Nigerianwonder
Superstar
The real fantasy is a man thinking he can do what he wants without consequence in a union of two people.
Sure people cheat. But men have this hypocritical gap between understanding the consequences of their cheating and thinking their female counterparts are going to remain perfectly loyal to them when they step out.
THATS the delusion. Which is why a lotta these kids don’t look like their daddies. But side dudes gotta tell that story. Because ya’ll won’t believe me. You think I’m just trying to build a perfect 1:1 ratio of fukkery to justice.
Im literally telling you, ur giving your wifey incentive to fukk you…no lube.
Bottom line is, give up the fantasy that you can dog somebody out without it biting you in the ass. You playing Russian roulette with that bs, in a day and age that doesn’t support ur fukkery.
Being single doesn’t have the same stigma it had years ago. Women being grimey isn’t getting the same shame. So if a choice has to be made between being stressed out in a relationship with somebody that can’t keep their dikk in their pants or being single, a whole lotta people are choosing the last option.
Or many are just doing dirt quietly and men rarely find out b/c side dikks play their role better than side chicks. That’s the “real” uncut. But we only wanna label men having no control over their dikks as “reality” but wanna throw a hissy fit when dna testing suggests that a lotta dem kids in the family tree didn’t come from daddy’s dikk.
Why you think they had eunichs guarding chicks back in the day?Ya’ll wanna finesse this polygamy stuff so bad while ignoring how you don’t have the same social safety nets to support that nonsense in this era.
Fukk around and lose your wealth, health, and access to your children—that might not even be yours depending on whether wifey was getting her back blown out.
You got me mixed up cause I dont have those problems. I don't put nobody on a pedestal. Men and women cheat. I'm not delusional like some of yall are. I actually think more women cheat than men its just yall are better at hiding it and take it to the grave. Statistically speaking folks sharing their spouse regardless. I posted the stat. over 70% of people married would cheat if they had the opportunity and thought they could get away with it and 30 to 60% actually have already cheated. Majority of marriages end in divorce so getting married itself can be considered playing Russian roulette if you want to keep it real. Men often got the most to loose in divorce court.
I know how grimey women can be cause Ive been that side dude plenty of times who they were cheating on their significant other with. Ive been cert gang for a minute so I don't gotta sneak around and cheat. My current girl has no problem with me dealing with other women as long as I don't hide it from her or bring any drama.
no it’s the people only sleeping with one person that’s spreading it not the people with multiple partners. Then he’s trying to convince us that being married and being played is better than being single but yet he doesn’t want to be cheated on and he doesn’t see the flaw in his theory. All these men afraid to get married because they think she will cheat but are trying to convince us that cheating spouse is best option. 
sir, it's better if he doesn't cheat.
They ain’t lasting whether she catches him cheating or not.
