UPDATE: she was absent today, gonna have to wait till tomorrow 🤦🏾. 2nd UPDATE: Tomorrow I'll have to make a new thread as this one is too incoherent

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I think you're not understanding my point.

What I'm really asking about is how should I go about this, I'm not afraid of asking the woman it's more about when should I ask and how to go about it since she's older than me. If she was a woman in my age range (25-28) then I wouldn't have made this thread because I'd be right at home because of comfortability in talking with someone my age.

I don't usually mingle with women this older than me.

This woman is 33 and I'm 27. I've never dated a woman that older than me in her 30s. I'm trying to figure out how should I approach this, should I use my same technique or do I have to switch up because she's older and maybe even wiser than me?
Sounds like you are overthinking this. What's really going on? Does she make more money than you or have children? What does she dress like a classy woman and you're used to hoochie hoes? What's the reason for this thread? You just tell her you want to go out and to give you the digits. That's it.
 
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Today she asked me how old I was and I told her I was 27 and her face expression let me know she's down with it because we kept talking, smiling and shyt which is when we talking about what side of town we live on, we both live somewhat nearby.

We're in culinary school, we cook and prep food as assignments, today I was cutting up green peppers, onions, peeling potatoes and made homemade french fries 🤷🏾‍♂️ while she was doing something up on the line with salads and shyt but from a distance we're both staring at each, peaking, smiling, locking eyes and looking away after 5-10 seconds of our eyes being locked.
Bro, this is not the Brooklyn way. Just bag her and get it over with! This post is some dear diary shyt.
 

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Women are the same lol.

I'm 35. This past year, I dated women 25-35 years old. Their age wasn't a factor or difference, the older women just earned more money & more assets like houses etc. A 28 year old woman I dated had more baby fever than a 34 year old I dated
 

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Dog, you not that confident. Maybe with average chicks, but this chick has you wobbly for some reason. It's perfectly normal.


Im an OG womanizer. 31 year old women are tricky. If your lifestyle/money isn't better than hers, you will need to be very charismatic and attractive to her or it aint going to happen my G.
 

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OP stays talking all that shyt too :dead:



nikka just approach the bytch and if she says no, she says no.

Women admire bravery and boldness under pressure.

Older women are more lenient with it if you’re younger and might even find you being nervous a turn-on.

It’s that simple.


I knew I wasn't bugging.:dead:
 

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So as the updated thread title says...

She wasn't in today but will be in tomorrow, I asked our class instructor where she was at and he told she'll be in tomorrow 🤷🏾‍♂️ damn now I gotta wait again 😩

I'm definitely gonna be ready tho 💯
She was with the class instructor last night...that's how he knows

Move on breh
 
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She was with the class instructor last night...that's how he knows

Move on breh
No she called in :comeon: and we got more than one instructor, not all guys, some are ladies.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

I swear everytime I beat around the bush on a woman and then finally got the nuts to say something the bytch was absent every time. You not gon fukk bro. Sorry to say it but the universe just gave you the sign
Nah I'm gonna get that number 💯 I'm too invested now to just quit 🤷🏾‍♂️
 
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I'm gonna let her know tomorrow that I missed her and how class just wasn't the same without her...

It really wasn't the same, kinda boring 😩 I mean most of the other students are cool but when your admirer ain't in the room, shyt hits differently but I got through the day 🤷🏾‍♂️ and plus we made teriyaki stir fry 😌 so it kinda made up for her absence.
 

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So as the updated thread title says...

She wasn't in today but will be in tomorrow, I asked our class instructor where she was at and he told she'll be in tomorrow 🤷🏾‍♂️ damn now I gotta wait again 😩

I'm definitely gonna be ready tho 💯
Bro why are you going around asking where she's at an shyt. Who cares, you'll see here when you see here. You don't even have her number yet don't start catching feelings. Chill.

To ask for the number find a reason for it. Or just straight just ask at the end of a fun conversation. You could either ask for it as it pertains to school or be more direct and ask her out on Saturday.

33 is not that different from 27
 
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