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Yes. Women can fall in love with a man based on his personality. That doesn’t mean she enjoys touching him. Trust me. You don’t want a woman who only wants you for your personality, and qualities. Eventually, she will stop sleeping with you.
That's when you drop the divorce papers
 

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If u actually sit down with a lot of these women prior of putting them out there with balloons, u would know majority of them young sisters come from that mindset of what they see on tv/movies/music…

A brother has to be like he’s a lil baby, drake, power tv show dress like the actors.

Our problem is we as black people are so consumed conditioned with TV /music

Those women mindset won’t change until smooth talking eddie, dope boy rodney cheating and abusive ways get to hard to handle or they are left with 2 or 3 kids and at 35,40 years old they all of a sudden want to be a adult and a wife

Wish these educated/hard working brothers stop going on these shows for women who doesn’t want you
 

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Again you're being obtuse....

It's not about who you like its the why.....

Yes I wouldn't pursue a woman I dont find attractive....but the arguement in this example is why do a selection of 10 black women not find this black attractive....its like me being only interested in dating woman with multiple baby fathers eventhough im being pursued with woman who are equally attractive with no children...people would want to know why the songle moms interest me as opposed to the singleless women
they dont like him because their interest are focused solely on "hood/black" stuff

its the reason certain brothas date a lot of white women...
if you have hobbies/interest that most black people arent into its real easy to find a Becky because they are down
 
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I think it was the outfit and his demeanor. He seem like he could do ok with that same group of women if he was dressed like DaBaby or Moneybagg Yo and didnt have a "nice guy" aura. Im not saying its wrong or right, but this shyt is the result of years of programming.

Also, nikkas need to stop wearing loafers because they saw somebody pull it off on GQ.
 

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So embrace a dictatorship with a structure like arranged marriages, to get female companionship? :dahell:
To get proper families? Yeah, embracing a "dictatorship" is better than the current environment where men and women view the other as enemies.

You can play those games about how things can work for us in this current set up but just a couple of tweaks here and there is needed if you want to.
 

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Y’all assume because he’s single, it’s because he’s a great guy, and women are the problem. He could be socialy awkward, or have gone for IG types his entire life, or could be a player. I bet he’s not going for soft spoken, nerdy, average looking black women. Just because he has a good career, and presents himself as nice, doesn’t mean he is a good partner. And, yes, he could have met girls, they liked his personality, but weren’t into him physically. Women are pressured into giving so called nice guys a chance, but the nice guys switch up, or they simply can’t force themselves to be physically attracted. Or the girls he’s been with haven’t been the right person. People can get into relationships, and the relationship simply doesn’t work.

The same applies to women, but as I’ve said many times before, a lot of men will be in a serious relationship, string that woman along for years, not marry her, and she has to decide to stay with a man who is not progressing the relationship, or start over. It’s a lot easier for a man to date a woman we aren’t eagerly attracted to, because we experience pleasure every time we have sex. Women don’t. So women go for men they think will please them sexually, and hope he’s a good guy, and by the time they realize he isn’t, she’s already slept with him, caught feelings, and sticks around hoping he’ll change, because she doesn’t want to have to find someone else, and she doesn’t want just another body adding to her count. For us, another notch on our belt is nothing. Men don’t feel guilt for sleeping with a woman, and no relationship forming. In fact, most of us would love to be able to do that.

My wife and I discuss this all the time. It took a long time before I could understand this.
Your wife must post on your account for you. Goddamn.
 
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