Successful Coli bro doesn’t even get the chance to talk and the BW

[Wiseborn]

This is the exact argument women have when it comes to Black men who are on their game. Those men have all the options in the world and don’t want to settle down either. So women make the argument that they need to date out.


So what’s really going on?

They're both right. Generally Black people don't seem to like each other or that they're settling by dating a Black person.

The first post was wild because there's a lot of women without kids and face tattoos

Just like there's a lot of Black Men Engineers out here

But if dating the average Black person automatically gets you to envision dating a duck then that shows that you don't like Black people.

If you think the average Black woman is like Sexxy Redd and the average Black Man looks like Beetlejuice from the Howard Stern show then that's an internal problem.

Because divestors envision a Henry Cavil looka like and Black dudes envision a Megan Fox look a like when thinking of the average white person.

 

[Wiseborn]

Women don’t need men to take care of them anymore, just like men aren’t starving everyday if they don’t have a wife to cook for them. Some women do settle for men they aren’t attracted to, but then 10 years down the line, they have dead bedrooms because they can’t fake it anymore. Google: Not attracted to husband/boyfriend. It’s full of women who love the men they’re with because they treat them well, but are disgusted by them. I would NEVER want a woman who only likes me for my personality. Those women hate being touched by you, and will eventually cheat. This applies to all races.

Kinda can't take you seriously.
They found a fake bomb at a school in a town near me.

The second bolded sounds like you're questioning the concept of marriage as we know it.

My guy women will always need Men if for nothing else to validate them.

Why does Oprah deal with Steadman? Because if she didn't she wouldn't like the idea that she would be universally rejected even though she wouldn't be.

She got her best friend who I guess graduated from marriage like Tia Mowery did crashing out for Lenny Kravitz a nikka who wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Why does Oprah deal with Steadman?

Worst example ever!!!



She is clearly attracted to him.



And Stedman comes from old black money. He’s not poor.

 

[Wild self]

Why do Black men keep subjecting themselves to this?

To expose the double standards as well as the superficial benchmark that most black men cannot achieve, realistically.

 

[Wild self]

And how's that working for us?

So embrace a dictatorship with a structure like arranged marriages, to get female companionship?

 

[JasoRockStar]

There are plenty of black women in the comments saying he’s attractive, but he hasn’t met them.

Which is why you can't be upset at an entire ethnic group of women because some didn't think you were handsome.

 

[Wild self]

If you're trying to be "Attractive to a lot of Women", then BE Attractive to a lot of Women.

Women, can be just as superficial as Men.

if She isn't attracted to you, it doesn't matter what "Qualities" you have.

In a "Perfect World", people could just show up with accolades, skills, personality, etc..
In the REAL World, most people are only going to give you a shot if they like what they see.

The "Accolades" then become "Icing on the cake".

If you're a Breh struggling with Woman, step your appearance game up.

The fact is if a Woman is physically attracted to you, most of those "requirements" go out the window.

The thing is, that detailed info on the perks that sparks attraction is intentionally repressed

 

[AAKing23]

This is the exact argument women have when it comes to Black men who are on their game. Those men have all the options in the world and don’t want to settle down either. So women make the argument that they need to date out.


So what’s really going on?

I see your point but not quite the same thing.

There are more in shape black men than black women (Via Black Demographics; 37% of black men are obese vs 55% of BW), there are more childless black men than black women (61% of BW have kids to 46% of BM) and most black men are at least in the middle class.

I guess you can throw in height, education and look as a filter but BW still have a decent selection to choose from, they just choose wrong initially. And then after they get burnt, they only want to go after the top 10-15% of dudes.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Can y’all admit you think it’s fine for men to have physical preferences, but you think women should only focus on personality?

 

[JasoRockStar]

Humans beings are way too complex for us to be making such broad generalizations, especially with something as fickle as attraction.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Breh need to just get a Jap or white chic and call it a day

Then he's, "taking resources to the white community."

 

[Illuminatos]

Lmao I mean we can talk about the women all day but if the men have no standards and will accept this what’s the point? Why is a dude of this caliber competing for some single mothers?

The guy chose the single mom who only left the baby father because he wouldn’t propose to her. These guys keep choosing these women so why would they change?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Wasn’t there a trend about black women upgrading nerdy below average cacs and Asians? Why can’t the same thing be done to black men without “edge”?

The majority of those black women were average themselves. Most of y’all wouldn’t pursue them.

 

[Ohene]

Hate comments like this bc it overrates white women’s selection process

No it dont lol
White women far more sensible when it comes to dating

 

[The Fade]

She probably got posts about colorism and featurism too

Who’s being coddled again?