Well, I hate to say this but up North especially that ain't healthy for Black relationships. Question: who were the Jews, Hispanics and even Asians taking to prom? WW right?
You cut and pasted this from the LSA thread, right? You live in ATL now I assume, I grew up there. I am older but in the 90s and 00s I could literally count on one hand the number of BM/WW couples at proms and I went not just to my public school one (50% Black) but some of the elite private school proms to since I dated some of those girls. Maybe this is a new thing but areas do matter.
Same with college. I went to a public PWI with about 8-10% Black people. Almost never saw many BM/WW relationships outside of athletes (though obviously people smashed). My wife went to a top Ivy. It was almost all BM/WW. So yeah, their experiences are real but they are contextual.
Cause it is based out of SoCal experiences. I hate to say this but dudes in SoCal swirl ridiculously. Also please, never include athletes in these comparisons. They aren't typical of the overall Black population.
I don't know what they do honestly. Jews went to Jewish schools. Hispanics were barely speaking English in my era, and Asians just was too small of a popl in my area. It was mainly black and white for the most part.
Naw, the girls twitter post. My VPN fukks up all twitter posts so I had to copy and paste it. Naw but born and raised in the city and in the metro area. My school was different, we didn't have a lot of brehs at the porm with pawgs but they was dating and fukking em like rabbits. My sisters gen was more than dating em. They was going to proms and the whole nine. Looked like this:
Like this pic, it was a lot of the athletes and guys all girls liked, not just the sistas. In my gen, we were too gangsta to be seen with in public. I remember rocking Platinum FUBU with a durag on at school. Them hoes was not trying to be seen with us by their parents. These nikkas was rocking American Eagle, euro designers, and shyt, just not the same era anymore. My era, everything was Black outside of the hoes you fukking. These nikkas tho, they rock Givenchy. I couldn't even pronounce that shyt when I first saw it. I asked my wife, what's this shyt these nikkas wearing today?
White colleges are so strange. I've seen nikkas pawgin who was like, 100% down with sistas in HS. It's proximity man but I get it, sistas are right, they are there but they like family to these nikkas. I asked one who played football at UGA, he said, they are like my sister, I can't do that. I am just tryna smash anyway. Thing is, he eventually married a pawg. If you smashing, you likely, liking em as well.
I am a former athlete at least for a couple seasons, my experiences will be biased to some degree.