Babygirl, i've known you for what... 10 years now?
Of all the contributions you've made throughout the years, i've almost always concurred or commended it.
This is the first time i just have to say, i'm really disappointed to find that your parents, or rather, "upbringing" dictated the ferver for your socio-economical dating flavor.
Now, as a slightly above minimum wage as mothafukka like me who still lives with momma, i'll tell you this much; women who date me know i ain't cakin' off the bat, i'll let them know that i'm working at start up business and it doesn't take a genius to know there ain't much in it... but this is the kicker in the proverbial snicker: once i get that first date in... every single woman has stuck around and still communicate with me to this very day (and the only reason why i didn't pursue the bid into a relationship was cuz my options are so broad - so its all me more than anything).
How you make a woman feel trumps how she feels about the loot you pull and your social clout - all that is a distant requirement if you're a person of morality, charisma, wit, charm, superb story teller and giving off the impression as though you are the best thing that will ever happen to her life.
Most people here, beyond the confines of the internet don't know shiit about dating. I'll put it out there by the sheer numbers of people who contribute and still fumble with it left and right (so called affluent and educated people like John Goodman and Ramb Damb, if not ranting about business and finance or making money - it's their woes with women).
I'll tell you what, i've dated all kinds of women; lawyers (2, one was a paralegal, another a defense attorney), amazon.com I.T. manager, a pharmacist, and a slew of regular women... and besides their lifestyles, at the core they're all essentially identical.
A woman has NEVER dismissed me based on my earning power (or lack thereof). As a matter of fact, blind fold me, drop me in the middle of any city USA and in any situation/predicament, leave with a white t-shirt, gym shorts and a pair scuffed chucks and i guarantee you, irregardless of how much education she's had, how many certs are in her possession, how prominent she is in her community - gawt damnit if she was a political figure's daughter or royalty - there is something all women look for in a mate that is beyond the ideologies of money and status... but it takes a special, extremely confident kind of man who can exude that kind of psychological power and attraction.
As a matter of fact, if i wanted to...
i could take you from your man right now.
Think i'm bullshytting?
Toss any of your fellow elitist friends my way and we'll see what it do and if Howie is all bullshiit talk or if his swag and walk is really so gawt damn high...
... he gives daps to jesus before he takes a shower in holy water made from angel piss and period juice.
Swear to black deity, i hate threads like this so damn much. The only people who are let astray or influenced by these kinds of articles/journals are the entitled lemmings who think they should be placed on greater hierarchy of the social elitist echelon. But bytches wrong.
Think for yourself. Fall for your type. Be with somebody due to matters of the heart.
All my fellow fellas in the struggle, don't ever think for one second you can't land a woman earning 6 figures and has multiple degrees, driving a range to the club range and eating a club sandwich made from chickens that's free range.
Cuz all that, "Oh, she's gonna use that one day in the relationship to look down on you and undermine you and condescend your ass into oblivion." NO! All women can be lead, irregardless of their tax bracket or occupation. As a man, you don't get discouraged by the numbers or the facade - because a man who knows his strengths and abilities and leads his own life has a certain value that can't be purchased.
Invaluable traits are what makes a man priceless.
Don't let society tell you otherwise.
And i'm gone.
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