Crayola Coyote
Superstar
You ask her. See, these idiot lgbt feminist Gen Z females messed up the game to the point were you can’t ask a woman 15 years older than you for her number without it loooking like harassment 
UPDATE: she was absent today, gonna have to wait till tomorrow 🤦🏾. 2nd UPDATE: Tomorrow I'll have to make a new thread as this one is too incoherent
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desjardins
Superstar
Either something is missing from the story or you overthinking this
It's a 6 yr age difference, why would you think you need a whole different strategy to holla
It's a 6 yr age difference, why would you think you need a whole different strategy to holla
Don'tCallMeLuckyB
Veteran
Papa pimp rolling in his grave right now!
UncleTomFord15
Veteran
Breh what 
The age difference is imaginary. You are in same school, probably similar point in your life, even if you have a 10 year age difference, your LIFE CIRCUMSTANCES are more similar than most anyone else. Work/school is where you spend like 70% of your time, and so, right there, you have more in common than I do, even if I am 37. So, her and I would have food in common, but you know details of her life without even asking.
if this really serious lol, you have to drop the age thing, if it's an issue for you, it will be as issue for her.
if this really serious lol, you have to drop the age thing, if it's an issue for you, it will be as issue for her.
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Antwon Mitchell
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I might be overthinking it but IDK I feel like cause she's near mid 30s and I'm in my late 20s that the way I'd ask her might come off immature or a certain way because as I told another bruh that since she's older she may be more wise that if I come at her a certain way I don't want it to turn her off because IDK.
I assumed she might think I'm immature or something if I ask her the way I'd normally do
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OP stays talking all that shyt too 
nikka just approach the bytch and if she says no, she says no.
Women admire bravery and boldness under pressure.
Older women are more lenient with it if you’re younger and might even find you being nervous a turn-on.
It’s that simple.
Ok. I shall begin.
The only kind of man that walks down that path is socially awkward and struggles to find themselves and their purpose in society, particularly in regards to being a “man” which is the driving force behind their mental degradation, largely due to their issues (physically/looks, emotionally, socially, dating struggles, etc, etc).
So they believe in these ideologies and the so-called “motivational” speakers who peddle them as confidence boosters because they are losers who need guidance on how to be/find themselves because they lack natural ability.
These frustrated socially awkward men have convinced themselves that they're the “real men” of society while they despise men such as myself who aren't socially awkward misfits, who aren't struggling emotionally, who aren't struggling in attracting women naturally without the need of “game/tips” from gurus, and aren't struggling with knowing who they and what their place is in society.
Not only do these men despise, lash out at women, and blame them for their problems, but they're also jealous and resent men like me and blame us for their social ills because in their eyes we have it easier than they do. They notice we don't struggle nor have extreme doubts as they do in knowing who and what we are in society, our families/households, we know our place, and we're satisfied, living life with not an ounce of worry in the world, we don't need a damn movement for reassurance because we've been sure about ourselves since day 1 and because of that, we're just as much of a problem in their eyes as the women.
I'm blessed and grateful to not have been born a socially awkward man who doubts who and what he is to this world/society and to the people that depend on him.
That is all.
nikka just approach the bytch and if she says no, she says no.
Women admire bravery and boldness under pressure.
Older women are more lenient with it if you’re younger and might even find you being nervous a turn-on.
It’s that simple.
Eternally Jaded
Superstar
I'm definitely not understanding your point because there is nothing keeping you from stepping to her except whatever walls you put up in your head yourself.
When I was your age (gotchu by less than a decade) I pulled a woman ten years older than me just by being myself.
A couple years later I pulled a woman 14 years older than me by again, being myself.
If you don't believe in what you're selling, how can you expect anyone to want to buy?
6 years older, 3 years younger, 4 years older, 8 years younger etc.
None of that ish matters. If she effs with you she effs with you.
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
Today she asked me how old I was and I told her I was 27 and her face expression let me know she's down with it because we kept talking, smiling and shyt which is when we talking about what side of town we live on, we both live somewhat nearby.
We're in culinary school, we cook and prep food as assignments, today I was cutting up green peppers, onions, peeling potatoes and made homemade french fries
while she was doing something up on the line with salads and shyt but from a distance we're both staring at each, peaking, smiling, locking eyes and looking away after 5-10 seconds of our eyes being locked.
I might be overthinking it but IDK I feel like cause she's near mid 30s and I'm in my late 20s that the way I'd ask her might come off immature or a certain way because as I told another bruh that since she's older she may be more wise that if I come at her a certain way I don't want it to turn her off because IDK.
I assumed she might think I'm immature or something if I ask her the way I'd normally do
You're over thinking it. It's a phone number.
Your making it sound like you or her are cosigning a loan.
fukk the dumb shyt and the set up and the approach. Just pull it out breh. Pull out your phone and look her dead in the eyes and say "what's your number?" No blinking, no looking away or acting nervous. Type that shyt in then hit dial, wait for it to ring or vibrate.
Im joking but you don't have to do an entire song and dance.
Today she asked me how old I was and I told her I was 27 and her face expression let me know she's down with it because we kept talking, smiling and shyt which is when we talking about what side of town we live on, we both live somewhat nearby.
We're in culinary school, we cook and prep food as assignments, today I was cutting up green peppers, onions, peeling potatoes and made homemade french fries
Look, I'm an intensively analytical person, and I have gone through this, it still happens from time to time. This is analysis paralysis. And, you get a dopamine drip every time you push back your asking her out, to "gather more info". You don't need anymore. Just ask her out. Every time you interact she is probably wondering why won't he just ask me out? Ask yourself, can you do this better if you wait? The answer is no.
It would be enabling for me to talk about this anymore.
Let go and let GOD.
She's more likely to be lenient on you since she'll see you as younger and somebody she can mold.....if she's American that's probably what she's fantasizing about.
She's more likely to be lenient on you since she'll see you as younger and somebody she can mold.....if she's American that's probably what she's fantasizing about.
