My Ex Got Engaged, Keeps Blowing up my Phone :UPDATE: Blocked her and told her to not txt

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head... :patrice:

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.:usure:



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


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Stay away, bro.

She's setting you up.

This is nothing but trouble.
 

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She try rub it in your face and make you jealous to see if you still got feelings, honestly you shouldn't even entertain her and just ignore the text or at least text her one last time explaining why you're going to be ignoring her just my 2 cents
 

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head... :patrice:

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.:usure:



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


EDIT: Free daps for advice
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was this out of the blue or have ya'll been in constant contact with each other?

sounds to me like she tryna make you jealous and see if she still has you....or....she tryna find a way to jump ship and just wants to hear you say you messed up and how you wish you was the nikka she was gonne marry.

either way, i'd just laugh at her pettyness while also :salute:yourself cuz even though she with a new nikka, you still on her mind. :win:
 

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Some chick I used to see ended up getting married a year and a half ago but she be texting me all the time trying to talk: "oh hey I'm around your area visiting my aunt," text @ 7am "hey what's up, how you been just thought about you and wanted to say hi," "You still in Queens? I'm moving to Brooklyn" :why: A month or so before she got married she was texting me shyt like "I had a dream about you last night, blah blah blah."

meanwhile this chick stay posting pics of her husband and son on FB looking happy as fukk. I swear these women are something else.
 

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head... :patrice:

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.:usure:



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.



She's just trying to make you jealous & angry. Inform her that now that's she's engaged to be married that it's not proper etiquette to communicate with her any longer for whatever reason & keep it moving. If you're still somewhat friendly with your ex, then tell her the exact same thing, but also add a disclaimer 'unless it's about a serious matter or strictly business related' & these type of calls/texts should stop.
 
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