I've decided I'm not signing the birth certificate. What now? (I gave up...)

[Fiji Water]

sooooo....Your kid has a bytch's last name breh?....

This doesn't even make sense.

 

[beenz]

I'm here for laughs about it at this point but I also have questions. Is there any way I can be forced to list myself in the future? Am I wrong for feeling guilty? Should I still try to be in the child's life?

The scenario is fukked up, obviously. Timeline wise, I'm somewhat sure the kid is mine but I can't gamble with this. I also wanted the kid and thought she did, too. This woman threatened to get an abortion and once that window closed, she decided to share that she was being shared. Multiple ex boyfriends, old high school flame and her manager. Not to mention some of my so called "friends". At least one.

Not all while she was pregnant but apparently throughout our relationship which has been a little less than 2 years. We broken up now and I'm moving in a month, hopefully less.

During that discussion about moving, she asked if I would still go to appointments and be there for the birth. I said I'd do whatever I can work permitting as a duty to my potential kid. I thought that was more than nice.

She said if I show up I have to sign the birth certificate. I made it clear I won't be doing that without a DNA test. Her ultimatum was that if I don't plan to sign, I don't need to be there for anything including the birth.

Nah, fukk all that. If I'm not 100 percent sure, I'm not signing shyt. So here we are.

I don't think u can be forced to pay child support if u not on the birth certificate.

 

[360dagod]

@Fiji Water

My guy...

fukk her and fukk what she says about you..

Run and Start over

 

[maxamusa]

This doesn't even make sense.

Correct me if I'm wrong...but if you don't participate on the birth certificate doesn't it default to child having mother's last name?

 

[Fiji Water]

Update:

We fell out completely and she attacked me physically twice. I called the cops and filed a report.

At this point, and I doubt it will change, I am going to have to do the worst thing I think I'll ever do. I'm going to abandon my potential kid. No test. No signature. I'm going to disappear from it all.

 

[360dagod]

Update:

We fell out completely and she attacked me physically twice. I called the cops and filed a report.

At this point, and I doubt it will change, I am going to have to do the worst thing I think I'll ever do. I'm going to abandon my potential kid. No test. No signature. I'm going to disappear from it all.

U deserved it smh

 

[Sway]

Update:

We fell out completely and she attacked me physically twice. I called the cops and filed a report.

At this point, and I doubt it will change, I am going to have to do the worst thing I think I'll ever do. I'm going to abandon my potential kid. No test. No signature. I'm going to disappear from it all.

Damn.

 

[Fiji Water]

U deserved it smh

???

How?

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

Update:

We fell out completely and she attacked me physically twice. I called the cops and filed a report.

At this point, and I doubt it will change, I am going to have to do the worst thing I think I'll ever do. I'm going to abandon my potential kid. No test. No signature. I'm going to disappear from it all.

Terrible.

Do not punish your child for the sins of their mother.

 

[Coco Loco]

Correct me if I'm wrong...but if you don't participate on the birth certificate doesn't it default to child having mother's last name?

Unless this is a specific state rule, I've never heard of this. If he's not there she can put hers, his or hyphenate it. Literally any last name can be put on there

 

[Balla]

Terrible.

Do not punish your child for the sins of their mother.

Might not be his. He should get a test because she’ll most likely claim it’s his.

 

[Nkrumah Was Right]

Might not be his. He should get a test because she’ll most likely claim it’s his.

Agreed.

 

[old pig]

Update:

We fell out completely and she attacked me physically twice. I called the cops and filed a report.

At this point, and I doubt it will change, I am going to have to do the worst thing I think I'll ever do. I'm going to abandon my potential kid. No test. No signature. I'm going to disappear from it all.

she continues to sound IMPOSSIBLE to deal with…tough tough situation smh

 

[Elle Seven]

That little baby is going to be completely at her mama's mercy, no matter who her daddy is. Truly a sad situation.

 

[Kasher Juan]

Don't sign it until you get the DNA test. Idk why they aren't mandatory for all births. It would save so many people from a lot of heartache and hassle.

Society would collapse