Who you wifin?? Rich alpha woman or traditional woman w/ no job?

[Pure Water]

Traditional. Too many brehs want to be wives so I can see that option winning though.

 

[Ohene]

Neither

Right answer

 

[Ohene]

nikkas say alpha till they have one.
Trust me, I had one and it sucks lol
I'll settle for a evenly yoked traditional women any day now

Yup

 

[MaxBundles]

This ain’t a thread it’s therapy…expound for the brethren who may not know

Man.....
Constant bickering about money
Her acting like her job is way more important than mine
She made more money than me but still felt I should pay for everything
Constant feeling of entitlement
I can go on and on.... personally wasn't worth the headache for me at all breh. I always thought that's what I wanted in a female till I had it lol

 

[Commish]

Neither. I prefer someone who is flexible, contribute financially to some extent, but also doesn't mind doing traditional things as well...

 

[Ohene]

For the brehs who want a traditional woman because they don’t wanna deal with what comes with alpha women lol

lol sounds like a woman raised by a single mother

 

[Ohene]

If you have at least one child, in every major city other than NYC, San Francisco and Los Angeles, having a stay at home spouse or at most working part-time, makes more sense than having two people working full time because of the cost of child-care.

It ain’t about the cost of child care…it’s about…actual…childcare lol

 

[Braman]

If you have at least one child, in every major city other than NYC, San Francisco and Los Angeles, having a stay at home spouse or at most working part-time, makes more sense than having two people working full time because of the cost of child-care.

No. It’s simple math bruh. As expensive as childcare/daycare is it does not compare to the cost of a whole ass work salary.

Like yea teachers are underpaid ….but they make a hell of a lot more than the 10-20k you spend on childcare

 

[UpNext]

Traditional housewife, easily.

 

[Shadow King]

Traditional and it wasn't difficult.

But I'm a GMB Colonel anyway...

 

[Ozymandeas]

Marry the alpha woman, divorce her and take half, then get with the traditional woman.

#SoftLife

 

[Traveler]

No. It’s simple math bruh. As expensive as childcare/daycare is it does not compare to the cost of a whole ass work salary.

Like yea teachers are underpaid ….but they make a hell of a lot more than the 10-20k you spend on childcare

It ain't even the money. Its about raising my kids with their mom in the house making sure they are taught the same value system we have. You can't substiute a stay at home mom,, its best for raising kids.

 

[Higher Tech]

Rich Alpha sounds like 3 arguments a week over some nonsense

 

[daiquiridream]

Alpha woman. Don’t need another child to provide for.

Since when does a child feed you three home cooked meals a day and keeps the floors spotless? Since when does a child nurse/raise your babies?

 

[Shadow King]

Why are so many of us obsessed with this traditional woman role

Why can't it ever be a balance, I never want a woman without a backbone

Ready to attend to my every whim

Why do so many of us believe a traditional woman is automatically without a backbone?

No that’s not what I meant nikkas don’t wanna deal with alpha women because they are more demanding but what it comes down to is respect

And which one of these hypothetical women would be more likely to give respect? On top of that, this particular alpha woman brings nothing of quality to the relationship.