Sauce Mane
Superstar
I feel like op trolling? 
Going on my first date in 5 years and my 2nd in my entire life tomorrow. Any advice? UPDATE: :francis:
Breh I'm just not afraid to admit my L's on the Coli since it's an anonymous forumI feel like op trolling?
bourgeoisie tall freak
Superstar
no offense but you sound like a drag.
i was like that at my last social interaction where i could have made a new friend but to be fair to myself i was in the middle of a ten day sickness
i was like that at my last social interaction where i could have made a new friend but to be fair to myself i was in the middle of a ten day sickness
Marlow Stanfield
Superstar
School 'em breh
@JadeB on the subject of rejection...
If you want a great example on how to take rejection, watch old episodes of Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. Will would holla at the hunnies and they would turn around and walk away, make stank faces and walk away, etc. nikka got rejected 95% of the time but would keep smiling and keep it moving like it was nothing. That is the level of desensitization to rejection to aspire to.
Armchair Militant
Stay woke
shyt, OP is doing better than me. Good luck breh
Straight NFL cornerback levels of short-term memory loss.School 'em breh
@JadeB on the subject of rejection...
If you want a great example on how to take rejection, watch old episodes of Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. Will would holla at the hunnies and they would turn around and walk away, make stank faces and walk away, etc. nikka got rejected 95% of the time but would keep smiling and keep it moving like it was nothing. That is the level of desensitization to rejection to aspire to.
Níggas could be getting cooked all day and have a literal 10 minute highlight reel of them getting sautéed, but let them get one pass deflection
.OP gotta have that level of cognitive dissonance in these streets
Translate this to nikka nerd/blerd termsStraight NFL cornerback levels of short-term memory loss.
Níggas could be getting cooked all day and have a literal 10 minute highlight reel of them getting sautéed, but let them get one pass deflection
OP gotta have that level of cognitive dissonance in these streets
krackdagawd
Inspire.
Translate this to nikka nerd/blerd terms
Getting stomped out in the Elden ring dlc but making progress then going back to the main game and you running through all the bosses like light work.
god shamgod
Veteran
fam gotta be trolling , this shyt can’t be real
BunchePark
Coli N Calisthenics
Damn my nikka
You playing a role on here or you truly have only hit sex workers? And stop calling them that
Call em hoes
You playing a role on here or you truly have only hit sex workers? And stop calling them that
Call em hoes
I'm not playing a role for the umpteenth time. Awkward brehs exist, especially in my generation
. Yeah I only hit sex workersKudos for being honest, seems like every coli breh only dates supermodels and only gets laid on first dates on here.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Speaking of weird coli breh shyt I told a chick on a dating app i didn't have any interest in anymore after she said I was too faraway that I'll teleport to the p*ssy just to see what would happen and lo and behold she blocked me
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Ty Daniels
Superstar
Breh, you are going to have to step your game up.
1. Always bring your card with you, even when you are out alone. If you think you may over spend, then work on that.
2. Stop putting too much pressure on yourself, and the broads by putting them on a pedestal, Woman are human just like you, got flaws too.
3. Plan MULTIPLE dates, with different Woman, this will take the pressure off of you. If one falls through "Oh Well", on to the next.
4. BEFORE going on a date spend some time (hours) on the phone talking, "Get To Know" them there on the phone(as much as possible). When you meet in person it is a lot less like meeting a stranger. Find out what she is interested in, food, what she finds fun, etc.
5. In My Opinion "Dates" especially 1st dates should not be about "Getting to Know Someone", it should primarily be about how you two interact in person. Focus on having a good time.
6. Don't only focus on "If She Likes You", it is a two way process, Do you like Her, now that you met her in person? When I was single I ghosted my fair share of broads, because once I met them in person, I was no longer feeling them like that.
7. Don't be desperate, Woman can "smell" desperation, it is a turn off. Woman like confident Men. While you are worried about "Being Perfect", 9 times out of 10 she has dated and smashed some dude who doesn't give a fukk. Hell she probably went home and called up some dude from her roster.
8. Don't "Beg" a chick for a date, either she is equally feeling you or not, when I was single if a chick thought I was going to chase her azz, I went on to the next.
9. Be confident, dress well, make sure you are well groomed, and your hygiene is top notch. Stop focusing on if the chick is going to "Like You", and start thinking do you really like her, and how will she fit into YOUR LIFE.
10. Properly VET your dates beforehand (calling, texting etc...) She brought a DOG to your date? Her azz wasn't really interested in going on a date with you in the first place. I would have walked out on a broad if she brought a damn dog to our first date.
11. Learn to flirt, flirting with Woman isn't always about what you say, it can be body language, subtle touch, eye contact. NEVER "Fist Dap".
Go for a hug, if she isn't comfortable with that, just shake her hand. But if your game was right, a hug is going to happen.
Most of the dates If been on, I always ended the date with a Kiss, sometimes more.
12. Learn to be funny, being able to make a Woman laugh can be helpful especially when you are getting to know each other.
13. Stay out of the "Friend Zone", all the "Dapping" shyt will get you in the friend-zone, some Woman may get offended that you didn't want to give her a hug, like you weren't attracted to her. That is why I say to flirt with your date, if starting the "Dating Process" on the phone (like you should have), flirt with her there. Be confident, be fun, be interesting, also "Listen". Once a chick puts you into the "Friend-zone", there is rarely any chance you are coming out of it. Any chick I dealt with knew that I could make them laugh, and those thighs shake. Step your game up.
14. I've read on here that you have used Sex Workers before (No Judgement), but if you are serious about dealing with Woman on a healthy level, leave that shyt alone. You paying for female affection, is going to make you weak. Instead of going after it, you are paying for it, which is easier, but not beneficial if you are trying to have an actual consensual, mutually beneficial relationship.
15. Lastly if I remember correctly, you are a Black Man. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH, don't doubt yourself. If your "Appearance" isn't up to par, work on that. Lift weights if need be, talk with confidence, don't come off as "corny", that means don't tell "Lame" azz jokes.
16. Dating is a numbers game, you need as much experience as possible. Not everyone you date is going to be the one for you. Even "Long term" relationships can come to an end. Keep pushing and you will find someone, but make sure that you are ready.
1. Always bring your card with you, even when you are out alone. If you think you may over spend, then work on that.
2. Stop putting too much pressure on yourself, and the broads by putting them on a pedestal, Woman are human just like you, got flaws too.
3. Plan MULTIPLE dates, with different Woman, this will take the pressure off of you. If one falls through "Oh Well", on to the next.
4. BEFORE going on a date spend some time (hours) on the phone talking, "Get To Know" them there on the phone(as much as possible). When you meet in person it is a lot less like meeting a stranger. Find out what she is interested in, food, what she finds fun, etc.
5. In My Opinion "Dates" especially 1st dates should not be about "Getting to Know Someone", it should primarily be about how you two interact in person. Focus on having a good time.
6. Don't only focus on "If She Likes You", it is a two way process, Do you like Her, now that you met her in person? When I was single I ghosted my fair share of broads, because once I met them in person, I was no longer feeling them like that.
7. Don't be desperate, Woman can "smell" desperation, it is a turn off. Woman like confident Men. While you are worried about "Being Perfect", 9 times out of 10 she has dated and smashed some dude who doesn't give a fukk. Hell she probably went home and called up some dude from her roster.
8. Don't "Beg" a chick for a date, either she is equally feeling you or not, when I was single if a chick thought I was going to chase her azz, I went on to the next.
9. Be confident, dress well, make sure you are well groomed, and your hygiene is top notch. Stop focusing on if the chick is going to "Like You", and start thinking do you really like her, and how will she fit into YOUR LIFE.
10. Properly VET your dates beforehand (calling, texting etc...) She brought a DOG to your date? Her azz wasn't really interested in going on a date with you in the first place. I would have walked out on a broad if she brought a damn dog to our first date.
11. Learn to flirt, flirting with Woman isn't always about what you say, it can be body language, subtle touch, eye contact. NEVER "Fist Dap".
Go for a hug, if she isn't comfortable with that, just shake her hand. But if your game was right, a hug is going to happen.
Most of the dates If been on, I always ended the date with a Kiss, sometimes more.
12. Learn to be funny, being able to make a Woman laugh can be helpful especially when you are getting to know each other.
13. Stay out of the "Friend Zone", all the "Dapping" shyt will get you in the friend-zone, some Woman may get offended that you didn't want to give her a hug, like you weren't attracted to her. That is why I say to flirt with your date, if starting the "Dating Process" on the phone (like you should have), flirt with her there. Be confident, be fun, be interesting, also "Listen". Once a chick puts you into the "Friend-zone", there is rarely any chance you are coming out of it. Any chick I dealt with knew that I could make them laugh, and those thighs shake. Step your game up.
14. I've read on here that you have used Sex Workers before (No Judgement), but if you are serious about dealing with Woman on a healthy level, leave that shyt alone. You paying for female affection, is going to make you weak. Instead of going after it, you are paying for it, which is easier, but not beneficial if you are trying to have an actual consensual, mutually beneficial relationship.
15. Lastly if I remember correctly, you are a Black Man. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH, don't doubt yourself. If your "Appearance" isn't up to par, work on that. Lift weights if need be, talk with confidence, don't come off as "corny", that means don't tell "Lame" azz jokes.
16. Dating is a numbers game, you need as much experience as possible. Not everyone you date is going to be the one for you. Even "Long term" relationships can come to an end. Keep pushing and you will find someone, but make sure that you are ready.
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