What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant

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My point is if she doesn't apologize from the jump nothing else needs to be said. You gone have breh out here begging n shyt:mjlol:

And if she has snap/IG I guarantee she took pics on the boat & posted them all on them joints :gucci:
Ain't nothing wrong with humbling yourself. He invested his time and resources into someone. That goes to show he really liked her. Now he's sitting up here confused and salty and will still be confused and salty cause he ain hearing these things from the horses mouth.

I didn't advise him to go beg, Im saying he should get some reaffirmation from her, ya know the one he was interested in.
 

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That's what you're missing no need to be angry just cut her off. You treating her as if they have history . If you can't show common courtesy after a first date :camby:
Im treating her as if they have history? Hell he implied it when he dropped 150$ on her. He implied it when he couldn't even state whether or not her interest in him was on the same level as his interest in her. Be honest, op obviously really like the girl, and probably still does.

Take yourself out of the equation and see that this guy was doing the absolute best for a woman he really liked.
 

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I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.

A first date shouldn't cost that much. Get to know her first before you take her out on one of those types of dates.

But how did SHE treat YOU?

What was her response to your courting and putting in effort?


"Teach your sons how to treat a lady and teach your daughters how they should be treated"

A lot of males do not know how they are supposed to be treated by women and accept pretty much anything until they learn. That is because when they are younger, the focus is always on teaching them the proper way to treat a lady. The women supposedly learn how they are supposed to be treated, as they saying goes. I think things should go both ways.
 

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I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.
Just keep growing focusing on yourself and tak to any many women as you can and move on....................... keep being cool and nice bruh don't let a bad situation stop u from being u
 

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Why would you spend 150 dollars on someone you don't know? Not evening spending that much on clients and we are doing business.

You spend 150 on your wife and that is it!

Why won't you cats learn.
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This is how wolf cubs grow up to become wolves :skip:
Next chick OP takes on a date is going to be treated to the McD's dollar menu :lowlife:
You did too much and probably ignored all the signs she wasn't into you cause you were busy "chasing" her :francis:
That sense of accomplishment you had when she finally agreed to go out with you...if you only knew...free lunch :mjlol:
For $150 she taught you a valuable lesson, never forget it :troll:
 

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No, just seperate..spent 150 on the date...dinner, drinks and paid for this boat ride on the river.
:huhldup:Damn cousin, you went all out for the hoe

Was she a rat? Because hoodrats hate nice guys:manny:You gotta beat a rat upside they head or steal some shyt from them for them to really vibe wit you.

If she is a rat she can't be a seasoned one because she would have stuck around just to break your bank.:patrice:
 
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