Before we fix the community, we must work on individual, interpersonal issues. You're supposed to build from the ground up.
Nobody is shaming anybody! All I'm saying is that everybody has a choice. And for every choice, there's a consequence. People MUST accept personal responsibility for their choices. That's all I'm saying.
Look, short of rape, men CANNOT force women to have sex with them.
Men pursue who to get involved with and women CHOOSE which man/men are worthy of their time, attention, and affection.
Nobody is justifying what dusty/unfit/dumbass black men do. But at this core of this issue is the fact that women on the whole continuously CHOOSE ain't shyt men. If women as a collective started holding out for aspiring doctors, scientists, accountants, etc., within 5 years, you'd see most men aspiring to be those type of professionals. Women HAVE to know the power they wield in the dating world. With the power, comes responsibility.
Your last paragraph speaks to my point; collective. I just don't understand why you believe only women are capable of this or why men can't do some CHOOSING on their own or collectively. It really confuses me why as men you view yourself as unable and are unwilling to bring about change. And if men are not capable of bring about change then what makes them leaders?