My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

[13473]

The greatest leaders in history had side pieces. was MLK not a great man and leader? Nelson Mandela? Ali? Name 1 great man or leader in history who was faithful. They all had hoes while married. Yall live in fantasy land.

And I'm not advising he lie to her or do it behind her back. I'm saying make an arrangement that they can live with. Nobody will go sexless for very long in a relationship. Cheating in this scenario is inevitable. Since he doesnt want to have sex with her he might be cool with her having some simp on the side as well. That's for them to work out but pretending it aint an issue wont solve anything and make both miserable.

being a good leader of a movement/company isn't the same thing as being a good leader of a family.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I'm getting a divorce. I'd take my wife back in a heartbeat, stretch marks and all. She's still fine though. But man I have no desire to be out here in these streets. I just wanna lay on the couch with my wife and watch whatever uninteresting NBC show she's in to at the moment. I just want to rub her feet after a long day and go on date nights. Tell your boy that ain't nothing better for a man than a good woman

Why are you two divorcing?

 

[BunchePark]

You GREEN AF coming in here about ya "friend"

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

The greatest leaders in history had side pieces. was MLK not a great man and leader? Nelson Mandela? Ali? Name 1 great man or leader in history who was faithful. They all had hoes while married. Yall live in fantasy land.

And I'm not advising he lie to her or do it behind her back. I'm saying make an arrangement that they can live with. Nobody will go sexless for very long in a relationship. Cheating in this scenario is inevitable. Since he doesnt want to have sex with her he might be cool with her having some simp on the side as well. That's for them to work out but pretending it aint an issue wont solve anything and make both miserable.

A lack of self control makes you a liability. And unworthy of leading your family. There are plenty of rich and powerful people who are asshats and abusers to their families.

The logic doesn’t follow.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

being a good leader of a movement/company isn't the same thing as being a good leader of a family.

So if he was honest and told her he was no longer attracted to his wife and decided to get a divorce and become a weekend dad instead of just "cheating" or having a side piece on occasion... would that be a better or worse situation for her and their 2 kids?

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

Thread filled with unrealistic karma scenarios. Which world do people live in where evil can't prosper, there are a lot of good men who get left for nothing, and a lot of wicked cheating ones with their spouses still since they understand their role in a family set up.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

A lack of self control makes you a liability. And unworthy of leading your family. There are plenty of rich and powerful people who are asshats and abusers to their families.

The logic doesn’t follow.

There is a difference between having one trusted mistress who knows her position and running though a bunch of random women.

 

[Ducktales]

He don’t appreciate her good enough bruh

go ahead and make that move u been waiting 4
fukk a friend









Don’t do it

 

[Rozay Oro]

If things like this will be done they must be done in secret.

Its not realistic for someone to find their partner attractive for the rest of their life. If your gonna have an affair be discrete and don't get caught. If you do get caught prepare to deal with the consequences.

When I say don't tell no one i mean don't tell your friend who is friends with both you and your partner and is known to be a lil chatty patty who will go and expose your business on online message boards.

If you’re gonna tell do it anonymously like on here or to a friend who don’t know that man at all lmao

 

[13473]

So if he was honest and told her he was no longer attracted to his wife and decided to get a divorce and become a weekend dad instead of just "cheating" or having a side piece on occasion... would that be a better or worse situation for her and their 2 kids?

sir, it's better if he doesn't cheat.

if he feels risking being a weekend dad is worth cheating, then it doesn't sound like he's family leader material in the first place. he should divorce his wife & let both find happiness elsewhere.

 

[TheBigBopper]

This is why I’m never having kids. Stretch marks are nasty af

 

[Ahadi]

Thread filled with unrealistic karma scenarios. Which world do people live in where evil can't prosper, there are a lot of good men who get left for nothing, and a lot of wicked cheating ones with their spouses still since they understand their role in a family set up.

Exactly. Evil wins majority of the time

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Get married breh(ettes)

Nowhere close to marriage but in the event, I do she’s getting a nutritionist, chef and personal trainer for that pregnancy

 

[QuintessentialMan]

the length some of y'all go to, to rationalize why men can cheat and woman cannot is hilarious. No, she doesn't have to deal with his mess. She can get a divorce and he will have to pay child and spousal support. Ask someone who is doing that how much fun it is

I admire your quixoticity but most women worldwide do just deal with it.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

shyt is sad

Do you hang out with the wife solo? If they split up would you be still hanging out with her?