What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant

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You realize she didn't answer u right away because another nikka was meetin her at her spot right? you gotta let actions speak.

I've gone on a first date and the chick is texting me before I even get in my fukking car. That let u know she is all yours. Or it's 8am the next morning and she's waking u up on some "I had a great time last night :smile: "

like I said it ain't hard to tell if she is feelin u. I can almost guarantee she didn't start being distant after the date. She was ALWAYS distant and u ain't have the foresight to see what was about to happen :manny:
 

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What?

Was the coffee machine at the cafe broken breh?

Recently I had 2 unrelated women confirm that they know girlfriends who go on dates just for free meals...

I been stopped going on dinner dates long time ago. First date should be a casual meet and greet.
 

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You got used for a free meal and physically she's not interested in you that is it
 
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Never take a woman on a date unless she gives you signals that she's gon let you smash afterwards.

If she's not down to fukk on the first, then she doesn't really like you.
 

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Only area OP dropped the ball was he should've had better judgement in terms of her vibe with him. Through phone conversations text he should've been able to tell her vibe towards him and if he should or shouldn't have wasted his time. Even through initial approach you can tell if a female feeling you or not.
 

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Keep it casual them first few encounters, dinner can be a casual thing depending on your date.

But if you can't read the signs on how she might interpret the encounter, play it safe and keep it casual with minimal dollars spent.

Paid for her uber to and fro:what: which really isn't that absurd, but when you're first engaging a chick allow her to step out on that ledge with you.

Present chances for her to flake on you ie., not arranging her transportation to the location


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