My Ex Got Engaged, Keeps Blowing up my Phone :UPDATE: Blocked her and told her to not txt

Tom Foolery

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head... :patrice:

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.:usure:



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


EDIT: Free daps for advice

EDIT2: Great advice brehs and brehettes. U told her to stop txting me, deleted our convo and blocked her.

This thread just exposed the fact that anything short of blocking her was foolish on my part.:wow:

Breh, never waste time and mental energy trying to figure out a woman. especially one you are not in a relationship with.

shyt won't make sense and never will.
 

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Sounds like she wants you to be jealous and try to fight to get her back, despite the fact that you have a girl. I don't think she's fully over you. She probably wanted you to be the one she got engaged to. :yeshrug:
lol, she's the one who ran away though :francis: sounds like she realized she made a mistake and is mad that he moved on with someone else. I mean, who gets engaged barely a year after ending a relationship and then thinks about inviting the ex. The only time you would invite an ex to a wedding is if you two go way back and grew up with each other and your relationship was over like a decade ago.
 

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What if the Nigerian doctor isn't some regular doctor but a witch doctor and he hits you with some crazy juju :whoa:

You did the right thing.
 
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