What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
You are a simp for paying 150 for a date and this is coming from a woman who believes a man should pay for the first date
Larry Lambo
Superstar
dat ether.Breh, you can bounce back from this. Just don't make the same mistake twice. There's a time and place to be a hopeless romantic, but a first date with a girl you barely know isn't that time.
To play it safe, there's plenty of easy low cost dates you can do for $50 or less (and not all of them are corny like museums and free festivals). A simple lunch on a Saturday afternoon and maybe walk around downtown afterwards would suffice.
etrofllenrod504
All Star
I'm not understanding why dude is being called a simp for spending $150 on a first date? It all depends on what your doing shyt can add up quick! I've been on first dates and spent that much and not to be on no make a statement impress her type shyt just having a good time, especially here in New Orleans. Bout time we eat hit a couple spots for drinks $150 is in the wind quick here. I feel if you know it's gonna hurt your budget then hey have cap but, if not and your enjoying the company and vise versa who care *shrugs*
Solo ✧✦✧
King of the eXoticals. "FIRsT and LAst wARNiNg"
LOL @ the title
I wish dudes would stop doing this kind of stuff for women that aren't even guaranteed to appreciate it. The ridiculous thing is when guys do stuff like this and complain about it they can only blame themselves and we already know that women and simps will excuse her reaction by saying she doesn't owe him anything.
I wish dudes would stop doing this kind of stuff for women that aren't even guaranteed to appreciate it. The ridiculous thing is when guys do stuff like this and complain about it they can only blame themselves and we already know that women and simps will excuse her reaction by saying she doesn't owe him anything.
Larry Lambo
Superstar
Co-sign.
That is never taught by the average parent. Most dudes learn that from the friends or older brothers/cousins, and it's usually to some unhealthy extreme.
Most women show interest in a much more subtle way. She ain't gonna walk up to you and say "OMG, you're so hot". It's excessive smiling, being agreeable, accommodating, and responsive. It's a small things like saying "I was thinking about you the other day". If you don't see small stuff like that, then she probably ain't feeling you and isn't deserving of any effort.
Even if she does show those signs, doesn't mean it's guaranteed because she may be doing that until some other dude gives her a call. But without those signs you got pretty much no shot. I view a nice date as a reward for her showing genuine interest. If I really want to hang out with a chick before she shows interest like that, then I'll invite her to a group function with no pressure to see how we interact.
more of a dumbass than a simp
how did you keep spending money if the date wasn't going well? you took this bytch on a boat ride AFTER seeing she wasn't feeling you and the money you was spending on her? And decided you haven't spent enough till you got to 150?
cornercommission2k12
so this were u dudes went
Was this the 1st get together?
That should always be , meet you at your job during lunch, at a park etc.
Lot of women have become turned off with situations where the guy looks "thirsty" and honestly. She might have felt guilted into going on the date in the 1st place. All that go all out shyt works in only 2 situations, 1. With a wealthy woman, or 2. On tv. Other than that, always baby step it.
Once you sitting in front of a woman at a restaurant and she got her face deep in a phone, you can forget it.
That should always be , meet you at your job during lunch, at a park etc.
Lot of women have become turned off with situations where the guy looks "thirsty" and honestly. She might have felt guilted into going on the date in the 1st place. All that go all out shyt works in only 2 situations, 1. With a wealthy woman, or 2. On tv. Other than that, always baby step it.
Once you sitting in front of a woman at a restaurant and she got her face deep in a phone, you can forget it.
GreenGhxst
Veteran
You gave her too much too early, looked weak as fukk. Why you treating her like a princess when she ain't even prove herself to be one? Treat her like a stranger you trying to get to know, instead of a queen fit for a throne. You were simpin, paid this girl uber and a lavish dinner, also a boat ride lol. This type of behavior and dining is fit for your wife on her birthday. My nikka took her on a boat ride
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CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
lmao at you simps spending money on these heauxs. i robbed my last date.
CarbonBraddock
You will be trolled
what is this 'tip' you speak of?
MillionMills
Superstar
Lame ass nikka
AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Taking these entitled hoes on dates in 2017
Let these women know what it is. Millennial chicks give it up so easy if you're assertive and your game is tight. That's why her friend smashed later that night after you got her in the mood
Let these women know what it is. Millennial chicks give it up so easy if you're assertive and your game is tight. That's why her friend smashed later that night after you got her in the mood
