The biggest conundrum is how the girls who look worse in person get wayyyyyy more matches and attention than the men who look better in personThere in lies the problem, online dating is too impersonal. The vibe just ain’t there and it’s like shopping on Amazon. When you approach in real time you can feel the nervous anticipation energy. You can feel that it’s natural.
Online that shyt too “who can take the best photos and flex” game. Hard to seriously compete if you don’t wanna invest in the best of the best pictures. Plus the girls be looking better than they actually are. Look good online then be a few points lower in a real meeting. I can get matches but it’s too transactional for me.
The whole game is fukked up