That would be all great and fine if we weren't talking about a COMMUNITY issue. I mean your individualistic point of view is great and all...because we all know how far that has gotten us.... but how does that help solve the issue.
Before we fix the community, we must work on individual, interpersonal issues. You're supposed to build from the ground up.
Honestly, you think shaming individuals when everything else is their environment says the opposite will change the problem vs changing shared cultural norms.
Nobody is shaming anybody!
All I'm saying is that everybody has a choice. And for every choice, there's a consequence. People MUST accept personal responsibility for their choices. That's all I'm saying.
I'm just really trying to understand how you think point the finger we realistically change anything and how you can justify BM not doing their part in their communities especially when their want to "lead" that community.
Look, short of rape, men CANNOT force women to have sex with them.
Men pursue who to get involved with and women CHOOSE which man/men are worthy of their time, attention, and affection.
Nobody is justifying what dusty/unfit/dumbass black men do. But at this core of this issue is the fact that women on the whole continuously CHOOSE ain't shyt men. If women as a collective started holding out for aspiring doctors, scientists, accountants, etc., within 5 years, you'd see most men aspiring to be those type of professionals. Women HAVE to know the power they wield in the dating world. With the power, comes responsibility.