My Ex Got Engaged, Keeps Blowing up my Phone :UPDATE: Blocked her and told her to not txt

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She is either not satisfied with him or she is rubbing it in because she feels like she found better.

If she found better :yeshrug:.


Its just weird to me cuz she was never this type before
 

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@The Wave it was supposed to be you, not him. She's upset about it or wants you to realize that someone else wanted what you didn't. I've had exes try and reach out later trying to make me jealous. Never worked, never will.

Maybe it's time to cease all communication. I never really understood the point of keeping in touch with exes. It's not like I'd invite any of them to my wedding.
 

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I wouldn't even pay it any mind. She just trying to get a rise out of you, or see if "you still care". Its that, "before I get married let me make sure me and @The Wave dont have a chance" behavior I wouldn't even worry about blocking her and all that.

I'd congratulate her and be like "sure invite me plus one":ehh:, and bring my girl along.:win:


Seriously though, just be like I'm happy for you, I wouldn't even do all that extra blocking, and all that. She'd never get the false illusion I'm losing sleep over her:umad:
 

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@The Wave it was supposed to be you, not him. She's upset about it or wants you to realize that someone else wanted what you didn't. I've had exes try and reach out later trying to make me jealous. Never worked, never will.

Maybe it's time to cease all communication. I never really understood the point of keeping in touch with exes. It's not like I'd invite any of them to my wedding.

Appreciate the advice.

The bolded is a little difficult cuz her family and my family are best of friends.
But I agree with you, there is no reason I should have responded to those txt.

I probably fukked up trying to be polite
 

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"

:mjlol:

women yall....
 

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I wouldn't even pay it any mind. She just trying to get a rise out of you, or see if "you still care". Its that, "before I get married let me make sure me and @The Wave dont have a chance" behavior I wouldn't even worry about blocking her and all that.

I'd congratulate her and be like "sure invite me plus one":ehh:, and bring my girl along.:win:


Seriously though, just be like I'm happy for you, I wouldn't even do all that extra blocking, and all that. She'd never get the false illusion I'm losing sleep over her:umad:


You right breh.

Actually i'm starting to rethink my original post, maybe she is petty?
She saw me with my girl for the first time in november and was like "Oh this is your girlfriend? Do you even bring her to Church and events?"

I didn't think anything of it back then.

Maybe I'm naive
 

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Call her out breh. It's 2016. Women need to be held accountable. Ask her politely, why she feels the need to constantly contact you.
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You right breh.

Actually i'm starting to rethink my original post, maybe she is petty?
She saw me with my girl for the first time in november and was like "Oh this is your girlfriend? Do you even bring her to Church and events?"

I didn't think anything of it back then.

Maybe I'm naive

You are naive. But I won't fault you for just trying to be polite. You just didn't realize the ways of a scandalous woman on a mission. But you will learn today :ufdup:

However, I love a good love story. So before assumptions are made, are you happy in your current relationship? Do you wish to save your ex from marriage? :popcorn3:
 
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