Y’all assume because he’s single, it’s because he’s a great guy, and women are the problem. He could be socialy awkward, or have gone for IG types his entire life, or could be a player. I bet he’s not going for soft spoken, nerdy, average looking black women. Just because he has a good career, and presents himself as nice, doesn’t mean he is a good partner. And, yes, he could have met girls, they liked his personality, but weren’t into him physically. Women are pressured into giving so called nice guys a chance, but the nice guys switch up, or they simply can’t force themselves to be physically attracted. Or the girls he’s been with haven’t been the right person. People can get into relationships, and the relationship simply doesn’t work.
The same applies to women, but as I’ve said many times before, a lot of men will be in a serious relationship, string that woman along for years, not marry her, and she has to decide to stay with a man who is not progressing the relationship, or start over. It’s a lot easier for a man to date a woman we aren’t eagerly attracted to, because we experience pleasure every time we have sex. Women don’t. So women go for men they think will please them sexually, and hope he’s a good guy, and by the time they realize he isn’t, she’s already slept with him, caught feelings, and sticks around hoping he’ll change, because she doesn’t want to have to find someone else, and she doesn’t want just another body adding to her count. For us, another notch on our belt is nothing. Men don’t feel guilt for sleeping with a woman, and no relationship forming. In fact, most of us would love to be able to do that.
My wife and I discuss this all the time. It took a long time before I could understand this.
