Those of you saying I'ma simp or being too soft/gushy don't understand that I can't be that tough “I don't need her, she needs me/play like she ain't nothing special” kind of man, that's just not who I am, when I said I'd tell her that I missed her in class, that's truly me, the realness and such coming from the heart.
I've always been the generally kind hearted bruh since I was in elementary, middle school, and highschool. That's who've I've been my entire life in all areas not just when it comes to women but in general
I've never been that mean type of dude.
What y'all are suggesting for me to do just wouldn't feel or sound right because it's not coming from the heart, I need the things I say to come from the heart. Maybe having a big heart will be my downfall one day, but I'd rather die knowing I always give people my all and kept it real with them until my last breath.
I literally told her yesterday, with these exact words: “enjoy the rest of your day now, ight?” I meant that from the heart, that's just who I am regardless if me and her link or not, although I have a good feeling we will.
My goal is to show women my heart and that I'm different from what they've dated in the past or have to come expect about men, I'm 27 and I'm nothing like most dudes my age these days, because of that it makes me special and a different breed that I believe women will appreciate when dealing with me.
The expressions y'all call simp, soft, lame, etc or whatever is the complete opposite for me and believe it or not most times has always worked for me when I've pursued relationships with women and I kept with that perspective
even if it's just a friendship, I know y'all don't believe in friendships with women but I appreciate relationships of any kind these days as it's rare in this climate to have one.