What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant

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First date better be some small cafe or some shyt..hell fukking Applebees 2 for $20

A-hah, nikkas be brown-nosing these hoes and shyt
Taking bytches out to eat, and spending money on these hoes
Know what I'm saying?
I treat a bytch like 7-Up, I never have I never will
I tell a bytch like this:
"bytch, you without me is like Harold Melvin without Bluenotes u never go platinum
 

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The bish knows if she would let you within about 23 seconds.

From there you just have to

Spot her

Open your mouth

Don't screw it up

The first date comes after you talk to her enough to determine if she likes you likes you.

And even then, if it turns into much more than a full price movie you're on the wrong track.

Money will impress a woman but not if she knows that $150 is a huge investment for you. If you had dropped $1500 but it was you everyday routine. Limo. VIP. The finest clothes. Then she might say 'this guy's money is attracting me. Seems like he has alot'. But you're working at Costco dropping $150 she knows you gonna skip your cable bill this month. Dates 2-5 will have to be at Starbucks.

Anyway. Of she's somebody you need to spend time on, she will go with you to a hot dog cart. If she won't then you've saved yourself alot of steps. She not feeling you.

And this bird is not feeling you. But. You can find that out for a good $40
 

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First date better be some small cafe or some shyt..hell fukking Applebees 2 for $20

A-hah, nikkas be brown-nosing these hoes and shyt
Taking bytches out to eat, and spending money on these hoes
Know what I'm saying?
I treat a bytch like 7-Up, I never have I never will
I tell a bytch like this:
"bytch, you without me is like Harold Melvin without Bluenotes u never go platinum

fukk Applebee's. That can quickly get up over $50 if each of u orders a drink and after a tip even if ur doing the 2 for $20

If ur spending $50 on a first date, then y'all better be at the bar. That's gonna increase your chances of some action.

Otherwise go the coffee route.
 

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The bish knows if she would let you within about 23 seconds.

From there you just have to

Spot her

Open your mouth

Don't screw it up

The first date comes after you talk to her enough to determine if she likes you likes you.

And even then, if it turns into much more than a full price movie you're on the wrong track.

Money will impress a woman but not if she knows that $150 is a huge investment for you. If you had dropped $1500 but it was you everyday routine. Limo. VIP. The finest clothes. Then she might say 'this guy's money is attracting me. Seems like he has alot'. But you're working at Costco dropping $150 she knows you gonna skip your cable bill this month. Dates 2-5 will have to be at Starbucks.

Anyway. Of she's somebody you need to spend time on, she will go with you to a hot dog cart. If she won't then you've saved yourself alot of steps. She not feeling you.

And this bird is not feeling you. But. You can find that out for a good $40

I agree, if she's feeling u, u can take her to the park and drink wine, go window shopping at Nordstrom rack or buy her $1.50 hot dogs at Costco and she will be down.
 

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Did she even like you, breh?
You can't earn a girl.
This shyt right here.

Ask any of these brehs if a woman, who they are only minimally attracted to, decided to try to put herself in a position to be "her best self" and get that breh to court her... what would they do.

Most people will entertain it but decide they aren't going to go further unless they were blown away.

Nice guy templates don't win.

Bad guy templates don't win.

All this shyt dating coaches tell y'all that is supposed to suppress your true self and become this suave different person won't make you win.

nikkas out here really thinking on some "Well, I had a checklist and did everything they say they want, so she OWES me the p*ssy, right?"

No, breh. She doesn't owe you shyt. She tried the free trial and still felt she wasn't that into you.

OP @acespaceinvader , no disrespect, be yourself and eventually a woman who is similarly situated and in sync with you MAY see the compatibility and y'all will through signs at each other.

It may not happen but breh, there is no template to getting the women that you think you want.

Good luck.
 

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I wouldn’t make it a habit of doing this but I honestly don’t see the problem. You had good food and drinks with a chick that you liked... :yeshrug:

Even if you smashed these guys would still hand you an L.
 
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