As A Man, If You Think That Females Should Approach.....Kill Yaself

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Real Talk. There's no greater sign of a "beta" mindset, than a man who thinks that its a woman's responsibility to approach also. Sure, there are women that do it, but its not the norm by far. As a man, you are the hunter. Straight up. If you want to eat, its up to YOU to get out there and get at these broads. Women aren't going to do it. They shouldn't have to. One thing ive learned is that females want a MAN. A provider and protector. They love aggression and domination. They want to feel like a little girl in their mans' presence. Overcoming rejection is a huge step in every mans' life. I know alot of you who are reading this right now are dealing with it. Ive dealt with it. I overcame it and it has helped me in other aspects of my life also. Just remember: the guys that get the most puzzy, are the guys that get rejected the most also. There just has to come a time in your life where you just dont give a fukk. Thats the key. I cold approach for fun now. I get an adrenaline rush from it. There's women out there fellaz thats just waiting to be approached. Dont EVER think that SHE is going to do it tho.
Real talk,i saw a dude that had to be damn near 70 snatch up a 20something year old chick right in front of me yesterday. We were in line at walmart at the money center and i saw him start talking to her, making her laugh and shyt. By the time they were to the front of the line she had taken out her phone and looked like she was putting his number in there. Now common sense told me that he probably told her that he wants to trick on her or something, but still who gives a fukk. He saw what he wanted and went after it.
But real talk yall, life is too short. Get out in the field. Get that 1st "rejection" out the way then the rest wont affect you none. Peep this cat from @Raul 's thread http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ugandas-ugliest-man-just-had-his-8th-child.330449/

There's really no excuse not be out there in the field eating. Just trying to motivate some of you out there. Ive been there. Its so simple that its laughable. :pachaha:. Get out there and hone your convo skills. And most importantly, always remember that every female is different. What works for one might not work for the other. ALWAYS remember that. But ultimately, its about YOUR mindset of not giving a fukk:manny:


It could be said that the sign of a beta is writing a thesis on something that is so easily attainable. :mjpls: There's a fine line between approaching/thirstiness. If you are in a club setting and you are approaching every cotdamn chick, females are gonna take notice and start to view you as thirsty. Now if there's this chick you've been digging around the way, you definitely need to man up and let her know how you feel. Basically in a public setting, don't chase, post up at the bar, have a conversation, or ask the waiter to invite some girls you like to your table, and converse with them. No pickup lines, just straight up, I like ya, I wants ya....:russ: but you know what I'm tryin' to say.
 

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Men cold approaching women are the REAL betas because most of the men who get the most women rarely do cold approaches. They look/wait for signs of interest or they let women approach them. I did cold approaches on and off from Jan 2012 and my last old was June 12,2015. I initially started out doing them to overcome my fear of rejection but now I want more success and the only way to do that is self improvement, focusing on you and letting the women choose you. I'm tired of working harder and not smarter. Going from 26 and on I'll let them choose me. Approaching women like sales doesn't work.
 
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It's weird because in most social settings I never see guys approaching women. Do u know how frustrating it is to stand at a bar or ever sit next to a guy in class or in the line at Walmart and have a great conversation, good vibes lots of smiles and Eye contact and dude lets you walk away without getting your #. Or a guy saying "let me give u my #". That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. And if I'm really feeling the dude and say " so do u want my #"? And watch a wave of relief wash over his face. Like damn, u were scared to ask? I know rejection sucks but fellas if a woman is giving u eye contact, smiling, touching her hair or face (dead giveaway) and looking around all at the same damn time. Ask for the digits. She's feeling you! None of that look you up on Facebook or ig shyt either.
I know a guy who does that. Hit me up on ig. The girls faces when he does that shyt :mjlol: it makes you look lame
 

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It's weird because in most social settings I never see guys approaching women. Do u know how frustrating it is to stand at a bar or ever sit next to a guy in class or in the line at Walmart and have a great conversation, good vibes lots of smiles and Eye contact and dude lets you walk away without getting your #. Or a guy saying "let me give u my #". That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. And if I'm really feeling the dude and say " so do u want my #"? And watch a wave of relief wash over his face. Like damn, u were scared to ask? I know rejection sucks but fellas if a woman is giving u eye contact, smiling, touching her hair or face (dead giveaway) and looking around all at the same damn time. Ask for the digits. She's feeling you! None of that look you up on Facebook or ig shyt either.

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Says the woman who's deathly afraid to approach men :pachaha:

You're a grown adult. Fukk gender roles. You can approach men too but, most women can't handle the slightest rejection eventhough they hand it out cruely.

You're basically limiting your life partners to men who come to you. When your soulmate might have been the guy who was a bit shy. A smile and hello might have gone a long way to making him open up but cool....
Who says I'm scared to approach? My idea of approaching is giving eye contact (damn near staring) a little smile. If a guy doesn't say something after all of that then I take it as he's not interested, has a girlfriend, gay, etc. but in my experiences if u approach a guy he takes it only one of a few ways. Your a bold whore, needy, a stalker, or desperate while giving up all your power. It's really a no win situation
 

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You can walk and chew gum at the same time. The problem is when you dedicate too much time to the former or even the later if it is having an adverse affect on your life be it with family friends socially romantically etc. Balance brehs balance.
Shut the fukk up, this is a man convo, all you gotta do is open your legs for a nikka and you can not work for the next 40 years:camby:

A nikka thats getting real paper, aint got time to be approaching bytches left and right
 

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Who says I'm scared to approach? My idea of approaching is giving eye contact (damn near staring) a little smile.

See, this is what I'm talking about. Women give you signs that she's interested. It's then up to the man to make his move. Much better (and more efficient) than just cold approaching every women and constantly wasting your time.
 
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Men cold approaching women are the REAL betas because most of the men who get the most women rarely do cold approaches. They look/wait for signs of interest or they let women approach them. I did cold approaches on and off from Jan 2012 and my last old was June 12,2015. I initially started out doing them to overcome my fear of rejection but now I want more success and the only way to do that is self improvement, focusing on you and letting the women choose you. I'm tired of working harder and not smarter. Going from 26 and on I'll let them choose me. Approaching women like sales doesn't work.

Yup this too.
 

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Who says I'm scared to approach? My idea of approaching is giving eye contact (damn near staring) a little smile. If a guy doesn't say something after all of that then I take it as he's not interested, has a girlfriend, gay, etc. but in my experiences if u approach a guy he takes it only one of a few ways. Your a bold whore, needy, a stalker, or desperate while giving up all your power. It's really a no win situation


assume a guy is a gay even when you know he aint to protect your fragile ego brehettes :francis:

us black folks the only people on the planet to think like that:francis:
 
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assume a guy is a gay even when you know he aint to protect your fragile ego brehettes :francis:

us black folks the only people on the planet to think like that:francis:
I said that maybe he's not interested. As well as involved with someone else. Not interested also so means not looking to date or just not in the mood to talk to anyone. I knew as soon as I said gay I would get that " your trying to protect your ego shyt. " Trust me. We as women know that a lot of attractive seemingly well put together guys that happen to be gay are not flaming or effeminate.
 

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Shut the fukk up, this is a man convo, all you gotta do is open your legs for a nikka and you can not work for the next 40 years:camby:

A nikka thats getting real paper, aint got time to be approaching bytches left and right

You can get help for that you know. Remember I'm a black woman I can't expect shyt from a man.
 
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