culinary school you can show her your skills and cook something

So fukkin simple man…but if breh is overthinking asking her out just imagine the bullshyt he’s gonna end up cooking

 

[DamienWayne]

Just like a 21 year old. these birds do not change . After 30 they get way easier

 

[Studious one]

Ok so to be clear, I know how to approach a woman and I'm not afraid of “cold approaching” or whatever y'all call it, because I'm confident in myself and my appearance, me and this woman already started getting to know each other slowly (exchanging names, breaking down what side of town we both live on etc, etc,) plus I can sense she likes me and vise versa as we both be peaking and staring at each other at class even smiling and having a moment where we both lock eyes and smiling/smirking at each other from a distance before we turn the other way...it's not my first rodeo in asking a woman out.

I acknowledge we only live once so you gotta take chances fuk it...closed mouths don't get anywhere I got guts lol I even stayed behind in class today just so I can talk with her for a bit and she asked me why I'm still here and I said because I'm waiting for the next train but low-key it was really because I wanted to get to know her more and I think she knew I was bullshytting .

I plan on spilling the beans tomorrow and let her know the real on some smooth shyt idc

What I'm really asking you guys is how should I go about it due to her being a little older than me? I usually date women in my age range (25-28) so I'm wondering should I use my same technique as usual or switch it up a bit...

Be forthcoming. Don’t stammer, and keep in mind that she already knows you like her. And, have an idea of exactly what you want to do/where you want to go.Don’t fukk it up. As always, confidence is key. Keep us posted.

 

[Studious one]

OP I see you. On your age aint nothing but a number ish.

What is wrong with you?

 

[Studious one]

I think you're not understanding my point.

What I'm really asking about is how should I go about this, I'm not afraid of asking the woman it's more about when should I ask and how to go about it since she's older than me. If she was a woman in my age range (25-28) then I wouldn't have made this thread because I'd be right at home because of comfortability in talking with someone my age.

I don't usually mingle with women this older than me.

This woman is 33 and I'm 27. I've never dated a woman that older than me in her 30s. I'm trying to figure out how should I approach this, should I use my same technique or do I have to switch up because she's older and maybe even wiser than me?

I see. Well, you can make a comment/joke about the lesson or meal in class that day, get ting her to laugh/smile and use that for an opening to ask her out. You could also wait for Wednesday or Thursday, And say you’re glad that the week is almost over. Then ask her if she has any plans for the weekend and use that as an opening.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

You must be trolling breh.

 

[x-factor7]

Nothing special it's just asking women in my age range just seems normal and asking this woman who's six years older, near her mid 30s just feels different I'm not scared or anything it's just different and not the same but I'm gonna ask her tomorrow fuk it .

It's been going on for about 2½ weeks and the way we carry on with the flirting is obvious, me nor her is being discreet about it.

I think today she wanted me to ask her that big question but for some reason I didn't and it's kinda because I don't want to overwhelm her since she's older I figure there's a certain way I'd have to go about asking her.

I told her to enjoy the rest of her day and her face expression afterwards was hinting, she was expecting me to say something else and I know what it was but I didn't but tomorrow I'm gonna ask .

Based on this, you need to ask her out the next time you see her, or she’ll lose interest or think you only want to be friends/school buddies.

 

[Jblaze204]

I even stayed behind in class today just so I can talk with her for a bit and she asked me why I'm still here and I said because I'm waiting for the next train but low-key it was really because I wanted to get to know her more and I think she knew I was bullshytting .

damn that was your perfect opening to let her know you feeling her

best thing you can do is wait for another interaction and drop the line "i like talking to you" and see how she reacts. if it's positive or she asks more questions then ask for her number and you good.

but if she gets quiet back off for a bit.

good luck

 

[Stir Fry]

Ask her who her favorite Pokémon character is

 

[Admiral Kali]

No offense bruh but you kinda sound like a teenager . You ain't gotta front about your inexperience

 

[Hoodoo Child]

"Mr. Goodbar"

 

[BaggerofTea]

If you have ask, you are wasting your time in the long run

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Negrow if you don’t just ask her out

You act like thats a major jump in age. Newsflash, after like 21 who gives a fukk. You both paying taxes, you both are old enough to do anything else legal.

She’s most likely not that different than a 28 year old at this point.