My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

They have procedures to fix that that don't require surgery. He's a piece of shyt.

Didn't know that

Thread filled with unrealistic karma scenarios. Which world do people live in where evil can't prosper, there are a lot of good men who get left for nothing, and a lot of wicked cheating ones with their spouses still since they understand their role in a family set up.

people learn the hard way that karma does not exist, or maybe doesn't exist in the way we think
it's about being smart and having some luck

 

[Nigerianwonder]

sir, it's better if he doesn't cheat.

if he feels risking being a weekend dad is worth cheating, then it doesn't sound like he's family leader material in the first place. he should divorce his wife & let both find happiness elsewhere.

And Its better she stays in prime shape without the raisin belly but that's not reality is it? Yall love idealism. How many people are happily married? Majority of marriages end in divorce. And most of those who don't divorce are not happy in their marriage and stay just for the kids or convenience. That's reality. Marriage aint all about happiness or sexual satisfaction. Its about duty and legacy. Most marraiges that actually last are cause they came to that realization.

 

[Weaver31]

I hope he gets in an accident that leaves him disfigured but fully mobile/functional and his wife loses attraction, and step out on him.



fair is fair

Don't even need all that...aging, genetics, stress, weight gain and other factors can cause him to get . He better hope she don't be looking for side dikk then.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Do you hang out with the wife solo? If they split up would you be still hanging out with her?

I don’t have female friends so there’s a 0% chance of that happening.

 

[Diondon]

He should have been rubbing coco butter on her belly throughout the pregnancy
Weak shyt.

 

[TheBigBopper]

Get married breh(ettes)

Nowhere close to marriage but in the event, I do she’s getting a nutritionist, chef and personal trainer for that pregnancy

just buy her a surrogate

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

just buy her a surrogate

I would absolutely do that in a second.

You know some women though…they want to experience “the gift of giving life” and fear they won’t bond properly

 

[karim]

I admire your quixoticity but most women worldwide do just deal with it.

50% of marriages end in divorce, of those divorces, 80% are initiated by woman

 

[13473]

And Its better she stays in prime shape without the raisin belly but that's not reality is it? Yall love idealism. How many people are happily married? Majority of marriages end in divorce. And most of those who don't divorce are not happy in their marriage and stay just for the kids or convenience. That's reality. Marriage aint all about happiness or sexual satisfaction. Its about duty and legacy. Most marraiges that actually last are cause they came to that realization.

the woman is not fat.



if a family leader decides to expand his family, then as leader i'd expect him to analyze the consequences, if they're worth it & can he handle them. one of the possible consequences is stomach stretch marks. if he knows that is too big a turn off that could lead to potentially family-ending actions on his part, then he as a leader should decide to either not expand their family, use a surrogate or adopt.


if marriage is about the kids & not happiness as u state in the bolded, then i am guessing you are willing to stay with a wife who has a side dude if you two share kids?

 

[KingJay]

He's cheating because he wants to

Exactly. He's dancing around it. Some of the best positions you don't see the stomach at all
And I can't imagine it's THAT bad, and even still she could wear a corset or somethin over it

 

[Nigerianwonder]

the woman is not fat.



if a family leader decides to expand his family, then as leader i'd expect him to analyze the consequences, if they're worth it & can he handle them. one of the possible consequences is stomach stretch marks. if he knows that is too big a turn off that could lead to potentially family-ending actions on his part, then he as a leader should decide to either not expand their family, use a surrogate or adopt.


if marriage is about the kids & not happiness as u state in the bolded, then i am guessing you are willing to stay with a wife who has a side dude if you two share kids?

I clearly stated duty and legacy are the purpose of marriage. Men and women have different duties in marriage so no its not the same thing. Stop trying to equate men and women. Part of a woman's duty is to submit to her husband.

 

[13473]

I clearly stated duty and legacy are the purpose of marriage. Men and women have different duties in marriage so no its not the same thing. Stop trying to equate men and women. Part of a woman's duty is to submit to her husband.

a leader you can't trust isn't a leader you should follow. cheating does not help a man's duty to lead or protect.

you are just tryna find ways to excuse your behavior when really a leader should display more discipline & better values etc than those he's leading.

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Why he nut in her if he aint want her to look like shyt. These dudes be playing stupid games.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Damn. Imagine almost dying getting your children here being a good wife and your husband stab you in the back you because you don’t look the same after having his kids. This is why I never judge women that choose to stay single. Even when you do everything right, this is what you end up with.

 

[QuintessentialMan]

And Its better she stays in prime shape without the raisin belly but that's not reality is it? Yall love idealism. How many people are happily married? Majority of marriages end in divorce. And most of those who don't divorce are not happy in their marriage and stay just for the kids or convenience. That's reality. Marriage aint all about happiness or sexual satisfaction. Its about duty and legacy. Most marraiges that actually last are cause they came to that realization.