My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

[Nigerianwonder]

It isn’t extreme, it happens ALL the time. You’re idealizing cheating thinking that people don’t get side pieces pregnant and bring home diseases to their wives. Like the side chicks don’t catch feelings and show up on doorsteps or even try to kill the wives.

It’s not a Disney fantasy to not want to be treated like shyt. Whats funny is YOU don’t want to be cheated on but when women don’t it’s just a fantasy.

Its extreme. Do you realize how many people cheat? Hate to bust your disney bubble but most cheaters get away with it and take it to the grave. There is a lot of data out there on this but here is some:
30 to 60 percent of married couples will cheat at least once
74 percent of men and 68 percent of women admit they’d cheat if it was guaranteed they’d never get caught
Infidelity statistics: Data and trends revealed for 2020

Regardless of the data source the stats are all in line with the 60 - 70 % divorce rate. So there is a lot of cheating going on and most aint bringing home diseases or babies. If you want to be extreme genital herpes can lie dormant an undetectable for years before randomly showing up so unless you are virgin when you are married its possible to give the disease to your partner. But that extreme doesnt stop people from getting married and it shouldn't.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Its extreme. Do you realize how many people cheat? Hate to bust your disney bubble but most cheaters get away with it and take it to the grave. There is a lot of data out there on this but here is some:
30 to 60 percent of married couples will cheat at least once
74 percent of men and 68 percent of women admit they’d cheat if it was guaranteed they’d never get caught
Infidelity statistics: Data and trends revealed for 2020

Regardless of the data source the stats are all in line with the 60 - 70 % divorce rate. So there is a lot of cheating going on and most aint bringing home diseases or babies. If you want to be extreme genital herpes can lie dormant an undetectable for years before randomly showing up so unless you are virgin when you are married its possible to give the disease to your partner. But that extreme doesnt stop people from getting married and it shouldn't.

I’m not white, I don’t have a fukking Disney fantasy. So let that shyt go. Cheating does bring in stds and outside children, you’re the one living in a fantasy thinking it doesn’t. Youre tb about fantasies but you think a man can go around fukking random women for years and nothing happens no diseases, no pregnancies.

Second, I’m a nurse, I know all about stds that’s how I know wtf I’m talking about and PLENTY of women get them from their cheating husbands and PLENTY of women get pregnant by married men.

Third, I said people try to shame women for choosing to stay single and avoid this problem and you tried to make it seem like having a cheating spouse was a better alternative to being single when it’s not. A bad marriage literally kills you slowly. Being single doesn’t. So where are you getting this Disney fantasy idea from???

Anyways I’m over this. I’m gonna go watch Marianne

 

[Diyhai]

They have procedures to fix that that don't require surgery. He's a piece of shyt.

nah for the serious cases surgery is the only fix
aint no fixing that naturally

 

[Killigraphy]

Do what you want I say....if she looks like day old lasagna, then find you a nice young bird with a tight body.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Pretty sure they have cosmetic surgery to fix that, sounds like your boy just wanted some new p*ssy

don’t we all

 

[Fresh]

This shyt is sad because I’m close to both of them. Whole situation is fukked up.

I know this guy through my previous job. He’s been married to his wife for 5 years. They have two children together but it was the second child that really messed up her stomach.

Breh said he loves her but he’s physically turned off when he sees her stomach. He said it looks like a dried up raisin.

They did actually discuss it and she had some consultations about getting some work done but due to her health history, it’s risky for her to be under any anaesthetic for a tummy tuck.

Now prior to her two children, her body was bad (I say this respectfully). She’s a pretty woman and really down to earth. She’s still slim now but you can see her confidence is shot. My boy has been smashing this college student for the past few months.

fukked up because he’s one of the few people who I thought wouldn’t step out on his wife. He said he’d never leave her because she’s a good mother and wife but he’s just not physically attracted to her anymore.

Can anyone here relate? Makes me worried to knock up my lady. Her body is tight but it just takes one kid to…

your boy is being petty af to keep it real

she had two of his children and that's how he repays her... wow

 

[1LurkerChick9]

You can prevent stretch marks. Stretch marks is essential dry skin that is stretching out, which turns into scarring. If you keep the area moist, use serums, you should be able to prevent them all together.

Not true

Whether you get stretch marks depends on your body aka genetics
A woman told me she moisturized her belly daily and still got them
I’ve had stretch marks on my calves since I was a kid because I got taller

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Stop snitching nikka.

 

[Methodical]

He's cheating because he wants to

Exactly!

 

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Its extreme. Do you realize how many people cheat? Hate to bust your disney bubble but most cheaters get away with it and take it to the grave. There is a lot of data out there on this but here is some:
30 to 60 percent of married couples will cheat at least once
74 percent of men and 68 percent of women admit they’d cheat if it was guaranteed they’d never get caught
Infidelity statistics: Data and trends revealed for 2020

Regardless of the data source the stats are all in line with the 60 - 70 % divorce rate. So there is a lot of cheating going on and most aint bringing home diseases or babies. If you want to be extreme genital herpes can lie dormant an undetectable for years before randomly showing up so unless you are virgin when you are married its possible to give the disease to your partner. But that extreme doesnt stop people from getting married and it shouldn't.

The real fantasy is a man thinking he can do what he wants without consequence in a union of two people.

Sure people cheat. But men have this hypocritical gap between understanding the consequences of their cheating and thinking their female counterparts are going to remain perfectly loyal to them when they step out.

THATS the delusion. Which is why a lotta these kids don’t look like their daddies. But side dudes gotta tell that story. Because ya’ll won’t believe me. You think I’m just trying to build a perfect 1:1 ratio of fukkery to justice.

Im literally telling you, ur giving your wifey incentive to fukk you…no lube.

Bottom line is, give up the fantasy that you can dog somebody out without it biting you in the ass. You playing Russian roulette with that bs, in a day and age that doesn’t support ur fukkery.
Being single doesn’t have the same stigma it had years ago. Women being grimey isn’t getting the same shame. So if a choice has to be made between being stressed out in a relationship with somebody that can’t keep their dikk in their pants or being single, a whole lotta people are choosing the last option.

Or many are just doing dirt quietly and men rarely find out b/c side dikks play their role better than side chicks. That’s the “real” uncut. But we only wanna label men having no control over their dikks as “reality” but wanna throw a hissy fit when dna testing suggests that a lotta dem kids in the family tree didn’t come from daddy’s dikk.

Why you think they had eunichs guarding chicks back in the day? Ya’ll wanna finesse this polygamy stuff so bad while ignoring how you don’t have the same social safety nets to support that nonsense in this era.

Fukk around and lose your wealth, health, and access to your children—that might not even be yours depending on whether wifey was getting her back blown out.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

I’m not white, I don’t have a fukking Disney fantasy. So let that shyt go. Cheating does bring in stds and outside children, you’re the one living in a fantasy thinking it doesn’t. Youre tb about fantasies but you think a man can go around fukking random women for years and nothing happens no diseases, no pregnancies.

Second, I’m a nurse, I know all about stds that’s how I know wtf I’m talking about and PLENTY of women get them from their cheating husbands and PLENTY of women get pregnant by married men.

Third, I said people try to shame women for choosing to stay single and avoid this problem and you tried to make it seem like having a cheating spouse was a better alternative to being single when it’s not. A bad marriage literally kills you slowly. Being single doesn’t. So where are you getting this Disney fantasy idea from???

Anyways I’m over this. I’m gonna go watch Marianne

I'm not advocating being reckless and raw dogging with random women. Everything has a risk in life however wearing protection and being selective and ideally having 1 consistent mistress will significantly limit the chance of catching any diseases to where its a negligible risk. Birth control, morning after pill, vasectomy etc can prevent kids. Most sidepieces/ mistresses don't want your kids anyway. They enjoy the perks and lifestyle of being the mistress. A lot of times a married mans side piece is another married woman who has just as much to loose as you. If a man is cheating and not knowing who he is dealing and not taking the proper precautions then that's on him.

Also remember there are happily married couples who swing or allow their spouse to see others so everyone doesn't have your same conservative views on marriage. They still engage in those activities in a responsible manor and accept the risk.

Staying single is not a solution or better than a cheating spouse. Its a death sentence to die alone and miserable. These old single women aint happy. they are bitter and miserable which is why we hear them complaining about men and their life all the time. There is much more to a marriage than sex.

 

[Ashley Banks]

The real fantasy is a man thinking he can do what he wants without consequence in a union of two people.

Sure people cheat. But men have this hypocritical gap between understanding the consequences of their cheating and thinking their female counterparts are going to remain perfectly loyal to them when they step out.

THATS the delusion. Which is why a lotta these kids don’t look like their daddies. But side dudes gotta tell that story. Because ya’ll won’t believe me. You think I’m just trying to build a perfect 1:1 ratio of fukkery to justice.

Im literally telling you, ur giving your wifey incentive to fukk you…no lube.

Bottom line is, give up the fantasy that you can dog somebody out without it biting you in the ass. You playing Russian roulette with that bs, in a day and age that doesn’t support ur fukkery.
Being single doesn’t have the same stigma it had years ago. Women being grimey isn’t getting the same shame. So if a choice has to be made between being stressed out in a relationship with somebody that can’t keep their dikk in their pants or being single, a whole lotta people are choosing the last option.

Or many are just doing dirt quietly and men rarely find out b/c side dikks play their role better than side chicks. That’s the “real” uncut. But we only wanna label men having no control over their dikks as “reality” but wanna throw a hissy fit when dna testing suggests that a lotta dem kids in the family tree didn’t come from daddy’s dikk.

Why you think they had eunichs guarding chicks back in the day? Ya’ll wanna finesse this polygamy stuff so bad while ignoring how you don’t have the same social safety nets to support that nonsense in this era.

Fukk around and lose your wealth, health, and access to your children—that might not even be yours depending on whether wifey was getting her back blown out.

This is all I was saying. He kept trying to discredit it with the “Disney fantasy” but where is women choosing to be single or doing the same back in Disney’s fairytales?? If anything him thinking that nothing happens when a man cheats is a fantasy, he really thinks cheating doesn’t spread stds. no it’s the people only sleeping with one person that’s spreading it not the people with multiple partners. Then he’s trying to convince us that being married and being played is better than being single but yet he doesn’t want to be cheated on and he doesn’t see the flaw in his theory. All these men afraid to get married because they think she will cheat but are trying to convince us that cheating spouse is best option.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I'm not advocating being reckless and raw dogging with random women. Everything has a risk in life however wearing protection and being selective and ideally having 1 consistent mistress will significantly limit the chance of catching any diseases to where its a negligible risk. Birth control, morning after pill, vasectomy etc can prevent kids. Most sidepieces/ mistresses don't want your kids anyway. They enjoy the perks and lifestyle of being the mistress. A lot of times a married mans side piece is another married woman who has just as much to loose as you. If a man is cheating and not knowing who he is dealing and not taking the proper precautions then that's on him.

Also remember there are happily married couples who swing or allow their spouse to see others so everyone doesn't have your same conservative views on marriage. They still engage in those activities in a responsible manor and accept the risk.

Staying single is not a solution or better than a cheating spouse. Its a death sentence to die alone and miserable. These old single women aint happy. they are bitter and miserable which is why we hear them complaining about men and their life all the time. There is much more to a marriage than sex.

a married mistress, who’s fukking her husband, who’s fukking somebody else, who’s also fukking somebody else but no diseases are ever spread in your world? “Then that’s on him” and the wife is stuck with whatever he brings in. But at least she isn’t single. Right?

 

[T'Challa Trillmonger]

The real fantasy is a man thinking he can do what he wants without consequence in a union of two people.

Sure people cheat. But men have this hypocritical gap between understanding the consequences of their cheating and thinking their female counterparts are going to remain perfectly loyal to them when they step out.

THATS the delusion. Which is why a lotta these kids don’t look like their daddies. But side dudes gotta tell that story. Because ya’ll won’t believe me. You think I’m just trying to build a perfect 1:1 ratio of fukkery to justice.

Im literally telling you, ur giving your wifey incentive to fukk you…no lube.

Bottom line is, give up the fantasy that you can dog somebody out without it biting you in the ass. You playing Russian roulette with that bs, in a day and age that doesn’t support ur fukkery.
Being single doesn’t have the same stigma it had years ago. Women being grimey isn’t getting the same shame. So if a choice has to be made between being stressed out in a relationship with somebody that can’t keep their dikk in their pants or being single, a whole lotta people are choosing the last option.

Or many are just doing dirt quietly and men rarely find out b/c side dikks play their role better than side chicks. That’s the “real” uncut. But we only wanna label men having no control over their dikks as “reality” but wanna throw a hissy fit when dna testing suggests that a lotta dem kids in the family tree didn’t come from daddy’s dikk.

Why you think they had eunichs guarding chicks back in the day? Ya’ll wanna finesse this polygamy stuff so bad while ignoring how you don’t have the same social safety nets to support that nonsense in this era.

Fukk around and lose your wealth, health, and access to your children—that might not even be yours depending on whether wifey was getting her back blown out.

do you believe most of those men who are (unknowingly) raising kids that arent their own deserve it? not all of them are cheaters, some are getting done dirty not unlike OP's friend w/ his wife ... not to digress or derail the thread

but yes i agree with your over-arching point - some dudes in the thread talkin delusional, as if you can wrong and shyt on someone's self esteem like described in the original post with no repercussions or reactions

there's still right and wrong, i think most folks know this but rationalize the BS to themselves

OP's friend having other desires is one thing - blaming it as if it's the wife's shortcomings is super fukked up imo, especially since its from an action both participated in

it's sad, why get married if theres no effort to compromise or sacrifice at all? you should love your partner beyond just the superficial if its a for life thing ... or at bare minimum communicate your needs in an compassionate way without putting down another person smh ... like what reason is there to cheat while also making her feel bad?

stories like this makes so many people (women and men alike) not even bother with marriage or commitment anymore

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

do you believe most of those men who are (unknowingly) raising kids that arent their own deserve it? not all of them are cheaters, some are getting done dirty not unlike OP's friend w/ his wife ... not to digress or derail the thread

but yes i agree with your over-arching point - some dudes in the thread talkin delusional, as if you can wrong and shyt on someone's self esteem like described in the original post with no repercussions or reactions

there's still right and wrong, i think most folks know this but rationalize the BS to themselves

OP's friend having other desires is one thing - blaming it as if it's the wife's shortcomings is super fukked up imo, especially since its from an action both participated in

it's sad, why get married if theres no effort to compromise or sacrifice at all? you should love your partner beyond just the superficial if its a for life thing ... or at bare minimum communicate your needs in an compassionate way without putting down another person smh ... like what reason is there to cheat while also making her feel bad?

stories like this makes so many people (women and men alike) not even bother with marriage or commitment anymore

Oh totally. There’s some legit crazy dirty chicks doing legit grimey shyt to people who don’t deserve it.
But yeah, not every villain gets karma, but when it comes to relationships it’s less wiggle room for shyt. Especially in this era.

You brought up so many good points. Especially the one about disillusionments and not bothering with it at all. Taking this type of stuff for granted in an age where people don’t have to get married anymore is like wearing the same clothes in the winter as you did in the summer. People just ignoring current social status quo to keep this dream of scot-free scumbaggery alive.