UPDATE: she was absent today, gonna have to wait till tomorrow šŸ¤¦šŸ¾. 2nd UPDATE: Tomorrow I'll have to make a new thread as this one is too incoherent

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I think you're not understanding my point.

What I'm really asking about is how should I go about this, I'm not afraid of asking the woman it's more about when should I ask and how to go about it since she's older than me. If she was a woman in my age range (25-28) then I wouldn't have made this thread because I'd be right at home because of comfortability in talking with someone my age.

I don't usually mingle with women this older than me.

This woman is 33 and I'm 27. I've never dated a woman that older than me in her 30s. I'm trying to figure out how should I approach this, should I use my same technique or do I have to switch up because she's older and maybe even wiser than me?
The age difference here is meaningless, you act like she's 50 :mjlol: and even then, you're both grown ups :yeshrug:
 

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Most women donā€™t deal with dudes younger than them so Iā€™m wondering what made you pursue someone older than you.
 

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Its 2023 and yall in college. Whatever u do, just make sure the consent forms are reviewed by a competent attorney and certified public accountant, signed and notarized. Wear a ring/body cam at all times, and whatever u do, dont smash if she has had even a sip of alcohol or even a puff of tree in the last 4-8 weeks. And if u a breh, just to cover all of ur bases, might wanna have some bail money on hand and a criminal defense attorney on retainer.

:salute:Otherwise, good luck, and enjoy the miracle of modern courting.
 

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I might be overthinking it but IDK I feel like cause she's near mid 30s and I'm in my late 20s that the way I'd ask her might come off immature or a certain way because as I told another bruh that since she's older she may be more wise that if I come at her a certain way I don't want it to turn her off because IDK.

I assumed she might think I'm immature or something if I ask her the way I'd normally do šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™‚ļø.
Man you already lost with this mindset. Depending on how often you see her I would just play the long game. Iā€™ve had classes with women in my past where I just went straight in but I wouldā€™ve done better if I just let it happen instead of forcing it. Itā€™s a different dynamic when you see them in class multiple times a week. If this class is only once a week or something then just ask her out on a date the next time you see her . Itā€™s that simple ā€œhey ________ letā€™s go out for drinks/dinner on ______ at 9pmā€. And if you donā€™t have a place in mind to take her then tell her that you will definitely text her the address of the place before the date. If she declines then Atleast you know where you stand and please donā€™t act like a scorned bytch if she declines. Just keep talking to her and being friendly as you were before Breh
 

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man you in cooking class together!? forget my previous post....when you see her working the roller pin walk up behind her real smooth....than be like nah shorty....like this...and press up against her and put your hands on top of hers and seductivley roll that dough.....maybe have one of those little baking heart cutouts in your pocket and cut out some heart cookies or some fly shyt like that.....you in the game now chef :takedat:

One way ticket to county jail under sexual assault. Back around 2013 I liked this girl in my class and when I gave her a hug I grabbed a big ole helping of YAMS. She definitely got mad and had this been a few years later she probably wouldā€™ve been on some me too shyt :francis:
 

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When she asked "Why are you still here?" I think a lot of men mess up here. Get to the point and be direct. Beating around the bush sets one back too much.
 

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One way ticket to county jail under sexual assault. Back around 2013 I liked this girl in my class and when I gave her a hug I grabbed a big ole helping of YAMS. She definitely got mad and had this been a few years later she probably wouldā€™ve been on some me too shyt :francis:

hold on right there big fella; he's already cool with shorty and the vibe is right....

IDK what the second part even means but yea you can't just run around squeezing yams like its freaknik if they're not feeling u lol
 

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One way ticket to county jail under sexual assault. Back around 2013 I liked this girl in my class and when I gave her a hug I grabbed a big ole helping of YAMS. She definitely got mad and had this been a few years later she probably wouldā€™ve been on some me too shyt :francis:
My guy, if you're not sure that she's feeling you the same way you're feeling her how are you gonna help yourself to a plate?

You deserved the pushback just off the strength of being sloppy.
 

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When she asked "Why are you still here?" I think a lot of men mess up here. Get to the point and be direct. Beating around the bush sets one back too much.
Tbh, that'd be the time to say something like "Why am i still here? I'm here cause you're here" but everyone doesn't have that kind of energy.

Especially when she comes back with "Wow, that's mad direct. Straight shooter huh?"

"From the oven to the plate. I don't know how to be any other way". With a smile, crooked works best I find.

If she gives you good energy, go for it. If not, at least you know where you stand and can turn your affection elsewhere.

Ish really isn't hard.

Tbh just being a clever guy in a cooking class, I'd have so many jokes/wordplay entendres that her face and belly would hurt from the smiles and laughter.

You're squandering it breh by overthinking it.
 
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Tbh, that'd be the time to say something like "Why am i still here? I'm here cause you're here" but everyone doesn't have that kind of energy.

Especially when she comes back with "Wow, that's mad direct. Straight shooter huh?"

"From the oven to the plate. I don't know how to be any other way". With a smile, crooked works best I find.

If she gives you good energy, go for it. If not, at least you know where you stand and can turn your affection elsewhere.

Ish really isn't hard.

Tbh just being a clever guy in a cooking class, I'd have so many jokes/wordplay entendres that her face and belly would hurt from the smiles and laughter.

You're squandering it breh by overthinking it.
I agree. I do believe it's a level of courage all men should strive for. Women arent dumb and they know if a man is feeling em. Those direct questions like "What do you want" or "What do you have in mind if I come over," etc always came off to me like alley-oops mixed with testing a man's courage.

Also, I'm gonna have to borrow that oven to the plate line lol
 
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