What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant

Conan

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I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.

Charge it to the game and move on. Could be worse.
 

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shout out the brehs taking their girl on a walk in the park for the first date and buying 0.50 cent ice cream from the ice cream truck :salute:
no lie,cheapest first"date" ive ever been on cost me a grand total of $2 and some change. Met up at a nearby Baskin Robbins, copped a couple ice cream cones and chatted for a couple hours on the benches outside. Thats it and we had a great time and convo. Chemistry was on point. Smashed a few weeks later.
 

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I think as you get older you learn that rejection is typically a blessing from God or the universe. Whatever it is you believe in.

It sucks and most of us have been there before but it could have always been worse. You lost $150 for a night that hopefully you enjoyed even if you didn't get the desired result from. Imagine if she went out on a date with you, realized she wasn't feeling you but settled for you and you two end up together only to find out she's cheating on you, never loved you and just was around because you're stable. That happens.

Shrug off that L and move on playboy.
 

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Awe I feel you. Did she at least tell you why it took her so long? Stolen phone, death of a relative? If not you should ask Her, just to be sure her intentions were good.

That's why you bring it to her attention. A lot of people feel that they aren't obligated to apologize because they don't care or don't see what they did wrong. If she still doesn't apologize, then there's no need to feel salty about a thing as you now know you were messing with someone who really dgaf.

Op is obviously invested so its best he finds some closure so he don't harbor resentment for someone like that. She wouldn't be worth it in that case.
Ask her to be sure her intentions were good?
Bring it to her attention?
:mjlol:

nikka you have GOT to be trolling
 
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No, just seperate..spent 150 on the date...dinner, drinks and paid for this boat ride on the river.
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Sorry breh. She just ain't into you. Probably never was. If she was even halfway into you she wouldn't have run up $150 bill and Billy Zane'd you on that fukking boat.

You say you met her through mutual friends? You should maybe think another way about these friends. You know at some point she asked them
"Should I go on a date with this dude? He's sweating me and talking about sipping Henny with me on a catamaran and I ain't feeling him."
The mutual friends should have at least told you to :whoa:.

That is a ridiculous, stupid amount of money for a first date. But you bought lesson with that dough so it's not a complete loss. Write her off. :camby: And do coffee or something next time. This shyt happens all the time.
 

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Next time take that 150 hang out at a strip
Club and have fun. Use 30 of it take a girl to a museum and talk to her. Also call and gage the waters before you hang out. Build rapport so it's not weird when y'all hang.
 
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