As A Man, If You Think That Females Should Approach.....Kill Yaself

[Music Fiend]

Real Talk. There's no greater sign of a "beta" mindset, than a man who thinks that its a woman's responsibility to approach also. Sure, there are women that do it, but its not the norm by far. As a man, you are the hunter. Straight up. If you want to eat, its up to YOU to get out there and get at these broads. Women aren't going to do it. They shouldn't have to. One thing ive learned is that females want a MAN. A provider and protector. They love aggression and domination. They want to feel like a little girl in their mans' presence. Overcoming rejection is a huge step in every mans' life. I know alot of you who are reading this right now are dealing with it. Ive dealt with it. I overcame it and it has helped me in other aspects of my life also. Just remember: the guys that get the most puzzy, are the guys that get rejected the most also. There just has to come a time in your life where you just dont give a fukk. Thats the key. I cold approach for fun now. I get an adrenaline rush from it. There's women out there fellaz thats just waiting to be approached. Dont EVER think that SHE is going to do it tho.
Real talk,i saw a dude that had to be damn near 70 snatch up a 20something year old chick right in front of me yesterday. We were in line at walmart at the money center and i saw him start talking to her, making her laugh and shyt. By the time they were to the front of the line she had taken out her phone and looked like she was putting his number in there. Now common sense told me that he probably told her that he wants to trick on her or something, but still who gives a fukk. He saw what he wanted and went after it.
But real talk yall, life is too short. Get out in the field. Get that 1st "rejection" out the way then the rest wont affect you none. Peep this cat from @Raul 's thread http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ugandas-ugliest-man-just-had-his-8th-child.330449/

There's really no excuse not be out there in the field eating. Just trying to motivate some of you out there. Ive been there. Its so simple that its laughable. . Get out there and hone your convo skills. And most importantly, always remember that every female is different. What works for one might not work for the other. ALWAYS remember that. But ultimately, its about YOUR mindset of not giving a fukk

Partially disagree here breh. It's psychology actually. Women ALWAYS initiate.

They give off hints or signals nonverbally that express that she is either interested, available, or interested in being approached. The chick at the gym with her ear buds in is NOT looking for a nikka to come and talk to her and approach. The girl who is out and about in a club may seperate herself from her friends to make sure you know she is available and give you brief eye contact, in which you respond immediately and scoop it up. The girl who is with other guys for lunch, might use body language that says these are not people she is interested in to prevent getting hit on, or to give off the vibe she is available to the outide world.

Not to mention in this day and age, where social growth is stifled due to too much internet contact, approaches can be deemed as thirsty.

I do better on approaches now depending on their vibe. If shes dateable material IMO, It's cool to be straigthforward and funny/corny. But a chcik you are tryna bag, just try and talk to her like shes your homie.

 

[RiffRaff]

I don't think they should be required to.....

But I'm glad they do. A lot of times they do it without actually doing much too. Yesterday I could easily tell two girls were very interested without saying so. The first was the PAWG assistant to my doctor who I noticed had always been flirty around me. Yesterday before the doctor came she came in the patient room I was in with the face and started asking me a lot of personal questions that had nothing to do with why I was there . Then she asked how old I was, I answered and her whole flirtatious attitude towards me shifted to a serious tone. I assume she thought I was older than I really was. . The next girl was this hispanic cashier at a bakery. I caught ol girl get so caught up in eye fukking me she completely lost track of what the woman in front of me was ordering, messed up her order and everything .

And yeah I'm bragging , the life of a decent looking, tall chocolate man with a full stubble beard, that "soft hair", and above average hairline.

My point is that neither of these women had to really step to me like that (although that does happen sometimes especially with the white girls), but I knew they were interested in the kid and had I engaged in just a little of mindless banter I could have at the very least gotten the digits. I don't think there is anything wrong with that and at the very least you know they are probably genuinely interested at first.

ON THE FLIP SIDE THOUGH:

A girl that comes on to you might be flirtatious to just about every decent nikka she sees which means you might ultimately lose her as fast as you got her

While if you can pull a girl that wasn't feeling you at first and they eventually fall for you, those are usually the ones that are all the way invested in you.

 

[thewiz]

I don't mind approaching and I definitely don't mind a joint approaching me but what a lot of yal don't realize is if females were more open to approaching you would have a lot of struggle joints trying to talk to you

 

[Music Fiend]

both parties that are physically capable of approaching someone SHOULD be able to do so if they right time arises.

Exactly. It's not rocket science. There are no rules. But if you are asking me, if you approach every female, sure you may win by sheer numbers, but trust me, you are setting yourself up to be judged prematurely. Being social with does not mean approaching. A lot of women are more comfortable when talking to someone they have rapport with.

Ive always had the best hookups with women i already have rapport with, liek we are invovled in some organization together or are a part of a study group or in a similar social circle. Cold approaches have always either gone super smoothly like 20% of the time, and way left 80% of the time.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

So if im good looking, got money, nice car house etc.not hurting for anything. Lets say i have random females flock to me cause of the position i put myself in through hard work and smart career choices. Which also puts me in the position to fukk at a highier rate than dudes who "need" to approach, that means ima beta?

Judge yourself by standards females only put on select dudes brehs.

Ignore women giving you obvious signs she down cause its all about the "hunt" brehs.

If you putting out the right vibe all that cold approach shyt aint nessassary.
Rarely do i put muself in the situaltion where the overall out come in out of my hands.

When its time to eat rearly do lions go hungry. Why, because they have the tools to eat/hunt.

Nevermind the lioness doing all the work.

 

[Quiet Magician]

So if im good looking, got money, nice car house etc.not hurting for anything. Lets say i have random females flock to me cause of the position i put myself in through hard work and smart career choices. Which also puts me in the position to fukk at a highier rate than dudes who "need" to approach, that means ima beta?

Judge yourself by standards females only put on select dudes brehs.

Ignore women giving you obvious signs she down cause its all about the "hunt" brehs.

If you putting out the right vibe all that cold approach shyt aint nessassary.
Rarely do i put muself in the situaltion where the overall out come in out of my hands.

When its time to eat rearly do lions go hungry. Why, because they have the tools to eat/hunt.

Nevermind the lioness doing all the work.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I would never approach a man.

If a man is interested in me, he would say something. If he isn't, then I'm not gonna run up into his space and bother him.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

I wasnt really using me as an example but i do closely resemble,in real life what i put in that post.

An average looking dude with a average car and a nice place to stay thats confident in who he is will get chose.

You saying alot about yourself breh.

I got nephews fresh outta high school driving buckets living with they moms who got females choosing.

Even if you ugly its no excuse.

Walk around in your uncles engeneering work clothes. And if you know what to look for you gone eat, trust.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

I would never approach a man.

If a man is interested in me, he would say something. If he isn't, then I'm not gonna run up into his space and bother him.

What do you mean by "bother him"

You love the attention.

 

[theflyest]

What's funny is that females will wrongly label an obviously straight dude as gay because he ain't sweatin them, but be completely oblivious to a real gay nikka right in front of their face.

This is true

Nyggas can read another nygga better than women. If your sister/daughter brought a man over, you tell if he isn't shyt within 10 seconds while a woman would be oblivious. It's odd to me, because women can have dating experience & still can't read a man well at all.

 

[Ashley Banks]

What do you mean by "bother him"

You love the attention.

talking to him

@ the bold what are you talking about?

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

talking to him

@ the bold what are you talking about?

but you are ok with him bothering you?

 

[Payday23]

It's weird because in most social settings I never see guys approaching women. Do u know how frustrating it is to stand at a bar or ever sit next to a guy in class or in the line at Walmart and have a great conversation, good vibes lots of smiles and Eye contact and dude lets you walk away without getting your #. Or a guy saying "let me give u my #". That's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. And if I'm really feeling the dude and say " so do u want my #"? And watch a wave of relief wash over his face. Like damn, u were scared to ask? I know rejection sucks but fellas if a woman is giving u eye contact, smiling, touching her hair or face (dead giveaway) and looking around all at the same damn time. Ask for the digits. She's feeling you! None of that look you up on Facebook or ig shyt either.

If you liked the man so much why didnt you give him your # instead of being set in your ways. Most guys cant read body language. Women with their passive mentality Bs gets me loling everytime.

 

[Payday23]

Says the woman who's deathly afraid to approach men

You're a grown adult. Fukk gender roles. You can approach men too but, most women can't handle the slightest rejection eventhough they hand it out cruely.

You're basically limiting your life partners to men who come to you. When your soulmate might have been the guy who was a bit shy. A smile and hello might have gone a long way to making him open up but cool....

You ever wanna see a fire storm, reject or tell a girl NO. That ego is absurd.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

I never approach women, they approach me. And the few times I have approached I've never been rejected. Why the fck would I approach a female who's throwing a bunch of signs at me? It's 2015 if females see something they like they need to go for it! If you can't do so much as to walk up to me and shake my hand because you think your puss grants you automatic approaching powers then you're not worth my time. Any female who tries that shyt with me will get automatic bush status and I'll make sure they KNOW they're being thrown to the bushes.

My time cost and I'm not about to waste it by approaching random females or females who try to do extra in hopes I'll notice them, be a woman.