Successful Coli bro doesn’t even get the chance to talk and the BW

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Wasn’t there a trend about black women upgrading nerdy below average cacs and Asians? Why can’t the same thing be done to black men without “edge”?
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Didn’t black women make a whole social media trend where they took “badly dressed” white/non-black men and dressed them up to their image like dolls?

Any appearance based ick they have is invalid.
 

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This dude settled for a single mom stripper hoe lol. She’s a freaky lil thirsty chick too, broad looks like she’s ready to pop out twerking at any moment lol. Black men are shamed into having 0 standards. She only took the balloon back AFTER hearing about his accomplishments.
I hate to say this but if you're a black man who exclusively deals with BW after a certain age, you will kinda have to lower your standards to a certain point. You may strike gold with getting a very physically attractive BW but she may be a stripper and a baby momma with questionable morals/character like this chick. :manny:

Or you may get a BW with her head on straight, who is submissive and a pleasure to be around but she will be overweight/not as physically attractive and she still might have a kid or two as well :mjlol:

The amount of BW who make it to age 30 unscathed without having kids, being overweight or having baggage of some kind will be relatively slim and they will naturally have all the options in the world and will not want to settle.


That's why nikkas gotta open themselves up to other races of women or travel abroad for BW because it's a numbers game, there's over 100+ million White and Latina women and only around 20 million BW in the US. Not saying non-BW are the answer and don't come with their own bullshyt but you expand your chances of finding what you want. :yeshrug:
 
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Y’all assume because he’s single, it’s because he’s a great guy, and women are the problem. He could be socialy awkward, or have gone for IG types his entire life, or could be a player. I bet he’s not going for soft spoken, nerdy, average looking black women. Just because he has a good career, and presents himself as nice, doesn’t mean he is a good partner. And, yes, he could have met girls, they liked his personality, but weren’t into him physically. Women are pressured into giving so called nice guys a chance, but the nice guys switch up, or they simply can’t force themselves to be physically attracted. Or the girls he’s been with haven’t been the right person. People can get into relationships, and the relationship simply doesn’t work.

The same applies to women, but as I’ve said many times before, a lot of men will be in a serious relationship, string that woman along for years, not marry her, and she has to decide to stay with a man who is not progressing the relationship, or start over. It’s a lot easier for a man to date a woman we aren’t eagerly attracted to, because we experience pleasure every time we have sex. Women don’t. So women go for men they think will please them sexually, and hope he’s a good guy, and by the time they realize he isn’t, she’s already slept with him, caught feelings, and sticks around hoping he’ll change, because she doesn’t want to have to find someone else, and she doesn’t want just another body adding to her count. For us, another notch on our belt is nothing. Men don’t feel guilt for sleeping with a woman, and no relationship forming. In fact, most of us would love to be able to do that.

My wife and I discuss this all the time. It took a long time before I could understand this.
Man this whole post is straight bullshyt :dead:
 

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I'm glad you quoted him because quoting and giving their opinion to the person who agreed instead of the person who wrote the original post is always telling

They'd rather have words with a woman who agreed than the man who said it. It happens often on here

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Girl, that’s why I didn’t bother.

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Do you approach, and pursue women you don’t find attractive, and think you’ll become attracted to her based solely on her personality, and qualities, and be satisfied sleeping with only her for the rest of your life?
Again you're being obtuse....

It's not about who you like its the why.....

Yes I wouldn't pursue a woman I dont find attractive....but the arguement in this example is why do a selection of 10 black women not find this black attractive....its like me being only interested in dating woman with multiple baby fathers eventhough im being pursued with woman who are equally attractive with no children...people would want to know why the songle moms interest me as opposed to the singleless women
 

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People go to these shows because they're single and they're pushing the burden of finding a significant other to another person. Stop asking dumb questions as if everyone is in a relationship.
 

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When are y’all going to understand?

Someone sees what you look like. If they are attracted to you, THEN they get to know you and your personality. This applies to men and women. If they don’t like your appearance, it’s most likely not going to happen. If they can’t imagine sleeping with you, or kissing you. It’s not going to happen. Do you see a woman and think, she looks like she has a good heart, but talk to her if she’s unattractive? No!

It’s not difficult.

You keep saying this basic stuff and these cats just don't understand it.

Gonna have to break it down to a kindergarten level for'em.

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He picked a fukking stripper so he clearly doesn’t give a damn about anything but appearance as well :mjlol:

Most people, men or women, don’t care about accomplishments unless there is a physical attraction to start with.

You then close the deal when they find out you’re physically attractive AND accomplished.
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There could be a level headed nerdy intelligent B cup and regular bum Coli Brehette on the stage, and the dude would pop a balloon and he's the damn main contestant :dead:
 

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I hate to say this but if you're a black man who exclusively deals with BW after a certain age, you will kinda have to lower your standards to a certain point. You may strike gold with getting a very physically attractive BW but she may be a stripper and a baby momma with questionable morals/character like this chick. :manny:

Or you may get a BW with her head on straight, who is submissive and a pleasure to be around but she will be overweight/not as physically attractive and she still might have a kid or two as well :mjlol:

The amount of BW who make it to age 30 unscathed without having kids, being overweight or having baggage of some kind will be relatively slim and they will naturally have all the options in the world and will not want to settle.


That's why nikkas gotta open themselves up to other races of women or travel abroad for BW because it's a numbers game, there's over 100+ million White and Latina women and only around 20 million BW in the US. Not saying non-BW are the answer and don't come with bullshyt but you expand your chances of finding what you want. :yeshrug:
This is the exact argument women have when it comes to Black men who are on their game. Those men have all the options in the world and don’t want to settle down either. So women make the argument that they need to date out.


So what’s really going on?
 

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There could be a level headed nerdy intelligent B cup and regular bum Coli Brehette on the stage, and the dude would pop a balloon and he's the damn main contestant :dead:
It looks like he just picked the one that picked him.

I guess she was down bad enough to scoop up a decent simp,
 

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You keep saying this basic stuff and these cats just don't understand it.

Gonna have to break it down to a kindergarten level for'em.

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you're talking about women in the last 100 years or so because before then women met their husbands not only before they were married and the husband asked their father first.

Secondly you're discounting the city girls who say that they only thing that matters to them is money and status.

There's no way a nikka like Druski should be dating anyone if women picked Men solely on looks.

Finally if left up to what a woman solely likes them we would quickly devolve into a stone age society and based on one of the few well studied Hunter gatherer cultures The San It was very egalitarian society because they need each other to survive

Men shared status by promoting the joint effort of hunting but women provided most of the sustenance by gathering food and water.

And they fukked everybody divorce and remarriage was extremely common.

When Agriculture happened materialism happened and so did polygyny.

Am I calling for a return to fathers pick their daughters? Not necessarily but it's sorta like Drug control society attempts to put limits of human automony.
 
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you're talking about women in the last 100 years or so because before then women met their husbands not only before they were married and the husband asked their father first.

Secondly you're discounting the city girls who say that they only thing that matters to them is money and status.

There's no way a nikka like Druski should be dating anyone if women picked Men solely on looks.

Finally if left up to what a woman solely likes them we would quickly devolve into a stone age society and based on one of the few well studied Hunter gatherer cultures The San It was very egalitarian society because they need each other to survive

Men shared status by promoting the joint effort of hunting but women provided most of the sustenance by gathering food and water.

And they fukked everybody divorce and remarriage was extremely common.

When Agriculture happened materialism happened and so did polygyny.

Am I calling for a return to fathers pick their daughters? Not necessarily but it's sorta like Drug control society attempts to put limits of human automony.
Women don’t need men to take care of them anymore, just like men aren’t starving everyday if they don’t have a wife to cook for them. Some women do settle for men they aren’t attracted to, but then 10 years down the line, they have dead bedrooms because they can’t fake it anymore. Google: Not attracted to husband/boyfriend. It’s full of women who love the men they’re with because they treat them well, but are disgusted by them. I would NEVER want a woman who only likes me for my personality. Those women hate being touched by you, and will eventually cheat. This applies to all races.
 
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