You don't have to be fake. Plenty of straight to the point people in this world. Soon as someone comes in the office after a weekend I'm throwing numbers and work at them. I always get hit with the "not even a hi, how was your weekend"that's my problem with it. I'm not good with making these little "fake" relationships just for the sake of getting ahead somewhere.. I like things to happen organically and I'm not good at being fake.
I wish I did.
What sucks is all that networking and knowing people bullshyt is just not my personality. I have a small group of really good friends and I'm not very good at small talk or bullshytting and networking just for the sake of networking. In fact, just the word "networking" makes my skin crawl.
He is white.I feel you on the networking part. I wish I could give u some advice but I don't know what to suggest other than maybe calling on your frat brothers if your in a frat or joining a young black professionals group. Or just starting out in something that wasn't your major. I have a business degree but I curr work in the medical field and I like it more. It's good to be versatile so u always have something to fall back on
Unless you are trying to be a doctor/go into law, or work at some ultra conservative private company all you need is a degree and experience, GPA means nothing.
And that's why your ass gonna stay minimum wage
You know how hard it is just to get someone to give you an interview? It's like pulling fukking teeth out here. I'm good in interviews, I'm a loner as well but I'm a good communicator and funny, I've been told multiple times I'm good in interviews but that they went with someone who had experience over me who just graduated and have none. Now I can't even get anyone to give me an interview.
Depends on where you reside as well. I see you have VA up so I understand. I leaving Miami for LA to try so I know how fukked it is. Got to be able to move once you get some bread or a sucker together.
My father is a foreman of a construction job and he won't even hire me. However, he always love to talk shyt to me. It honestly makes me even more upset.I can honestly say that every job that I've gotten is because I knew someone. It's sad but if it wasn't for my father working for a successful company and his boss taking a liking to me I wouldn't have had many opportunities like I have. I'm gonna keep it real. The main reason that a lot of blacks are left out is because we don't have the generational backing like whites. They always have and uncle, cousin, family friend, etc that can usher them into positions