My Ex Got Engaged, Keeps Blowing up my Phone :UPDATE: Blocked her and told her to not txt

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You are naive. But I won't fault you for just trying to be polite. You just didn't realize the ways of a scandalous woman on a mission. But you will learn today :ufdup:

However, I love a good love story. So before assumptions are made, are you happy in your current relationship? Do you wish to save your ex from marriage? :popcorn3:

To your first question; Very mcuh so, I'm going to marry her.

To your 2nd question: No, but I have to admit some shyt...

When she told me, I reactivated my facebook to see if she was trolling or being srs cuz of the short turnaround.


I have to ask myself why I even did that. :francis:

Maybe I was lowkey petty too
 

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head... :patrice:

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.:usure:



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


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He's lame, she miss you, she tryna make you jelly and it's failing. :camby: her. I did that to my ex. She stay getting curved by me. Be a former fashion model for CK but get curved by a smart goal orientated breh. Some women don't get it, but when you done with em, you done. holla!
 

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She's lying.

checked the fbook, she's being legit. :yeshrug:


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Call her out breh. It's 2016. Women need to be held accountable. Ask her politely, why she feels the need to constantly contact you.
Who that in ya mothafukkin avy doe? She needs to be held accountable for having my dikk rise up :dame:
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Or do this, i did this once when this girl was mad at me and started sending me shyt. Everytime she would send me a text cussing me out or shyt i'd be like "I don't know man I think this might be J Cole's year"
 

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checked the fbook, she's being legit. :yeshrug:


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Breh, I think you still like her. Why you keeping up with her? :camby: her. Light skin educated single women are a dime a dozen in the South. She seem like she got a type. She like Igbos I bet. I remember them types. They go to each one till one it sprung and wife her up. Leave her alone. If it didn't work and she wasn't worth fighting for, she ain't worth even this thread b.
 

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How was yall relationship/friendship before the engagement?
Did she contact u regularly before or this something completely new

Nah not regularly. I dont text people like that, but we run into each other often. Maybe twice a month.
Nigerian community always goes to the same events/parties/churches.

Always friendly and cordial, never anything extra.

Never saw her with a man
 

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Breh, I think you still like her. Why you keeping up with her? :camby: her. Light skin educated single women are a dime a dozen in the South. She seem like she got a type. She like Igbos I bet. I remember them types. They go to each one till one it sprung and wife her up. Leave her alone. If it didn't work and she wasn't worth fighting for, she ain't worth even this thread b.

I wasn't, I didn't even have facebook activated.
But you right, I fukked up by even turning it back on to check.

I dont still like her, but checking to see if she was telling the truth was a mistake, I agree.

You right, this thread was probably more attention than I should even be paying to the situation.
I should be making threads about my current girl, not my engaged ex.


I think i'm exposing myself a bit here :wow:
 

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Marriage aint gon last long... Sounds like she has a brother that's good on paper, she just aint feeling him like she was feeling you.... even though she mentioned that true love shyt, which is easy for a chick to say.....

Remind yourself of why she's your ex & K.I.M.
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