You're assigning her feelings that she hasn't expressed though. She hasn't said one thing in this thread to make us think that she's being treated like a robot or that she even needs anyone to check in with her.
I say this from a place of love... you're projecting.
Some people actually get pleasure out of doing things for other people, both women and men. I love to do things for a woman that i love. It genuinely makes me happy. And I'm sure OP feels that way about her man (using this thread and her past threads about him as proof).
You're acting like she's a slave and is forcing herself to do something... but no, she's doing this because she really and truly wants to create an expression of love for the man that she's with. And if she's going this hard for him, I'm willing to bet that he's going just as hard for her.
I honestly think that you've had some terrible bad experiences with men, and I think that it broke something inside of you. And I'm not saying that from a standpoint of looking down on you because I often talk on this site about how my bad experiences with women have broken something inside of me.
I'm just self aware of myself enough to know that it happened.
This is the problem with having a conversation with you. You don't read in context and you always have to make up things in order to promote an argument or discussion that no one is having except you.
I didn't say "She is a robot". I said "Women aren't robots and they deserve to be check in on." Which implies that I was showing concern which you didn't do. Instead you insulted her, the exact opposite of what I did. Soooo, of course, you, who is quick to insult, would think it was "wrong" to do anything but do what you do.
Please learn how to read in context.
I'm sure you do think I'm broken. Of course you do, because I don't center you or any man nor do care about what you feel or think...about anything...especially me.
And I haven't had terrible experiences with men. I've had the typical experiences with men...actually I've had better experiences than the majority of women because I've never been physically abused, molested nor raped.
What you hate is that I don't live in the delusional la la land that most women do. I see you and humanity for what it is. A society that tells women that their value lies in the approval of men and that endless self sacrifice is somehow honorable.
I don't agree with that POV. I don't walk that path nor will you see it reflected in my speech. That should be pretty obvious at this point.