Bruh… sometimes people do change on you… you add a baby to the equation and sometimes that other person becomes damn near unrecognizable…. Some dudes catch wind of a baby coming and start falling back… or sometimes you knock a broad up and she turn psycho overnight…..I get it
HOWEVER, most people after knowing them for 3-12months, you kinda have an idea if they are husband/wife/mother/father material…. Or not…..There are typically signs, but there are important convos that need to be had too, that many of us just seem to skip over…. A lot of people just focus on the fact that they’re having great sex with the other person, your bonding and kicking it but when we get caught up in that, many of us neglect the little red flags … which is our own fault and nobody else’s….
The black community has an out of wedlock rate of almost 72%… let that sink in… nikkas gotta have more accountability for how our lives turn out… everybody can’t be innocent… many of us are just out here making foolish decisions with our dikks/vaginas… I’ll tell you what, other communities out of wedlock rate ain’t that high…
I love my people but it is what it is G