Successful Coli bro doesn’t even get the chance to talk and the BW

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Again you're being obtuse....

It's not about who you like its the why.....

Yes I wouldn't pursue a woman I dont find attractive....but the arguement in this example is why do a selection of 10 black women not find this black attractive....its like me being only interested in dating woman with multiple baby fathers eventhough im being pursued with woman who are equally attractive with no children...people would want to know why the songle moms interest me as opposed to the singleless women

Because he’s ugly to them

 

[85 East]

But they're all going to be mad if he marries non black woman and spoils her...

Stay away from women with this type of mentality. Find a woman or partner or whatever you're into, who sees the vision, not the current moment.

 

[42 Monks]

you can't pull up to that kind of function looking like mom dressed you for sunday school man

 

[AAKing23]

Lmao I mean we can talk about the women all day but if the men have no standards and will accept this what’s the point? Why is a dude of this caliber competing for some single mothers?

The guy chose the single mom who only left the baby father because he wouldn’t propose to her. These guys keep choosing these women so why would they change?

Competing for single mothers period is crazy

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

The only guy that stood a chance was a guy that was cursing every sentence, deep voice from Philly lol. They did not once ask what he does etc.

 

[africngiant]

Y’all assume because he’s single, it’s because he’s a great guy, and women are the problem. He could be socialy awkward, or have gone for IG types his entire life, or could be a player. I bet he’s not going for soft spoken, nerdy, average looking black women. Just because he has a good career, and presents himself as nice, doesn’t mean he is a good partner. And, yes, he could have met girls, they liked his personality, but weren’t into him physically. Women are pressured into giving so called nice guys a chance, but the nice guys switch up, or they simply can’t force themselves to be physically attracted. Or the girls he’s been with haven’t been the right person. People can get into relationships, and the relationship simply doesn’t work.

The same applies to women, but as I’ve said many times before, a lot of men will be in a serious relationship, string that woman along for years, not marry her, and she has to decide to stay with a man who is not progressing the relationship, or start over. It’s a lot easier for a man to date a woman we aren’t eagerly attracted to, because we experience pleasure every time we have sex. Women don’t. So women go for men they think will please them sexually, and hope he’s a good guy, and by the time they realize he isn’t, she’s already slept with him, caught feelings, and sticks around hoping he’ll change, because she doesn’t want to have to find someone else, and she doesn’t want just another body adding to her count. For us, another notch on our belt is nothing. Men don’t feel guilt for sleeping with a woman, and no relationship forming. In fact, most of us would love to be able to do that.

My wife and I discuss this all the time. It took a long time before I could understand this.

that’s true tho dating is a gamble at the end of the day. gotta put yourself in the best position to win by taking smart chances. at a base lvl the guy himself is well spoken and educating kids on his profile so i doubt he’s socially awkward and probably has good empathy. he still ended up with a single mom by his own choice, who originally popped her balloon but changed her mind after he spoke of his credentials. girls mainly popped because they were judging his appearance and saying he cant dress which is shallow af lol. they wanna get with a fly nikka first thing before factoring in anything else lmao:

The only guy that stood a chance was a guy that was cursing every sentence, deep voice from Philly lol. They did not once ask what he does etc.

 

[Wiseborn]

Worst example ever!!!



She is clearly attracted to him.



And Stedman comes from old black money. He’s not poor.

She grandsons this nikka at every opportunity

You're right he's not broke so I don't see what he gets out of it.

He could have a 25 year old on him arm right now

 

[Wiseborn]

So embrace a dictatorship with a structure like arranged marriages, to get female companionship?

That's kinda what women want.

Alimony is basically enforced marriage

#cheapertokeepher

 

[Wiseborn]

Can y’all admit you think it’s fine for men to have physical preferences, but you think women should only focus on personality?

I can.

Why? Because marriage. A wife pushes out 3 kids should the Man leave because she gets a pooch?
Since Men do leave its far better that she looks good as long as possible because #uglygang been wearing fake wedding rings to bag desperate hoes in the club since forever

 

[africngiant]

Do you approach, and pursue women you don’t find attractive, and think you’ll become attracted to her based solely on her personality, and qualities, and be satisfied sleeping with only her for the rest of your life?

women r said to grow to like a man more based off his personality after getting to know them. they just hated how he was put together & popped as soon as he walked out which puts bw’s shallowness into question lol. they didnt start liking him until he stated his credentials but by then they missed out on the opportunity

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I can.

Why? Because marriage. A wife pushes out 3 kids should the Man leave because she gets a pooch?
Since Men do leave its far better that she looks good as long as possible because #uglygang been wearing fake wedding rings to bag desperate hoes in the club since forever

Both partners need to maintain their appearance. Men leave women all the time because they put on weight, or stop having sex. Women also stop having sex with their husbands because they became less attractive. If she didn’t find him attractive initially, he’s not going to look better over time, he’s going to look worse. There are a lot more dead bedrooms than you want to believe.

 

[Wiseborn]

Lmao I mean we can talk about the women all day but if the men have no standards and will accept this what’s the point? Why is a dude of this caliber competing for some single mothers?

The guy chose the single mom who only left the baby father because he wouldn’t propose to her. These guys keep choosing these women so why would they change?

I agree with you but who says he's choosing her?
Half the time these people don't even go on the date.

He might take the easy lay up of test driving the p*ssy of a desperate single mother looking for a simp daddy but I doubt if they make it to marriage

Believe YouTube reality shows brehs

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

Girl, that’s why I didn’t bother.

And yes, thank you @CreepyMcCreeperson

This is just a funny line to read

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

women r said to grow to like a man more based off his personality after getting to know them. they just hated how he was put together & popped as soon as he walked out which puts bw’s shallowness into question lol. they didnt start liking him until he stated his credentials but by then they missed out on the opportunity

Yes. Women can fall in love with a man based on his personality. That doesn’t mean she enjoys touching him. Trust me. You don’t want a woman who only wants you for your personality, and qualities. Eventually, she will stop sleeping with you.

 

[Wiseborn]

Both partners need to maintain their appearance. Men leave women all the time because they put on weight, or stop having sex. Women also stop having sex with their husbands because they became less attractive. If she didn’t find him attractive initially, he’s not going to look better over time, he’s going to look worse. There are a lot more dead bedrooms than you want to believe.

I Agree with you but you lean in to trying to #bothsides everything

Life is about tradeoffs so if the primary breadwinner gets a second Job to pay the rent instead of hitting the gym

The other party would prioritize . the mortgage being paid over dropping. 30 pounds.

The wild thing is if a #handsomegang got a male BBL women would think he's "cheating"/and being too vain