As far as women staying with the same bad men, a lot of times, it’s because they don’t want to be alone, and don’t want to go through the process of being single again, and waiting to meet someone new, and getting to know the new man, and taking a risk for him. There is comfort in familiarity. And you know we spin the block in between relationships to those old reliable women we don’t have to put new effort in, and can smash any time.
The problem with shaming the hoes is, those are the women getting wifed. I’ve seen it too many times. Men would rather try to calm the whore because she’s fun, and knows what she’s doing in bed, than wife the good girl who is predictable, loyal, and safe. This isn’t just limited to black men. I know several white women who were major whores, who are now married suburban moms. Not shockingly, they messed with black men, but married white men.
A lot of y’all don’t want to admit you LIKE a challenge.