My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

[NZA]

i remember this girl in high school who had recently given birth just pulled her shirt up in art class and showed me that raisin belly. she was confident and arrogant as fukk, too. she rocked those stretch marks proudly

 

[Ashley Banks]

I clearly stated duty and legacy are the purpose of marriage. Men and women have different duties in marriage so no its not the same thing. Stop trying to equate men and women. Part of a woman's duty is to submit to her husband.

submit and get cheated on. wow, what a prize.

 

[Ashley Banks]

the woman is not fat.



if a family leader decides to expand his family, then as leader i'd expect him to analyze the consequences, if they're worth it & can he handle them. one of the possible consequences is stomach stretch marks. if he knows that is too big a turn off that could lead to potentially family-ending actions on his part, then he as a leader should decide to either not expand their family, use a surrogate or adopt.


if marriage is about the kids & not happiness as u state in the bolded, then i am guessing you are willing to stay with a wife who has a side dude if you two share kids?

Of course he’s not willing to stay, men think women should just deal with cheating and diseases and children with other women but wouldn’t do it themselves.

This is why they try to shame women that don’t want to date or get married because they want to make you think that being treated like shyt by your husband is better than being single. They talk shyt about women like Ashanti that are single but Ashanti will never feel the pain that this man’s wife is gonna feel when she catches him.

 

[Cat piss martini]

That shyt is fair game, but I bet the dude would be crying into his fukking cups. The thing I hate about this is, okay, sometimes people cheat, chalk it up to the game, we aren’t perfect as humans, but this dude has his wife feeling less than because she gave him children, and now her body is doing what it does, she is probably super self conscious about it, putting in more work in other areas she can control because she is probably ashamed, and all her fears are correct. I truly hope she goes out and gets some side, even the score, fukk it, run the fukking score up!

I'd have her throwing rocks at that nikka.

 

[HarlemHottie]

How can his friend's wife save herself without surgery

I suggested microneedling upthread.

My brother has a really bad scar on his calf from a car accident (he was hit while biking) so I got him one and some kinda serum ( possibly collagen) to use before and after. I dont know if he's using it regular enough though.

 

[Tres Leches]

This shyt is sad because I’m close to both of them. Whole situation is fukked up.

I know this guy through my previous job. He’s been married to his wife for 5 years. They have two children together but it was the second child that really messed up her stomach.

Breh said he loves her but he’s physically turned off when he sees her stomach. He said it looks like a dried up raisin.

They did actually discuss it and she had some consultations about getting some work done but due to her health history, it’s risky for her to be under any anaesthetic for a tummy tuck.

Now prior to her two children, her body was bad (I say this respectfully). She’s a pretty woman and really down to earth. She’s still slim now but you can see her confidence is shot. My boy has been smashing this college student for the past few months.

fukked up because he’s one of the few people who I thought wouldn’t step out on his wife. He said he’d never leave her because she’s a good mother and wife but he’s just not physically attracted to her anymore.

Can anyone here relate? Makes me worried to knock up my lady. Her body is tight but it just takes one kid to…

only 1 kid but my wife body still look as good as before the pregnancy, guess i lucked up

 

[Tres Leches]

Corey Holcomb - "her stomach looks like balled up homework"

always loved this joke

 

[Tres Leches]

he can keep his side chick but he still need to smash his wife or she gonna suspect something , tell him to turn off the lights for regular sex and when the lights on just ask for some head

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Yeap, heard a woman say she'll never get pregnant because of this


I couldn't cheat, and still don't condone it, but



@HarlemHottie @Coco Loco @CarmelBarbie @Booksnrain

How can his friend's wife save herself without surgery

I don’t know. I only have 1 child, and I barely got stretch marks. It seems like it’s the second or third baby that fukks your stomach up. I did have a friend who got something done on her belly—it was monthly derma-rolling or something that she had done each month. She did it for about 9 months I think, and her stomach looked noticeably different. Now the stretch marks were still there but they didn’t look bad anymore. It was not invasive. I don’t know how much it costs though. I think it was less expensive than what a tummy tuck would be. Idk tho.

as far the op’s friend, he’s a piece of shyt. Look any woman that’s had 2 or more kids especially via c-section is going to look like it in the belly area(how bad it looks will depend on the woman). It’s not something she can help. I know plenty of moms with bad stretch mark bellies and as far as I know the husbands are faithful and since they are continuing to knock them up lol they obviously still are attracted regardless. He’s on some other shyt. If he’s truly not attracted to the point where he feels like cheating is okay, he’s better off divorcing her. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.

 

[Tres Leches]

Just have her put on one of the Mr Perfect singlets and move the bottom to the side

 

[OneManGang]

And Its better she stays in prime shape without the raisin belly but that's not reality is it? Yall love idealism. How many people are happily married? Majority of marriages end in divorce. And most of those who don't divorce are not happy in their marriage and stay just for the kids or convenience. That's reality. Marriage aint all about happiness or sexual satisfaction. Its about duty and legacy. Most marraiges that actually last are cause they came to that realization.

This is

Talk to these nikkas

 

[L@CaT]

She can correct the stretch marks herself. Tell her to look into microneedling. She’ll have to buy a roller and some serums, but she can improve her stretch marks herself if she wants

 

[L@CaT]

I don’t know. I only have 1 child, and I barely got stretch marks. It seems like it’s the second or third baby that fukks your stomach up. I did have a friend who got something done on her belly—it was monthly derma-rolling or something that she had done each month. She did it for about 9 months I think, and her stomach looked noticeably different. Now the stretch marks were still there but they didn’t look bad anymore. It was not invasive. I don’t know how much it costs though. I think it was less expensive than what a tummy tuck would be. Idk tho.

as far the op’s friend, he’s a piece of shyt. Look any woman that’s had 2 or more kids especially via c-section is going to look like it in the belly area(how bad it looks will depend on the woman). It’s not something she can help. I know plenty of moms with bad stretch mark bellies and as far as I know the husbands are faithful and since they are continuing to knock them up lol they obviously still are attracted regardless. He’s on some other shyt. If he’s truly not attracted to the point where he feels like cheating is okay, he’s better off divorcing her. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.

You can prevent stretch marks. Stretch marks is essential dry skin that is stretching out, which turns into scarring. If you keep the area moist, use serums, you should be able to prevent them all together.

 

[CHICAGO]

I found a picture similar to the one he showed me. You were warned.

NAH I CANT fukk WITH THAT.

YOU NEED TO PUT THAT PIC IN THE OP.

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[So-Chi]

All I know is a cougar blew my socks off with one of those cinnamon roll belly's told me to tell her when I bust, and I did yet she swallowed it anyway cuz "she wanted to taste me"... Dear LAWD. 1of 3 to ever do that..sorry I got lost, ya'll