My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

[number21]

Reciprocity is the foundation of any relationship. Treat people the way you wanna be treated or stay by yourself. If you don’t want somebody doing you dirty, then don’t do them dirty.

Simple shyt. No need for a back and forth.

According to the op, he still being a loving Husband.

So, I'm not sure what you mean by being done dirty.

A man having something on the side isn't disrespecting the relationship. If we were go to the traditional ideal of one.

 

[PhillyzFinest]

His karma is gonna be vicious

extremely vicious. That’s beyond selfish and petty.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Damn the women in this thread took this personal

I don’t condone his behavior btw, just saying y’all don’t even know this girl

I’ve had friends and family go through similar shyt. One who almost committed suicide. I dunno why Some dudes want women to just take and take and take them doing foul shyt, and then get shocked that it has an effect.
But then be ready to commit and triple homicide/suicide if they get cheated on. People just need to stop playing with people’s emotions and do right by those they chose.

 

[BrehWyatt]

This shyt is sad because I’m close to both of them. Whole situation is fukked up.

I know this guy through my previous job. He’s been married to his wife for 5 years. They have two children together but it was the second child that really messed up her stomach.

Breh said he loves her but he’s physically turned off when he sees her stomach. He said it looks like a dried up raisin.

They did actually discuss it and she had some consultations about getting some work done but due to her health history, it’s risky for her to be under any anaesthetic for a tummy tuck.

Now prior to her two children, her body was bad (I say this respectfully). She’s a pretty woman and really down to earth. She’s still slim now but you can see her confidence is shot. My boy has been smashing this college student for the past few months.

fukked up because he’s one of the few people who I thought wouldn’t step out on his wife. He said he’d never leave her because she’s a good mother and wife but he’s just not physically attracted to her anymore.

Can anyone here relate? Makes me worried to knock up my lady. Her body is tight but it just takes one kid to…

Cheating in general is heaux shyt.

But this is some heaux shyt.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

According to the op, he still being a loving Husband.

So, I'm not sure what you mean by being done dirty.

A man having something on the side isn't disrespecting the relationship. If we were go to the traditional ideal of one.

That’s your opinion. It’s up to each individual couple to decide what’s best for them.

I abide by the golden rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. It’s very hard to bullshyt that concept. If your partner stepping out on you would make you feel like some shyt, then don’t step out on your partner. If your relationship is closed and it’s you and your partner then that’s it. But if it’s open, then everybody is getting down.
You only get out, the energy you put in. It’s physics. Every action has an opposite and equal reaction. And it’s inescapable.

Peace…(also did we really have an exchange without flaming each other??!)
Look at that growth!!!

 

[JQ Legend]

I’ve had friends and family go through similar shyt. One who almost committed suicide. I dunno why Some dudes want women to just take and take and take them doing foul shyt, and then get shocked that it has an effect.
But then be ready to commit and triple homicide/suicide if they get cheated on. People just need to stop playing with people’s emotions and do right by those they chose.

This sounds good but a lot of people tend to be good to those who don’t give a fukk about them.

When it comes to women, men who are super nice, respectful, and loyal are likely to be seen as weak, desperate pushovers. Not to mention women don’t like men who can’t get other women.

I wouldn’t be surprised if some dudes feel like they gotta cheat to avoid being seen as weak especially seeing how men who cheat get treated vs how the nice guy does.

I still don’t justify this dude behavior or his reasons tho

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

the length some of y'all go to, to rationalize why men can cheat and woman cannot is hilarious. No, she doesn't have to deal with his mess. She can get a divorce and he will have to pay child and spousal support. Ask someone who is doing that how much fun it is

I’ll never get it. Just avoiding accountability, straight scumbaggery, lack of self-control and disrespect and a lack of love.

 

[Sccit]

the length some of y'all go to, to rationalize why men can cheat and woman cannot is hilarious. No, she doesn't have to deal with his mess. She can get a divorce and he will have to pay child and spousal support. Ask someone who is doing that how much fun it is

SO U THINK MEN AND WOMEN ARE THE SAME?

DO U CONSIDER YASELF A MALE FEMINIST??

 

[JQ Legend]

That’s your opinion. It’s up to each individual couple to decide what’s best for them.

I abide by the golden rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. It’s very hard to bullshyt that concept. If your partner stepping out on you would make you feel like some shyt, then don’t step out on your partner. If your relationship is closed and it’s you and your partner then that’s it. But if it’s open, then everybody is getting down.
You only get out, the energy you put in. It’s physics. Every action has an opposite and equal reaction. And it’s inescapable.

Peace…(also did we really have an exchange without flaming each other??!)
Look at that growth!!!

Once again, that sounds good but doesn’t work that way in real life. Plenty of people get shyt done to them they haven’t done to the person doing it to them.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Ok, so by this logic, if a breh starts getting a beer belly in his late 30's, or his hairline recedes, his wife is justified when she starts cheating with her personal trainer as long as she continues to take care of the kids and has dinner ready when her husband comes home

If she is the breadwinner, protector and head of household then yes he should play his position. But we all know if someone breaks in the home the husband will be one to have to lay his life on the line to defend them.

 

[karim]

SO U THINK MEN AND WOMEN ARE THE SAME?

DO U CONSIDER YASELF A MALE FEMINIST??

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This sounds good but a lot of people tend to be good to those who don’t give a fukk about them.

When it comes to women, men who are super nice, respectful, and loyal are likely to be seen as weak, desperate pushovers. Not to mention women don’t like men who can’t get other women.

I wouldn’t be surprised if some dudes feel like they gotta cheat to avoid being seen as weak especially seeing how men who cheat get treated vs how the move guy does.

I still don’t justify this dude behavior or his reasons tho

Nah. That’s a cop out. Because women deal with the same shyt. There are dudes who literally won’t deal with u if you are nice to them. Ignore them, drag them, leave em on read, treat em like shyt and VIOLA, they are all over you.
But you are talking about a subset of individuals who are mentally broken and confuse dysfunction for love.

Yeah those men AND women exist, but they aren’t justifications for cheating on somebody you chose.

We need to stop finding excuses for people when they cheat. It’s just about selfishness and weak character traits. That’s it. The rest is just juelzing we do to justify people choosing to betray their partners.

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

I knew a girl with this issue she was fine asf
Slim THICK all natural..




except her stomach looked to the portal to hell
it was real bad

Still smashed.. she wasnt mine though

Don't get married If you still on some bullshyt

Stay with her or leave cheating is extra foul


I never cheated while I was married

 

[karim]

If she is the breadwinner, protector and head of household then yes he should play his position. But we all know if someone breaks in the home the husband will be one to have to lay his life on the line to defend them.

So the hypothetical possibility that somebody could break into your home and you might be required to defend your family allows you to betray your vows and cheat on your wife
Do you guys actually listen to the things you say

 

[OneManGang]

Not offering an opinion on the matter. Not my life, not my shoes…but that ball up piece of paper stomach from kids is my worst nightmare. It wouldn’t drive me to cheat, but I’d def be physically unattracted which would lead to other issues