Why aren't men like Steph Curry

[AkaDemiK]

So you're upset hat Lebron didn't make fast enough moves in his personal life that made you happy

nikkas are weirdos

 

[010101]

steph is the son of a domesticated male
so it makes sense he himself would become a domesticated male

living in service of white jesus and submitted to his woman
but he seems satisfied with it so let him rock

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[Wild self]

I want a wholesome quality man but guys these days rather try and sex ig thots and whores. See how stupid that generalization sounds?


And if ayesha looked like precious ya'll wouldn't give a crap about her being upstanding.


From a societal perspective, men are not telling men to do better.





How so?

Women hate Mrs. Curry cause she is something that the thots can't reach or achieve. Instead of women stepping up their game, they rather be content and be crabbish and throw shade. IG thots ain't slick.

 

[The Mad Titan]

So in order to be like steph I just need to be faithful? Or do I need to be faithful, famous, rich, loyal, what appears to be a gentleman supportive and attractive?

In order for a woman to be like Ayesha, they need be "classy" loyal, attractive and supportive.


Somethings not adding up.

 

[Sassy]

This is one of the biggest problem women, especially those in our community have. People really should find their lane, get in it, stay in it and many of these problems will go away.

What a lot of women don't understand is you can't be everything to everybody. You don't get to live a double life. What I mean by that is they need to decide what TYPE of woman they are going to be and BE that woman and STAY in that lane. You can't be a stripper and doctor. You can't be a lawyer and escort. You can't be naked on IG and begging for respect.

Likewise if you want respectful, gainfully employed dudes. Then go for those type of dudes. And leave fukkbois alone. Are if you only care about swagged out fukkbois, fine, go for that. But don't ask where are the men that are responsible and handle their business.

Many women logic is jacked up and you can see that when they say they want a Tupac in a business suit??? I hate to do this because Tupac was my favorite rapper but lets keep it real. When you think of professional, responsible, and all that other stuff women CLAIM to want you don't think of Tupac when you think of that dude. This maybe a surprise for BW out there. But so called thugged out dudes don't hold down jobs in corporate america unless it's sweeping the floor somewhere. So there is no point in asking. It's like going to a buy here pay here asking for a good interest rate on a BMW.

This! All of this!

 

[The Mad Titan]

This is one of the biggest problem women, especially those in our community have. People really should find their lane, get in it, stay in it and many of these problems will go away.

What a lot of women don't understand is you can't be everything to everybody. You don't get to live a double life. What I mean by that is they need to decide what TYPE of woman they are going to be and BE that woman and STAY in that lane. You can't be a stripper and doctor. You can't be a lawyer and escort. You can't be naked on IG and begging for respect.

Likewise if you want respectful, gainfully employed dudes. Then go for those type of dudes. And leave fukkbois alone. Are if you only care about swagged out fukkbois, fine, go for that. But don't ask where are the men that are responsible and handle their business.

Many women logic is jacked up and you can see that when they say they want a Tupac in a business suit??? I hate to do this because Tupac was my favorite rapper but lets keep it real. When you think of professional, responsible, and all that other stuff women CLAIM to want you don't think of Tupac when you think of that dude. This maybe a surprise for BW out there. But so called thugged out dudes don't hold down jobs in corporate america unless it's sweeping the floor somewhere. So there is no point in asking. It's like going to a buy here pay here asking for a good interest rate on a BMW.

Agreed,

Women (usually educated ones) tend to like to try and mix and match or ignore certain things when it comes to the men they want.


You don't see thots out here trying their best to get with men that have strong moral standards or whatever. But you'll see a woman with high moral standards out trying to change these dudes or hoping they'll change for them.

You want a dude that is completely loyal to you, he might not make 6 figures. You want a dude that makes 6 figures, he might be a ugh mo, you want a dude thats in shape? he might not be the most loyal. There are your unicorns out there that have all those traits and then some. But its not a regular thing.

Dudes we know... How many times have I heard a nikka say "she fine but she dumb" I'ma marry her though.


Steph and Ayesha seem like two people that share the same values that locked each other down early.


They both lucked out but she has ALOT to lose if they split even if she gets paid. Its in her best interest to be that housewife. Your average man can't even claim that.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Women hate Mrs. Curry cause she is something that the thots can't reach or achieve. Instead of women stepping up their game, they rather be content and be crabbish and throw shade. IG thots ain't slick.

what the heck does this have to do with anything I said?
There are plenty women who stood up for ayesha but you guys want to ignore them.
It's like ya'll want these ig thots to be ayesha so bad so ya'll can have them. sorry it don't work like that.
Same way tupac in a business suit don't exist

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

So why is it so hard to just say "black men and black women need to be more responsible and make better choices regarding relationships and having kids."? The blame game won't get us anywhere.

Right. But that would require too much common sense and self empowerment.

 

[Gravity]

and again...michael jordan has been proven to be a cut throat savage apathetic individual that could give two shyts about inner city black kids off the court but that doesn't affect this shoe sales.

this discussion is about men being more like steph curry, OFF THE COURT. HIS CHARACTER.

you're the one who brought up his shoe sales.

No, this is about you saying that black men see Steph as some type of lame cornball dude in an effort to cosign tee thread. That simply isn't true.

 

[iBrowse]

Only @Dollfacecraze knows how to get coli nikkas riled up like this

Oh and @Ooh Marty

 

[iBrowse]

My nikka dwolf

Remind me to rep you. Doesn't matter what the post is.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Only @Dollfacecraze knows how to get coli nikkas riled up like this

Oh and @Ooh Marty

I think this has been my best one yet

 

[Booker T Garvey]

No, this is about you saying that black men see Steph as some type of lame cornball dude in an effort to cosign tee thread. That simply isn't true.

so your argument is that reality doesn't support my opinion, but supports yours?

 

[USSInsiders]

Jesus fukking christ, can we stop looking up to these celebrity clowns? Have some pride about yourself. Who gives a fukk if you're like some cornball yellow boi jesus freak

 

[Scott Larock]

Praised and acknowledged by other black men?

As a black woman, even though chaste and classy women get some hate from other black women, they are usually admired. That is usually the opposite for men.

For so long the rhetoric has been that women do not want a good, upstanding man. They want the bad boy who will blow their backs out and send them packing. So naturally, men's argument has been to fall in line with what women want in order to get them.

All of a sudden, ayesha curry steps on the scene and it's "oh I want I woman like ayesha", "yall hoes need to be more like ayesha".

Pause
So now the argument is, "we as men are allowed to have standards and want a woman like ayesha".
Well, where were those standards when you were running through deshawn, eshlawn, lil mamma, and her friends?
This new argument is set on the basis that you as a man are the leader and the one to choose.
So if this is the new role black men want to accept, why aren't the likes of steph curry being championed?
Why aren't black men telling other black men to be more selective?
Why aren't black men telling other black men that it's ok to not sleep around?
But ya'll are quick to tell black women to stop being hoes and have respect for themselves.
I firmly believe that most of you men using ayesha curry as the golden standard is simply a ploy to support the old adage "men are naturally promiscuous".
From the age of dawn, men have been sleeping with prostitutes and whores but went and found a virtuous woman to marry.
You may want an ayesha curry but that doesn't stop you from sleeping with the kim's, amber's, and chyna's.
Simply put, if you aren't going to be like steph, you shouldn't expect an ayesha.

Stephen grew up in a good two parent home with great parents and he had thst women way before most of us dudes even get anywhere he's at. She knew his potential and jumped on thst, she'd be a fool to leave. His father had money from the jump.

Dude is different than what most of us go through and experience in life. Apples to oranges.

I hear your point but it's mad flawed.

Even the biggest jump off would fall in line. Stephen is the rich white dude thst can take the blond blue eyed whore and turn her into a housewife and she'd change her ways.

Most of us still out there getting right. The level of respect Stephen gets would be different than the likes of a NFL player with money who grew up with no daddy. Even though both men are rich Stephen wife knows not to leave compared to someone like ray Lewis with 4 baby mommas.

Stephen to me is like Peyton Manning no woman married to Peyton would leave that's a family of power wealth and influence for years to come.

NFL athletes are just paychecks. Look at Adrian Peterson, one of his baby mommas put him on blast immediately, look at Peyton wife and thst hgh scandal, not a peep from her.

A man has to get that level of respect from a female and Stephen is up there with the white boys from the jump. Looknanguybtontake Phillip rivers, the Saints quarterback dude, they got mad kids and a wife and they have no issues.

It's really about respect and the women giving into the man big difference between Stephen and most other athletes.