UPDATE: she was absent today, gonna have to wait till tomorrow 🤦🏾. 2nd UPDATE: Tomorrow I'll have to make a new thread as this one is too incoherent

[maxamusa]

Today she asked me how old I was and I told her I was 27 and her face expression let me know she's down with it because we kept talking, smiling and shyt which is when we talking about what side of town we live on, we both live somewhat nearby.

We're in culinary school, we cook and prep food as assignments, today I was cutting up green peppers, onions, peeling potatoes and made homemade french fries while she was doing something up on the line with salads and shyt but from a distance we're both staring at each, peaking, smiling, locking eyes and looking away after 5-10 seconds of our eyes being locked.

man you in cooking class together!? forget my previous post....when you see her working the roller pin walk up behind her real smooth....than be like nah shorty....like this...and press up against her and put your hands on top of hers and seductivley roll that dough.....maybe have one of those little baking heart cutouts in your pocket and cut out some heart cookies or some fly shyt like that.....you in the game now chef

 

[El Cocodrilo]

The best way to deal with this kind of situation is to STAY IN THE POCKET basically you don't wanna be too forward but you wanna be just close enough where your jab is effective and you can avoid her hooks and straights and hit her with a counter punch if she swings or even a combination. Remember, you wanna be aiming for the hinge of the jaw and envision your fist going through her head so you don't stop short.

Hope that helps

 

[Software]

"Hey how's it going? I thought it was about time I finally come over and introduce myself to you. I'm interested in getting to know you. Would you like to [insert activity here] with me?"

 

[Youngdev]

Social connect

 

[GoAggieGo.]

 

[goatmane]

I think you're not understanding my point.

What I'm really asking about is how should I go about this, I'm not afraid of asking the woman it's more about when should I ask and how to go about it since she's older than me. If she was a woman in my age range (25-28) then I wouldn't have made this thread because I'd be right at home because of comfortability in talking with someone my age.

I don't usually mingle with women this older than me.

This woman is 33 and I'm 27. I've never dated a woman that older than me in her 30s. I'm trying to figure out how should I approach this, should I use my same technique or do I have to switch up because she's older and maybe even wiser than me?

What's your same technique?

 

[Mashal88]

How long has this gone on for man? She's been waiting for you to ask for her number and take her out. First time y’all locked eyes like that you shoulda chatted and then got the number. That's not even a cold approach lol. You're classmates, not strangers on a train.

 

[Chrishaune]

How long has this gone on for man? She's been waiting for you to ask for her number and take her out. First time y’all locked eyes like that you shoulda chatted and then got the number. That's not even a cold approach lol. You're classmates, not strangers on a train.

He's got time. these women are not getting married in a few weeks or months. He's still learning.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Y’all make it complicated lol

 

[jmegamar]

I’m 37. I generally act the same way whether they are 37 or 27. Just be you. Like has been said on here you got people in their 30s and 40s who on social media just as much as people in their 20s. If you let age define things then it won’t last long anyways.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

"I know how to approach women... "


"So how do I approach this woman?"




You can't make this up

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

What's your same technique?

Nothing special it's just asking women in my age range just seems normal and asking this woman who's six years older, near her mid 30s just feels different I'm not scared or anything it's just different and not the same but I'm gonna ask her tomorrow fuk it .

How long has this gone on for man? She's been waiting for you to ask for her number and take her out. First time y’all locked eyes like that you shoulda chatted and then got the number. That's not even a cold approach lol. You're classmates, not strangers on a train.

It's been going on for about 2½ weeks and the way we carry on with the flirting is obvious, me nor her is being discreet about it.

I think today she wanted me to ask her that big question but for some reason I didn't and it's kinda because I don't want to overwhelm her since she's older I figure there's a certain way I'd have to go about asking her.

I told her to enjoy the rest of her day and her face expression afterwards was hinting, she was expecting me to say something else and I know what it was but I didn't but tomorrow I'm gonna ask .

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

33 and 27 not honestly large enough to approach any differently than any other woman. It’s 6 years but it’s late 20s and early 30s. A 20 year old and a 26 year old are miles apart maturely. But 27 and 33 both real mature working adults. Without kids it’s not that different in regards to maturity relationship wise. Plus women always have ideals and preferences and say they won’t date a man younger or this or that height or whatever, but there is always a man who charms a woman to where she atleast says fukk it to one of her stipulations. Just relax. She not 40 or something

 

[WIA20XX]

Nah we're both students, culinary school.

I'm trying to get my culinary arts license and I met her there, we've both been there since November but we're starting to talk to each more than before.

I see the way you be handling them cucumbers, and your skill at stuffing sausage.
Why don't you come to the crib and check out my rolling pin?
Nahmsaying.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

i'm around her age and no dude has ever asked me for "social connect". i was at a concert one time and some young college age girl did though. hint hint

just ask her if she wants to get something to eat, or since you in culinary school you can show her your skills and cook something