Don't be ugly, have some social skills 
Men are reacting to this video on why they stopped Cold Approaching for good
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Most y'all nikkas saying don't be ugly are ugly as shyt.
Physical "Attraction" with women doesn't work in the same way as men.
Physical "Attraction" with women doesn't work in the same way as men.
)The Wall Is Undefeated!
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- "Don't flirt with females. Don't compliment them Don't do anything just make your money and deal with people who deal with you."
- "Man! I told one woman she looked just fine with no makeup and her hair freshly washed that i would take her out just like that... she snapped on me. I'm NOT SLEEPING WITH YOU, AND YOU AREN'T PAYING FOR MY HAIR WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT IT?. WOW "
- "This is why I don't even talk to women I don't know. You can be kind and polite and she will make a big scene if she don't find you attractive."
- "She did a great job with her explanation. Chivalry is dead and women killed it."
- "That's why they say women are TERRIBLE COMMUNICATORS. THEY JUST LIKE TO TALK A LOT. there's a difference"
damn
As a Cold Approach breh I can't relate, but I can definitely empathize where they are coming from
Finally, a western wahman being honest. That's like arsenic and kryptonite to the Western Wahmenhood and thecoli simps.
The Wall Is Undefeated!
Superstar
You get it. Unfortunately, many on thecoli don't get it.
Yes and no tho. The key phrase isnt "physically atractive", just "atractive" in general. I get what @Braman is saying.
You are focusing on one specific kind of atraction, and a lot of woman arent in the market for it. Physical atraction isnt the only factor. Its not even the most important one for many women.
As an analogy, compare the dating matket to vehicle market . If men were cars and you are gauging what makes a buyer atracted to them, yes how they look is one factor, particularly for young buyers. But many buyers are ambivalent to the look and instead prefer performance or safety or trendiness or long term reliability or even just a specific color. By this , i mean that Yes a landrover or porche is physically atractive, but many people that are equally eligible for the good looking cars are more drawn to the corrola for reliability or a jeep for performance or just really like orange jags or the fuel economy of a prius or an f150 for tow capacity or a BYD for technical features.
Women have a very similar market for men. The nerdy girl doesnt want flashy, but wants technical. The heart broken girl wants reliable. The corporate climber doesnt want the good looking, but is atracted to a high performing social peer. The gold digger doesnt want handsome joe, but wants the receding hairline lawyer. Single mother isnt hunting for atractive, but wants a man with the capacity to care for her brood.
Only extremely young women in college or highschool value physical atractiveness to the extent you describe because they havent developed as people yet.
2 things.
First) do you see my last paragraph above about age? This is a huge issue in biological, and psychological research because the most readily accesible study participants tend to be the students of the universities doing the research. This biases a lot of their data when the pool consists almost entirely of 18-23 yr olds.
This is The exact group that values atractiveness because of them being undeveloped post highschool.
Second)
scientific studies on physical atractiveness dont prove anything about the supremacy of good looks because by their nature they can only test one variable at a time. Even if you dealt with age bias, Women are drawn to multiple variables, but the inclusion of them in a single study makes the statistical correlation faulty between individual variables. So you tend to get studies on a specific factor like facial atractiveness. But that one factor is divorced from other variables .
There are other factors covered in seperate papers. For example , i can post any number of R1 research articles on women being drawn to a man's scent (yes you heard me). Or R1 journal entries the atraction of men's voices . Or soceoeconomic atraction to men.
But You would need a wide reaching meta analysis of these variables to claim physical atractiveness is more important than the other factors.
First) do you see my last paragraph above about age? This is a huge issue in biological, and psychological research because the most readily accesible study participants tend to be the students of the universities doing the research. This biases a lot of their data when the pool consists almost entirely of 18-23 yr olds.
This is The exact group that values atractiveness because of them being undeveloped post highschool.
Second)
scientific studies on physical atractiveness dont prove anything about the supremacy of good looks because by their nature they can only test one variable at a time. Even if you dealt with age bias, Women are drawn to multiple variables, but the inclusion of them in a single study makes the statistical correlation faulty between individual variables. So you tend to get studies on a specific factor like facial atractiveness. But that one factor is divorced from other variables .
There are other factors covered in seperate papers. For example , i can post any number of R1 research articles on women being drawn to a man's scent (yes you heard me). Or R1 journal entries the atraction of men's voices . Or soceoeconomic atraction to men.
But You would need a wide reaching meta analysis of these variables to claim physical atractiveness is more important than the other factors.
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Those memes are funny about the handsome guy vs ugly gang guy saying the same thing to a woman with different responses. But men are the same. Ugly ass chick say damn you fine, and you feel uncomfortable and laughed it off or dip off. But she look good and your schedule just got busier .
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
I dont understand how nikkas dont get this. Its almost like they are playing stupid.
Cause these nikkas are gynocratic slaves. The stats tell us our society is in shambles and they will tell you everything is ok lol
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
This is 100% true.
It’s not difficult to approach and talk to any woman. Seems the main problem is anxiety for some reason. A lot of people think they are going to say a pick up line that will totally get her attention immediately. Women can smell and sense desperationDon't be ugly, have some social skills
Im Larry Holmes status, dating scene is very different.
Thurgood Thurston III
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We can argue about whether or not it is the most important factor.
But my point is that it IS an important factor. Women absolutely value it across all ages.
The guys I am arguing with here are claiming otherwise.
Yes, some women have the sense to value other qualities.
Yes, some women have to settle men they may not find facially appealing.
But they still care about it.
Maybe if we broke down the situations because I always approach these discussions as if it's about CASUAL sexual relationships where looks are absolutely king. Again, women are deciding what "looks" means here. It's subjective but each individual woman values it.
If we're talking about long term relationships, it becomes about partner RETENTION as well as partner desirability. Often those two won't align which is how you get situations like this:
Shackelford, T. K., Weekes-Shackelford, V. A., LeBlanc, G. J., Bleske, A. L., Euler, H. A., & Hoier, S. (2000). Female coital orgasm and male attractiveness. Human Nature, 11(3), 299–306. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12110-000-1015-1
