Huge part.I think part of the relationship problem is when we meet someone initially we’re not meeting them rather who they think you would like. So you get with a person it’s ups and downs of uncovering the real them. Once that person is revealed then you must decide is this relationship/marriage worth keeping?
That's why a lot of suburban 6-figure making couples are sleeping in separate bedrooms. Everything matched for the external, and figured that internal needs would would work themselves out over time.