As A Man, If You Think That Females Should Approach.....Kill Yaself

[PhonZhi]

Yall Kent TV nikkaz are hilarious

I keep seeing mentions of "kent tv" here but i have no clue what that is

 

[PhonZhi]

Men cold approaching women are the REAL betas

Only on the internet.

 

[PhonZhi]

Who says I'm scared to approach? My idea of approaching is giving eye contact (damn near staring) a little smile. If a guy doesn't say something after all of that then I take it as he's not interested, has a girlfriend, gay, etc. but in my experiences if u approach a guy he takes it only one of a few ways. Your a bold whore, needy, a stalker, or desperate while giving up all your power. It's really a no win situation

These dudes dont get it. You're wasting your time. And i personally find a woman approaching boldly a TURN-OFF. Nothing wrong with showing signs but ultimately it needs to be the man that notices and then makes the move. Women like assertiveness. If you're too shy/timid to make a move AFTER receiving clear signals then thats showing her that you are probably a weak dude that she wouldnt want to procreate with and have babies inheriting your weak genes.

 

[Westcoastnative]

Boosting some random woman's ego on my behalf by approaching her? fukk that, they don't even find the majority of men attractive that approach them.

I remember reading a long ass thread on LSA and all the women were complaining about the quality men and how unattractive and ugly the men were approaching them. Yet these same women would rather risk 'ugly' men approaching them rather than them getting off their asses and going after the type of men they're looking for.

 

[CHILLL]

Boosting some random woman's ego on my behalf by approaching her? fukk that, they don't even find the majority of men attractive that approach them.

I remember reading a long ass thread on LSA and all the women were complaining about the quality men and how unattractive and ugly the men were approaching them. Yet these same women would rather risk 'ugly' men approaching them rather than them getting off their asses and going after the type of men they're looking for.

if u believing wat women say rather what they do u already losiing

 

[CHILLL]

These dudes dont get it. You're wasting your time. And i personally find a woman approaching boldly a TURN-OFF. Nothing wrong with showing signs but ultimately it needs to be the man that notices and then makes the move. Women like assertiveness. If you're too shy/timid to make a move AFTER receiving clear signals then thats showing her that you are probably a weak dude that she wouldnt want to procreate with and have babies inheriting your weak genes.

when they get desperate they would date them dudes but believe them nikkas gon be the bytch in the relationship

 

[Ohene]

I approach damn near one female a day. Some days I'll holla at like 4,5 on my way home from work and during lunch. It's fun. Still it's nice when they holla at you

 

[Ohene]

true. But ive seen cats repeatedly on the "wait for her to give you signs" tip. Maybe if you're in a situation where you see her everyday like school. But if your in the grocery store and you got one shot, then aint no waiting for her to give you signs,cuz more often than not its not going to happen. Cats would be amazed at how far a simple "hi, how you doing good looking" can get you.

Real nikka shyt

 

[ridedolo]

Damn a lot of yall sound young, scared of rejection and mad insecure on here. I've had shortys bag me but I don't expect it to always happen. U gotta go for what u want brehs. most women are timid with this type of thing so don't miss out cause you scared.

 

[PhonZhi]

My thing is this:

When I'm feeling it.... when I'm in that mode.... I can approach ANY woman, I don't care how bad she is...

If I see Beyonce walking down the street, Imma step to her and see what's up

I feel like that today.... lil shorty came into my office, she was mean muggin at first... I thought to myself, "Imma make this chick talk to me"

by the time she left out, we exchanged names and had a full conversation and she was laughing and enjoying it

she was engaged, so I didn't get the num.... but that's besides the point






I guess what I'm trying to say is... play to your specific strengths

I told my little brother this. The way that i got comfortable approaching ANY woman (and ya boy has approached some pretty bad sistas in my lifetime)...

but the way I got comfortable doing that was.... I noticed a trend

I noticed that on days where I was feeling myself (just knew I was dressed nice, just knew I was smelling good, or was just irrationally confident for some other reason, fresh haircut or whatever)....
those were the days that I was fearless

so I decided that I needed to be fearless everyday... and I need to recreate that type of atmosphere about myself every day

once I started doing that, approaching came easy

I'm not going to say that I don't have bad days

had a bad day Saturday.... chick was GIVING me the eye in Wally World, brehs.... kept looking at me, smiling at me, practically begging me with her body language to come talk.... and I didn't

my rationale for it at the time was.... she was with a dude that looked like her almost grown son (dude looked like he was 16) and she was with a "lesbian" chick that seemed around the same age (late teens).... but was clearly a dyke.... (not a stud, but she was like Sanaa on Love and basketball.... kinda had that demeanor and was dressed the same.... well maybe she wasn't a dyke, but she was dressed just like Sanaa in that movie)

so I'm trying to find a way to approach while this chicks nearly grown son and this unknown "lesbian" chick is standing right there

I just couldn't figure out what the situation was.... I started thinking that maybe the unknown "lesbian" chick was her gf or something....

the situation just kinda threw me off.... and even though chick was beckoning me with her eyes.... I fell back


but I regretted it afterwards though

I should have been fearless and approached anyway

and that's what I feel OP is trying to say....

You have to develop that air of fearlessness about you...

even if you a fat broke dusty nikka with diabetes, if you have an irrational self-confidence about yourself, it will make you fearless

You have to be fearless. If you're not self-confident, then fake it till you make it


it's what I did

and if y'all seen some of the chicks that I've talked to in the past.....

I'm talkin straight dimes, BREHS

y'all don't hear me BREHS



but it all came from me being fearless

"Fearless" perfect word. You get it. That feeling of regret is the worse aint it? Dont listen to these cats in here. One dude said that he doesnt talk to women because of 1 random "street harrassment" video on the internet. Its about being bold. Dont let these dudes tell u its "a waste of time". How? I would much rather get rejected than have that feeling of regret. Keep at it bruh. They're just tryna convince themselves and justify their own cowardness towards the opposite sex. As long as u are respectful and dont come off as too thirsty u should be good. And if u get rejected, oh freakin well. Atleast u tried. And always remember that its a numbers game.

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

Honestly I can see both sides of this, but overall I don't see anything wrong with either gender approaching the other. Me for example, my gf was the one who holla'd at me.

 

[PhonZhi]

I approach damn near one female a day. Some days I'll holla at like 4,5 on my way home from work and during lunch. It's fun. Still it's nice when they holla at you

My G getn at these broads

 

[Barnett115]

Let's not forget the whole "street harassment" video from NYC. After watching that, why would I wanna cold approach women anymore. MOST dudes( myself included) are not looking for trouble, all we trying to do is meet an attractive women and maybe date and take it from there...but nah these women don't want you even looking their way unless you got Denzel looks, 2pacs swagger, Bill Gates money, Idris Elbra's height, the Rocks body and Kevin Harts sense of humor COMBINED. So nah I don't do cold approaches anymore, just going focus on me and if a woman is interested she will make it so obvious my damn dog can recognize

This.

These clowns want men to boost women's already massive egos

Nah, I dont let women define my purpose. I do me and if one is interested, they'll show me so and we can take it from there but I'm not going out of my way to gas these females up

 

[Ohene]

My G getn at these broads

I've told ppl on here...just open your mouth and blurt something out then depending on their response take it from there.Its REALLY that simple

 

[PhonZhi]

Honestly I can see both sides of this, but overall I don't see anything wrong with either gender approaching the other. Me for example, my gf was the one who holla'd at me.

Ive been approached also, but i dont think any man should EXPECT women to approach. Cats in here legit furious because women dont walk up to THEM