My friend is cheating on his wife because of her stretch marks.

[number21]

That’s your opinion. It’s up to each individual couple to decide what’s best for them.

And that's the reason things are so chaotic in the black community. Cats doing whatever pleases them and not having a set way living that works for everyone.

Have a good one.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Once again, that sounds good but doesn’t work that way in real life. Plenty of people get shyt done to them they haven’t done to the person doing it to them.

Of course. And plenty refuse to tolerate it when it comes to light. Which explains the increase in divorce rates in current society.
Marriage as an institution isn’t going to work if people keep expecting one side to endure majority of the Ls and be neglected and made to feel like shyt for nothing.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

And that's the reason things are so chaotic in the black community. Cats doing whatever pleases them and not having a set way living that works for everyone.

Have a good one.

On this we can definitely agree.

 

[ColdSlither]

People cheat. You're not going to be attracted to your partner for life. That's just not realistic. This is pretty foul though. But if you're going to do your dirt, then keep it away from home. You don't tell no one about it, and it stays between you and cheat partner. Or as my friend put it, "I don't care who he puts his dikk in. He better keep his dirt away from these doorsteps and my knowledge, don't bring home a STD, don't get the bytch pregnant, and make sure that check comes home every other Friday."

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

OP's friend should just fukk his wife in the ass.
problem solved.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

This face turn of yours is both and

Like u ain’t the same dude who pretended to be an Arab sheik to cause drama between a black woman and her black fiancé

that was old malc in 2017
can yall let people grow and mature??

fred

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

F) She finds out because you'll eventually get caught, takes you to the cleaners, you become a weekend dad, she finds some else who gets to spend more time with your children than you do while you folk over money to a household you don't even live in.

G.) Discretion is a superpower. Stay. Play your role as a woman. Support him. Raise your beautiful children. But play up the “you don’t like your body, that’s why I’m ashamed to be seen” shyt. Get the courtship, affection, long stroke/freaky shyt from the side dikk work husband. Nobody ever finds out and the marriage makes to that 45 year anniversary while nobody ever suspected the side dikk is what kept ya’ll together.
(Advice from them older usher board 80+ year old women who had 50 year marriages and shyt. Maaaannn don’t let the bifocals fool ya. Them lil grannies are cut throat. “BABY! You ain’t gotta let the sun know what the moon doing!”)

thats why i can never cheat on my wife...woat betrayal ...ol girl almost died and u gonna cheat on her cause her stomach looks like the battle of Stalingrad

fred

But yeah I feel you. People just don’t know what love and integrity are. If somebody doesn’t do me wrong and we are in it together, I don’t care what the temptation is, I’m with you. Reciprocity is so important these days.

 

[Nigerianwonder]

So the hypothetical possibility that somebody could break into your home and you might be required to defend your family allows you to betray your vows and cheat on your wife
Do you guys actually listen to the things you say

No I'm saying if you think a woman is equal to a man in a relationship then she should put her dikk up.

A man can fulfill his duties as the leader, father and protector of his family and still get some tail on the side. You dont control your sexual/ physical attraction. If your woman balloons to 300 lbs is it your fault you don't find her attractive any more? Of course not. But there is more to a relationship than just sex so leaving someone who has 2 of your kids over that is silly when you can just get a side piece to handle that issue. He still loves her and provides for her and the family.

 

[Sccit]

FAKE LAUGH ROOTED IN DEFENSIVENESS

ANSWER THE QUESTION

 

[13473]

No I'm saying if you think a woman is equal to a man in a relationship then she should put her dikk up.

A man can fulfill his duties as the leader, father and protector of his family and still get some tail on the side. You dont control your sexual/ physical attraction. If your woman balloons to 300 lbs is it your fault you don't find her attractive any more? Of course not. But there is more to a relationship than just sex so leaving someone who has 2 of your kids over that is silly when you can just get a side piece to handle that issue. He still loves her and provides for her and the family.

you don't control attraction but you control your actions
if you are unable to control your actions, then you need to step down from the role of "leader"

you are not protecting your family by

• exposing your wife to stds
• risking your family's financial stability when you guys have to split your income when you knock someone up
• or even losing u when your sidepiece kills you like Steve McNair

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

She got 2 young kids in her late 30s and a jacked up body. She divorce him she gonna die alone with a dog. Yall need to stop. Nobody wifing that up. Loss of physical/ sexual attraction can definitely happen in any relationship especially if someones body changes. If he is still doing his job as a provider and father what does it matter? People work out arrangements all the time. If he needs a side piece then so be it.

 

[Luken]

i wouldnt cheat

tell her to hit the gym and wear a tanktop

all i need is the ass this why i dont condone foreplay

foreplay the best part my nikka

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

you don't control attraction but you control your actions
if you are unable to control your actions, then you need to step down from the role of "leader"

you are not protecting your family by

• exposing your wife to stds
• risking your family financially to potentially having to split your income when you knock someone up
• or even losing u when your sidepiece kills you like Steve McNair

Yep. A “leader” without self control is just a liability with followers.
Expose your partner to stds and potential violence from side bytches, embarrassment and humiliation to your children…all because you can’t stay true and falling prey to lust.

 

[Verbal Kint]

I'm getting a divorce. I'd take my wife back in a heartbeat, stretch marks and all. She's still fine though. But man I have no desire to be out here in these streets. I just wanna lay on the couch with my wife and watch whatever uninteresting NBC show she's in to at the moment. I just want to rub her feet after a long day and go on date nights. Tell your boy that ain't nothing better for a man than a good woman

 

[Nigerianwonder]

you don't control attraction but you control your actions
if you are unable to control your actions, then you need to step down from the role of "leader"

you are not protecting your family by

• exposing your wife to stds
• risking your family's financial stability when you guys have to split your income when you knock someone up
• or even losing u when your sidepiece kills you like Steve McNair

Yep. A “leader” without self control is just a liability with followers.
Expose your partner to stds and potential violence from side bytches, embarrassment and humiliation to your children…all because you can’t stay true and falling prey to lust.

The greatest leaders in history had side pieces. was MLK not a great man and leader? Nelson Mandela? Ali? Name 1 great man or leader in history who was faithful. They all had hoes while married. Yall live in fantasy land.

And I'm not advising he lie to her or do it behind her back. I'm saying make an arrangement that they can live with. Nobody will go sexless for very long in a relationship. Cheating in this scenario is inevitable. Since he doesnt want to have sex with her he might be cool with her having some simp on the side as well. That's for them to work out but pretending it aint an issue wont solve anything and make both miserable.