Why aren't men like Steph Curry

[GilSho]

20 pages @Dollfacecraze

OP won

 

[mcdivit85]

funny, a BROTHER wrote an article on this very subject for theroot.com; check the comments section:

Black Women Should Be Like Ayesha Curry? How Many Black Men Are Willing to Be Like Steph?

Dude has a point

You got n#ggas on here talmbout how they're never going to get married with their $75K salary...and no fame...in their 1 bedroom apartment. Imagine how they'd feel if they were a millionaire all their adult life. With fame. In a first class city like San Francisco. In their 20s.

We can debate all day about how most women don't want to be or can't be Ayesha Curry in their prime. But how many men, black men for this discussion, would be willing to get married at 23 with millions of dollars, high notoriety and in a city like San Fran with a bunch of single, attractive women?

Matter of fact, how many black men would be willing to get married at 27 with a $150K salary in Memphis?

So, I'm all for the debate on why black women aren't like Ayesha. But let's keep it a buck...most black men aint like Steph and don't want to be.

Peace

 

[BigMan]

It was a joke

His sister brought this up years ago

nikka got bad delivery lol. He still in the mulatto range based off dna

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

But usually those type of dudes that tell BW to get their shyt together are educated, professional, responsible, don't have kids unless they are married, etc. Yet BW try to deflect by taking about men that ain't shyt.

Right.

Why would an aint shyt dude wtih no job and nothing to his name tell you to stop messing with nikkas with no job and nothing to their names???

 

[Neuromancer]

This nikka @Bugatti Biceps looking like Tyson in his prime with an opening in this thread.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

Matter of fact, how many black men would be willing to get married at 27 with a $150K salary in Memphis

I'm 30, and not in Memphis (because I like my life and I like smart people), but this is basically me.

Like I said, I've seen PLENTY of available and successful black women at the professional events I go to. Problem is, they still measuring their worth by the same stick men measure their worth, and that's not how men measure the worth of women. On top of that, they still date mentally like they are 18. They still think physical characteristics are the number 1 thing to determine their interest, meanwhile they are 36 and their looks are fading.

It's an entitlement complex because they feel that since they "did everything the right way", that some 6'4" millionaire should walk through the door and sweep them off their feet, and they are legitimately holding out for that.

I did things the right way (mostly) too, but I'm not waiting for Halle Berry to come through the door and suck my dikk everyday. I live in reality and know my professional accomplishments has nothing to do with my personal life outside of the means it gives me to provide for myself and others.

 

[Womb Raider]

lmao at this corny ass thread



most of these hoes don't deserve a Steph and most of these nikkas don't deserve an Ayesha

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

You're so wrong

All white females care about is looks. If you're not good looking, white females wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. You could be a poor POS CAC with a record but if you're good looking, white girls will bust it open

The OOW rate is because some girls get finessed by guys with mouthpieces but black girls actually care about dating guys with comparable personalities unlike who're girls

Too bad things like numbers, history, and facts ain't on your side breh.

 

[boyboy]

After my day at work I see this thread is still rolling...lol

Hopefully one day women with Halle Berry complexes will see the light. And hopefully one day more black men will get themselves together.

 

[Gold]

@Bugatti Biceps gon f#ck around and double his rep in this one thread

Peace

I'm saying breh. @Bugatti Biceps outchea asking simple questions and getting ducked on dodged on every page.


Let my sister come around with a baby she made with a fukkboy and try to blame white supremacy and social conditioning .


Nah, you got with a worthless nikka, you gotta own that.

-Don't blame people calling Steph/Russ corny
-Don't blame Kanye marrying Kim
-Don't blame "society" loving hoes
-Don't blame Ayesha Curry
-Don't blame men worshiping IG thots

As breh said, your child doesn't give a damn about any of that, he just wants a good father in his life

 

[mcdivit85]

You truly believe Russell is making Ciara come outta pocket?

I hope so, because what's the point of dating a "successful" chick if you always have to break bread

But I wouldn't be surprised if he's on that "my chick never picks up the bill" line

Peace

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

After my day at work I see this thread is still rolling...lol

Hopefully one day women with Halle Berry complexes will see the light. And hopefully one day more black men will get themselves together.

Me too breh.

Me too.

 

[boyboy]

Good post. Why hasn't it received more daps?

Same could be said for Coli dudes who talk about black women though. Some of them are confusing their market as well

Peace

This is one of the biggest problem women, especially those in our community have. People really should find their lane, get in it, stay in it and many of these problems will go away.

What a lot of women don't understand is you can't be everything to everybody. You don't get to live a double life. What I mean by that is they need to decide what TYPE of woman they are going to be and BE that woman and STAY in that lane. You can't be a stripper and doctor. You can't be a lawyer and escort. You can't be naked on IG and begging for respect.

Likewise if you want respectful, gainfully employed dudes. Then go for those type of dudes. And leave fukkbois alone. Are if you only care about swagged out fukkbois, fine, go for that. But don't ask where are the men that are responsible and handle their business.

Many women logic is jacked up and you can see that when they say they want a Tupac in a business suit??? I hate to do this because Tupac was my favorite rapper but lets keep it real. When you think of professional, responsible, and all that other stuff women CLAIM to want you don't think of Tupac when you think of that dude. This maybe a surprise for BW out there. But so called thugged out dudes don't hold down jobs in corporate america unless it's sweeping the floor somewhere. So there is no point in asking. It's like going to a buy here pay here asking for a good interest rate on a BMW.

 

[mcdivit85]

I'm 30, and not in Memphis (because I like my life and I like smart people), but this is basically me.

Like I said, I've seen PLENTY of available and successful black women at the professional events I go to. Problem is, they still measuring their worth by the same stick men measure their worth, and that's not how men measure the worth of women. On top of that, they still date mentally like they are 18. They still think physical characteristics are the number 1 thing to determine their interest, meanwhile they are 36 and their looks are fading.

It's an entitlement complex because they feel that since they "did everything the right way", that some 6'4" millionaire should walk through the door and sweep them off their feet, and they are legitimately holding out for that.

I did things the right way (mostly) too, but I'm not waiting for Halle Berry to come through the door and suck my dikk everyday. I live in reality and know my professional accomplishments has nothing to do with my personal life outside of the means it gives me to provide for myself and others.

I understand your point, and I agree that there are men who do and would settle down young while being relatively young. But I still have to agree somewhat with what the author of the article was saying. That many men want what Ayesha Curry has to offer without doing the Steph Curry part.

Even you would be a unicorn in that sense. How many 30 year old black men living in a large metro with a nice 6-figure salary would even think of marriage at this point? Not the majority.

Peace

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

How many 30 year old black men living in a large metro with a nice 6-figure salary would even think of marriage at this point? Not the majority.

Way more than you think.

But too many black women I meet think they are too good for normal, because "dammit I didn't go to class 3 days a week for 2 hours to get this MBA just to marry a guy ONLY making 6 figures! I deserve!" Is a way too prevalent mindset that's exploited by aint shyt nikkas that easily exploit that by giving the appearance of everything they desire, until they get that nuts and got em wrapped. Now they are 29 with a baby trying to support a nikka rap career that has no job talking about his mixtape gonna drop "soon".

Now enter her best friend trying to flirt with this bum nikka, because she's aint told her best friend he's a broke wanna be rapper. She's a classy girl who doesn't make mistakes like the lower-class hoes. Nah, she has to keep up appearances, make it look like the relationship is perfect on FB and IG. Can't let em see you may have made a mistake, can't let em see you sweating because you know in your heart of hearts he's gonna make a terrible father. So you front. The best friend who been single and lurking trying to find her some happiness like its portrayed decides to give into the temptation and fukks the bum nikka too. Main chick finds out, dumps both of them, and now she alone raising the baby of an aint shyt nikka.

But it wasn't supposed to happen to her. She was better. She's pretty, she's educated. She's not like these minimum wage hoes. She wasn't supposed to get got.

Story happens every day in Black America now.